Could my girlfriend get pregnant if the condom went in with a trace of pre-cum on it?
Q. Me and my girlfriend see each other rarely, well only on weekends, due to her exams. We are both always wanting to have sex. The only problem is, when I was getting ready *putting the condom on* I accidently went to put it on the wrong way and put ...
A. 23 May 2005: YES. if in doubt you should take emergency contraceptive asap. The pill is more effective if taken within 24 hrs, it gets less effective 24hrs-48hrs and alot less effective 48hrs-72 hrs and after that its basically useless. If this happ... (read in full...)
My girl always brings her friend with her when we go out... Now I'm interested in the friend.
Q. Hi, I'm in quite a state at the moment because I am with a girl but she always comes out with her friend. This wouldn't be a bad thing if I didn't start having feelings for her friend... What can I do?...
A. 23 May 2005: @HTH: Most girls wont stay loyal, same with men also, everyone are out for themselves and its always the best friends not normal friends that have this problem so i dont think loyalty exists for most people. Best friends should be alot more loyal ... (read in full...)
He wasn't able to have sex with me, so I broke up with him..
Q. I broke up with a man who I had a four month relationship, love him so much, everything was perfect except sex, he could not perform intercourse, he said he was not impotent, but I think it is psychological, he is only 41. I wrote him a letter, ...
A. 23 May 2005: If you are looking for sex why not become a prostitute? You would also get paid for it (so no need to keep your job)! :D Breaking up with someone you love for such a pathetic thing, i mean its not like he said he never wanted sex with you and ref... (read in full...)
Was I stupid for not picking up on the clues that he had a girlfriend already?
Q. Last December, I started this job and almost immediately developed a crush on a coworker. I thought the feeling was reciprocated. The extent of our relationship was walking home together. A month goes by, and...nothing. I figured he hasn't asked me...
A. 23 May 2005: And you liked that piece of shit? He wouldve only cheated on you...... (read in full...)
Somehow, I just don't think I'm any good at sex!
Q. I feel that I am rubbish at sex. I have had several sexual partners but always feel that I am doing it wrong and am not giving them enough pleasure. I enjoy doing foreplay with them but when it comes to sex, I feel that I am not moving in the way ...
A. 20 May 2005: You need to practise your techniques i think. Read up using books..you laugh but all sexperts do and thats why they are experts. As well as just talking about positions and techniques etc. most of these books would tell you about that confidence ... (read in full...)
My internet guy is too old for me right now, but he says he'll wait. What do I do?
Q. Hey I am a 15 year old girl and I am really confused! There is this 19 year old guy that I talk to on the internet a lot but I have never officialy met him but I have seen him around. I like him and he likes me but my parents wouldn't like me with ...
A. 20 May 2005: Why should you wait? lol, the age gap wont get any smaller, trust me! :D... (read in full...)
He's only said he loves me once... and that was when he was drunk!
Q. We've been together 16 months and i still don't know how he truly feels...... I have been with my boyfriend 16 months and things were rocky at the start of the realtionship, this was due to the situation of him living with his ex. he's only ever tol...
A. 20 May 2005: Just because someone cant/doesnt say "i love you", doesn't mean they dont love you. Its the hardest 3 words to say to someone. Some people can say it easily and others cant.... (read in full...)
How can I get divorced if my husband won't sign the papers?
Q. Me and my husband have been together for about 14 years and he started to beat me, so I want a divorce. Every time I bring him the divorce papers he refuses to sign them. Is there a way for me to divorce him without him signing the papers? Please ...
A. 19 May 2005: Seek legal advice.... (read in full...)
Five years together, a house and a puppy... but no engagement yet!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years this coming weekend. We have a house together and are in process of purchasing a puppy. BUT, he hasn't popped the question yet. He says it will come in due time, but I'm getting sick of waiting. I kind of ...
A. 19 May 2005: STOP BEING A SELFISH BITCH!!! Ok, sorry to be harsh and an offense to the female canine population out there, but why should he? Why do you think living with a bloke for 5 years he should propose to you? He will do it when it feels right, p... (read in full...)
She takes goes to parties and she takes drugs sometimes. I love her, but hate the drugs!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 1.5 years - we have a very strong relationship - in the past she has occasionally gone out to parties and taken drugs, she went out the other weekend and did it, had the best time (she says)... I don't like it at ...
A. 19 May 2005: break up, sounds strange, but if she loves you she would want you back and try to leave the drugs, also will make your relationship stronger if done correctly. How big is the drug problems? Perhaps she needs help?... (read in full...)
My boy mate asked me out, but he's a year younger than me...
