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writes:I have a major crush on a guy that I met recently, but I'm scared to try anything.Let me explain the situation to make it a little more clear. One of best friends, Gavin, stays in a student house nearby. I met one of his house mates, Richard, the other day, and I'm smitten! Not only is he gorgeous, but he's also a great guy. The catch? I don't know if he's gay or not, and I'm scared to freak him out, as this would make visiting at Gavin's place a problem! Also, Gavin doesnt know that I'm gay. If Richard was willing to date, I really wouldn't mind letting Gavin know. Gavin would probably be fine with it, and we're really good friends so he wouldn't be a problem if he knew, but I've always kept an attitude of "the less people that know, the better." I'm still in the closet, so try to stay discreet.
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reader, wildturkey  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 tough call mate, it cant be easy to come out! But you wont ever be able to have a relationship if you cant even tell your best friends. Where are all the guys that have been through this.. Give him advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell that's easier said than done. I have no problem with being attracted to guys, but I stay in a men's hostel, and they're all very traditionally minded - they'd rather beat up a gay guy than talk to him. I can't be open about it to everyone. But talking to Gavin about it is a good idea. Thanx. It's kind of what I figured, but needed someone else to tell me too! Thanx
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