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How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   14 June 2007: its 2 weeks, to a outsider thats not a very long time. i understand how it feels when your in the situation, but i dont think forcing him will do anything but push him away at this point. If it keeps draging on then you might have to make him ... (read in full...)

I am athletic, kind and smart! so why doesn't anyone like me?

Q.   I was checking out my crush's myspace... and I found out that he has a girlfriend. I was disappointed, but actually, I'm always disappointed because I never get ANY guys. I'm not sure why no one likes me... I'm smart, kind, and athletic. Help?!?...

A.   14 June 2007: at your age i though no one liked me too, only to find out later there was heaps of people that had the hots for me. people are just shy.. ... (read in full...)

It bothers me when he spends a lot of time with his sisters and not me.

Q.   i am in a relationship with someone for 3 months and my problem is he spends alot of time with his sisters and brother in laws. i dont have a problem with it but when he starts to be with me too much they call constantly. every holiday he spends ...

A.   14 June 2007: I think its great that he is loved by his family shows his good character. maybe he jsut need to be aware, then he can have a more balanced view. ... (read in full...)

A question for the agony uncles... Can breasts be tooooo big???

Q.   Hey... This is a question for the guys i suppose. I was wondering if breasts can be tooo big? I have huge breasts but have heard that more than a handful is too much and theres much more than a handful. Im small in proportion to them. Hmm its been ...

A.   14 June 2007: every guys got different opinion on size of breasts, it would be rare to find a male with any problem with large breast more likely the opposite. on the other side if there is too much strain on your back, then that would be the only reason to do ... (read in full...)

If I give my guy this special b'day present, will he think I'm weird?

Q.   Question for the guys and BE HONEST. If you were dating someone and for your birthday she gave you this present, would you be freaked out? My boyfriend is turning 20 this year and so I've made him a little book. Each page is a reason I love hi...

A.   14 June 2007: I would love that gift, but agree with spanna it depends on how long you have been seeing each other. ... (read in full...)

He beat me after I cheated... can I fix this or should I leave?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months i know that doesn't sound long but in that time i cheated on him three times he found out and cheated on me i don't know how many times and beat the hell out of me then hit me a few times after the ...

A.   14 June 2007: You have to leave there is no option, someone like that deserves to go to jail not be with a nice person. As far as forgivng yourself for cheating on him.. just think why you did it, you might find out that his actions caused u to. He sounds like a ... (read in full...)

Do guys get turned off by pubic hair?

Q.   Do guys get turned off by pubic hair? Im 16 and im scared guys wil think im dirty. plz help ...

A.   13 June 2007: Its a shame you had to even ask. its not a turn of at all. Kinda wrong to think that we think we have to look like children to be attractive to the opposite sex. there are too manny young girls worried about the apperance of there parts even getting ... (read in full...)

I'm in a relationship with a married couple - I am deeply in love with the guy, but sometimes see the woman as competition! I can't take it!

Q.   i am in a relationship with a married couple, i am deeply in love with the man as i met him first and have known him longer, the wife however who is born the day after me but 8 years older, sometimes i like her but other times i see her as ...

A.   13 June 2007: 2 females 1 male and there is jellousy are you kidding? Tough sittuation have work. i personaly dont know of anyone that could cope with that situation. If your feeling jellous i suggest you cant cope with it aswell. Leave and find a new person ... (read in full...)

I have a major crush on a guy that I met recently, but I'm scared to try anything

Q.   I have a major crush on a guy that I met recently, but I'm scared to try anything. Let me explain the situation to make it a little more clear. One of best friends, Gavin, stays in a student house nearby. I met one of his house mates, Richard, ...

A.   13 June 2007: tough call mate, it cant be easy to come out! But you wont ever be able to have a relationship if you cant even tell your best friends. Where are all the guys that have been through this.. Give him advice!... (read in full...)

Do I forgive her or move on?

Q.   My girlfriend and i have been together for 3 years. We are very close and are in love with each other. she has a friend that she knew since in school. she cheated on me 3 times with him while we were together for 3 years. i kept suspecting and a...

A.   13 June 2007: you need to ment trust to be able to continue your relationship. For me the only way i could ever trust someone again is to know why she cheated on me. To find this out you need to be tactful. Explain that you want to trust her again and by knowing ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   13 June 2007: lol im not surprised at you being the communicator :-P. it is not easy moving to a new place esp on relationships. I have been in that situation i was the male working and my gf stayed at home a lot of the time. it was hard for me because she want... (read in full...)