Q. I was asked out by a boy and he's my mate. He's 1 year younger than me and I dunno if I should go out with him. please help...
A. 19 May 2005: GROW UP! You would go out with a guy a year older, two years, maybe even a few... But why wouldnt you go out with a boy because he is younger then you?... (read in full...)
A difficult choice: two men want to marry me!
Q. Wealthy man or sexy man? I have two chasing me, and almost cannot believe how this blew up all of a sudden. One is stable and caring, another is like lightning bolts in terms of our chemistry, and just kissing him gives me chills. It woul...
A. 19 May 2005: SAY YOU ARE NOT READY FRO MARRIAGE Then keep going on dates so you can pick one. ... (read in full...)
How can I seem more "experienced" when I have sex with my boyfriend?
Q. Dear cupid How do I seem experienced when it would be my first time? My boyfriend thinks I'm a non-virgin. Please help? ...
A. 15 May 2005: Few options 1. Gain the experience before hand... 2. "Confidence" makes you seem more experienced... (read in full...)
Does sex have to be performed naked? Will I look odd if I want to leave some clothes on?
Q. Hello, My question is about sex. As I am a virgin female aged 20, I am nervous about sex mainly because I don't want to be naked. I am not embarrassed but think it would be nicer to leave some clothes on or use a blanket to feel less exposed ...
A. 14 May 2005: Believe it or not a lot of women (not being sexist so i guess its the same with some men) only will have sex under the bedcovers (so not exposed) and others only with the light off. If you just want to shag someone, for the sake of it, you are g... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?
Q. hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...
A. 12 May 2005: Avoid dairy products such as milk, egg, cheese etc. this give cum a very foul taste. Apparently, fruits give it a sweet taste.... (read in full...)
I've fallen hard for my online boyfriend, but he has one odd and annoying habit...
Q. I have been chatting to this guy on the net for 9 months now. I have fallen so hard for him and he has told me that he feels the same way. We get along so well most of the time, but he has this habit of going offline when we have an argument and ...
A. 12 May 2005: Answer to your question is I don't know yet...meeting up with a model from Canada soon I really like, so if that goes well, I guess its possible.... (read in full...)
My bf wears his wedding ring on a chain around his neck. It makes me feel like I don't count!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. He has been divorced for about a year or so but he still wears his wedding ring on his necklace. This makes me feel like I am nothing in comparsion to his ex. He never tells me he loves me. When I a...
A. 11 May 2005: I agree with Rebecca. I also think you should end the relationship because it simply comes down to not having any respect for you and imo you becoming second best to a woman who he has been divorced from. I'm not religious or nout but people... (read in full...)
I want another baby but my husband keeps saying "it's not the right time"...
Q. My husband and I have been together 15 years, since we were teenagers. We did the usual stuff - talking about marriage, kids and all that. When we talked about family, we always had 2 children in mind . We now have a child who has started ...
A. 10 May 2005: I'm afraid it has to be a joint decision. Maybe when he means not the right time, he not mean it's not the right month, year etc. Maybe he means not the right time of day?? I don't know what the problems were, whether they were RE: your sexual ... (read in full...)
Is he just stressed from exams, or is he being rude to me?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and he has exams going up and is stressed. He takes it out on me and has said he hates me relgion. Is it stress or just plain rude?...
A. 10 May 2005: I'm not religious but I expect religious people take great pride in their religion and it being more important I suppose then a relationship. If he can't respect your religion, your beliefs, then I don't think he has any respect for you, and you... (read in full...)
My b/f won't even try a long-distance relationship while he's away. Instead, he just broke up...
Q. My boyfriend of over two years is leaving in about a month for military training and will be gone for a year and has decided he doesn't want to try to have a long distance relationship. He told me after he broke up with me that he did somethin...
A. 10 May 2005: You wont like my answer, but here it goes... If he doesnt WANT a long distance relationship you shouldn't force him, as you wouldn't want him to force you into anything you dont want to do. If he is going to some war (anything that isn't ca... (read in full...)
I'm almost 13 and he's almost 18 and my folks are freaking out!
Q. I'm 12 turning 13 in 7 days and I'm going out with a 17 year old boy who's getting ready to turn 18, and my parents won't let me go anywhere, do anything with him, even if people she trusts is there with us. My dad won't let me hold his hand. It's r...
A. 10 May 2005: Its sick imo. 5 yrs is abit of a gap, but if you love each other that isn't an issue. An 18 yr old cant have a proper love relationship without having a sexual side to it, and 13 is likely to be under age in your country which is illegal, i... (read in full...)