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now but feel I don't love her anymore.

Q.   Hello. I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and we where very much in love. However over the last week i have had feelings that i no longer love her, this hurts and i really want to love her, i can only describe what i am feeling as i ...

A.   13 June 2007: you can fall in love with her again... maybe your too settled or stress at the moment. pretend your dating again, buy her flowers ring her at work to say u love her, she will respond and just pretending to love someone can make u love them again.. ... (read in full...)

He started masturbating on our first date..How do I justify this to my friends.

Q.   He started masturbating on our first date..How do I justify this to my friends. I am with a wonderful guy, everything is great, the first date we had we were both drunk, kissed for a little bit and then I was too drunk, just wanted to go to sleep. I ...

A.   13 June 2007: masturbation is normal and he had respect for your right to say no to sex. he would of been horny as hell proberly should of gone to the bathroom to do it but i bet he didnt think u would wake.. when you get that horny the only way you can sleep is ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant??

Q.   Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i had sex just over a month ago. We used a condom and he did not cum. I got my period a week later but now my period is very late. Like 2 weeks. Is there a chance i'm pregnant? Please write back ...

A.   13 June 2007: you can get pregnant if he didnt fully cum, there can be some fluid on arousal. take the test you will be fine. ... (read in full...)

He told me it would be ok but I didnt want to do it and now I feel dirty!!!

Q.   I have gotten my self into a real pickle and dont know what to do next!! I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and although i havnt slept with him, i love him. I was 15 in may and he was 16 in january and we have like i said been together for ...

A.   13 June 2007: im so sorry that is a terrible experience, its not your fault at all!! dont ever feel bad you did nothign wrong. He shouldnt of forced you at all!!! i wish i could say something to make you feel better... It is date rape, and its up to you to ... (read in full...)

How do I bring up the subject of my fiery girlfriend's smelly punani with her?

Q.   My girlfriend really smells-It really especially puts me off if I have to go down on her and she really smells awful. Sometimes the smell is so bad that I can smell it when she simply takes off her thong before even going down there. I think maybe ...

A.   13 June 2007: need to see a doc, can be types of food she eats can be infections, can be type of clothing, std ect worth getting it checked out cotton breaths and can help a lot, but i guess if she sees a doc they will tell her that. ... (read in full...)

I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?

Q.   I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...

A.   12 June 2007: There is no such thing as normal everyones different. you sound like a genuine person and i know there are females out there that would love you. Maybe you need to be proactive in you search and fake your confidence, dont stress about needing to ... (read in full...)

He won't even be friends with me and he seemed so sweet and genuine previously.

Q.   I was seeing this guy for a few months, he was very quiet and shy and very awkward and nervous around girls, but I persisted as I thought he just needed a bit of confidence and experience. He told people he liked me and I liked him, yet when we met ...

A.   12 June 2007: 1 not everyone is perfectly match, i have been with girls that i found communciation difficult becuase of the difference in interest/personality. or 2 he did really like you but his lack of experience resulted in the brakedown of the relation... (read in full...)

I'm 15 yrs old and totally confused about love

Q.   hi. I'm 15 yrs old and totally confused about love..ya see my problem is I seem to love alot of lads and don no why or who to go for so that were i need your help so plez help me... theres this lad i wrk wit recently i never used to fancy h...

A.   12 June 2007: your 15 and learning what relationships are all about. 1. your dont need a boyfriend and there is nothing wrong with likeing more than one person esp at your age. personaly i think that a major part of growing up is learning about yourself, this... (read in full...)

I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too.

Q.   I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too. She came clean with me though, and told me how she really didn't like this other guy, but ...

A.   12 June 2007: I have lived through something like that, except it was an ex that i still loved.. There is no right and wrong answer if u think you have the strengh to keep up the suport without a relationship then go for it. I think it might take a bit of time ... (read in full...)

Can I recover from incest?

Q.   Can I recover from incest? I would like to recover from the incest that i had with my brother. I Love my fiance and I dont want to lose him. How can i forgive myself, recover from this and keep with my life and keep living without any harm or heal...

A.   12 June 2007: incest is part of growing up for many people its not a big deal and you dont need faith in god to be forgiven. Everything in life happened for a reason, and if there was a lesson learned from your experiences then that was the reason for it ... (read in full...)

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