Do I tell the girl that I've fallen for her, and risk rejection, or keep it to myself?
Q. I have fallen in love with a girl who is my friend and I've told some of her friends how I feel and this has caused friction between them, as the girl I love wants to know what I told them. Therefore I would like to know whether I should tell gir...
A. 10 May 2005: I am so much like that, worried about rejection and all that. Basically, if you keep it to yourself your shit out, if you are rejected your shit out, if you are not rejected then everythings cool, its worth the risk imo. She is obviously bot... (read in full...)
Don't know whether to marry my "a-bit-boring" boyfriend, or not!
Q. I have been with boyfriend for over 5 years now and we are about to get married this year. We also have a place together. In the beginning I was truly in love with him and couldn't imagine my life without him, but as time went by I fell out of l...
A. 9 May 2005: Sounds fair enough to me 8-) If you get married you should stop seeing the other guy.... (read in full...)
I sometime fantasise about my best girlfriend. Does that make me a lesbian?
Q. A while ago I told one of my best girlfriends that I fancied her and she was OK with it. She is a year above me but we are stil really good mates. I think about her all the time and don't know what to do. The other day I told her that I loved he...
A. 9 May 2005: Bisexual?!? If you have feelings for someone.. being with someone else whether male or female, wont over-rule fade out the feelings you have for the other person. Most people would say lesbian as you went with a boy that didn't stop your feelings, ... (read in full...)
I just can't say 'I love you', even though my partner says it to me.
Q. I have had long-term relationships in the past and loved every single guy but they never really loved me back until I met my current partner. He is always telling me he loves me but I just can't say it back. I don't understand why. Pls help. ...
A. 8 May 2005: It's natural, a lot of people in love can't say those three simple words to each other. This doesn't at all mean that they don't love each other.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 May 2005: Whats the ages? If she is 30-40 then it isn't such a big deal than if she is 18-20.... (read in full...)
She hints that she wants our relationship to change, but won't tell me what she wants...
Q. My girlfriend is questioning our relationship but she won't tell me what it is that she wants to change, so I feel like im losing her. She wants us to work it out but she dosn't think we can. She likes another guy who I think will hurt her. No oth...
A. 7 May 2005: Propose to her (if you really like her), that's the only way. Sshe has her eye on someone she likes better then you and she doesn't want you to both work out, as she wants the other guy. You are losing her. This might seem like jumping the gun, but ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has been acting weird and different... is she cheating?
Q. I just wanted some help on this situation. Me and my Girlfriend have been together a year and 2 months now. I'm 17, she's 22. Yea she's old for me. We have been together off and on. We are now, we have a kid together. She already has a 3 year old...
A. 7 May 2005: I wouldn't trust her if I was you, in fact I would say get the hell out! But...you have a child which complicates matters... If she has to go to her girlfriends house to give medicine, why don't you go too? There's no reason why you can't go, if... (read in full...)
She accepted my proposal 6 months ago, but now she says I might not be The One..!
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 1/2 years. I asked her to marry me about 6 months ago she said "yes." After that, I thought we were going to live happily ever after. Now she tells me that she is confused, doesn't know what she wants he...
A. 6 May 2005: I think you are right by honouring her space so she can think. After she has had a thought you do need to discuss this through with each other. Don't forget to tell her how you feel for her, the fact you want to live with her for the rest of your ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you don't fancy at first?
Q. I met a guy on holiday last September who I have become good mates with. We have had regular contact via text messaging since being back. I know that he would like us to be more than friends. He is perfect for me. He has all the qualities I look...
A. 5 May 2005: 3 hours is not a long distance away for the man of your dreams. You don't have to fancy someone to love them and like being with them.... (read in full...)
No sex between us... and I think that it's because he's getting off to porn.
Q. Hi, Im going totally crazy at the moment and I dont know what to do please help. Me and my guy are not having sex. Well he tells me that he doesnt want sex and feels that this is putting a strain on things. We always had a high sex drive ...
A. 5 May 2005: First of all, I do understand where you're coming from, that he would rather get off to porn then the real thing with you, but some of the replies ... it's a man's human right to be able to get off to porn like it is for a women to finger herself ... (read in full...)
Everything's going wrong and life feels so stressful!
Q. A few months ago my partner of nine years told me that he had feelings for another woman. Due to this I had to give up my job (she worked with us). Now my partner tells me he wants to be with me but I cannot let it go. He says it started due to m...
A. 5 May 2005: First you should be grateful that he has told you about his feelings. Not a lot of people would. He was honest with you and he treated you with respect by telling you about it. I think you should let it go, you say your sex life is the best, may... (read in full...)
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