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... Send *ncle bob a private message | | | *ncle bob's profile:I'm a 55 year old retired auto worker.
I live on Vancouver Island B.C.
I have 2 failed marriages.
I am currently single and intend to stay that way.
I had 2 children from my first marriage.
My son committed suicide on Feb 25th. 2010 aged 33 years.
He leaves behind 3 sons.
My daughter aged 30 (single) lives in Ontario
I think I've made just about every mistake a person can make,
so I have a lot of experience to draw on.
I'm just a guy who want's to help others live a better life than I have.
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Anyone have any tips on stop being stiff and nervous around attractive women?
Q. I'm getting better at socializing with strangers, but women that I find attractive are still a wall that I'm struggling to overcome. Anyone have any tips on stop being stiff, nervous, and afraid that they're judging my every move and next sentence ...
A. 9 March 2011: With the rare exception of a few, attractive women also want to make a good impression. So guess what buddy, they're just as nervous as you are. They're also afraid of saying something stupid, or making that snorting sound when they laugh. And guess ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lied to me about being a virgin and its really eating away at me now
Q. Hello all, I am in a comiteed relationship from last 4-5 years. When i had sex with my girlfriend for the first time i knew that she is not virgin, i often used to ask but she always refused, but some time back because of my forcing she told me ...
A. 9 March 2011: Maybe the reason she didn't tell you is because her life before you, is none of your damned business.
Or maybe she's ashamed of her past. Either way, if this little omission is such a big thing to you, then break it off now. It sounds like you don'... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend, but I'm crushing on a guy at my new job! Is this normal? What should I do?
Q. Hey everybody.. I need advice badly! So I have been with my boyfriend for one year and I'm madly in love with him. I mean he's like my best friend and were so happy together. I just got a new job and there's a guy there that's super cute and very ...
A. 9 March 2011: Hey, you're young and you're probably still searching for Mr. Right. Don't put any unnecessary pressure on yourself. Just keep living day by day and see where things take you. Just because you have a boyfriend now doesn't mean he's the one for yo... (read in full...)
What is the answer for a sexually frustrated woman who isnt looking for casual sex?
Q. I am one sexually frustrated woman and don't know what to do! I still think about my ex a lot, and we had a rather sexy convo via e mail last week, and it has happened before. I don't want him back and he lives so far away. I never initiate ...
A. 9 March 2011: A good imagination, and electronic devices! If that doesn't work, there are also Male escort services.... (read in full...)
After watching porn, I feel insecure about my penis size. Is there a way to make it larger?
Q. Hi, I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I am feeling so shy about my penis after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of ...
A. 9 March 2011: Hey buddy, you're perfectly normal.
The guys in porn are the abnormal ones.
Be thankful your not like them.
Being "hung" comes with all kinds of problems,
mostly, recurring urinary tract infections.
And you don't want that.
Besides, if y... (read in full...)
I slept with the adopted daughter of my estranged uncle. I'm in my early 30's, she's 21. Can this work?
Q. Not sure what to do but last night I slept with the adopted daughter of my estranged uncle. Among the obvious issues here she is also only 21 years old. I am in my early thirties. I have only recently met her in the first place. Turned out she is ...
A. 9 March 2011: Ah, I don't really see what the problem is here.
The only thing that makes the two of you related is a sheet of paper, and when you get right down to it, the only thing paper is really any good for is wiping your ass!
So I say "Go for it"
U... (read in full...)
Why cant this guy commit to this realtionship? Or is it age difference
Q. Does actions truly speak louder than words. Ive being in a relationship for 4 months he is older than me. I dont see him alot even though we live really close to each other. We go out for meals and to the cinema and stayed in a hotel after a night ...
A. 9 March 2011: "Congratulations", you've become a TOY!
I'll just take her off the shelf when I want to play, then put her away once I'm satisfied, GOODY FOR ME!
First off, dump his lying, calculating, sorry ass,
and start working on your self esteem.
The... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend but boys in my area don't take any interest. what should I do ?
Q. I really want a boyfriend but ive tryed alot of stuff and i dont know what to do. Im 14 years old and ive been wanting a boyfriend for about two years now i know im young but i really want someone to call my own. The last boyfriend i had was ...
A. 9 March 2011: First off, stay away from any dating sites or chat rooms altogether. The guys you meet in your age group there, are usually 30 to 50 year old men masquerading as young boys.
They'll talk you into meeting them somewhere with the soul intention of r... (read in full...)
My bestfriend always takes jokes too far and hurts me
Q. Dear Agony Aunts Please help a month ago a fell out with one of my bestfriends ill call him ken (not his really name)me and ken had fallen out in the past before because he used to make jokes about my personal apperance which soon turned into ser...
A. 9 March 2011: This "creep" is not a friend, he uses you to feel better about himself. He's a verbal bully!
True friends build each other up, not tear each other down.
There are millions of quality people out there.
Find yourself one of those, you'll be fa... (read in full...)
I want our first kiss to be wonderful
Q. hi...im 16 i want advice should i kiss my boyfriend? he has already kissed me on the cheek yesterday.should i do it too? please give some tips and advice cause i want it to be nice and memorable,i dont want anything embarassing to happen. thanks...
A. 9 March 2011: Sounds like you watch too many movies girl!
Almost every "First Kiss" for anyone is clumsy and slightly embarrassing at best.
Should I lean my head to the right or left?
Should I slightly part my lips or not?
What should I do if he wants to u... (read in full...)
Bleeding but scared to see a gynae doctor
Q. I have this weird problem that Im a virgin 32 year old and still not been able to give in to my guy, even though I fantasize so much and so wanna have sex but even the mere thought makes me so wet that now I even bleed while Im with him and ...
A. 9 March 2011: Too "chicken" to see your doctor EH?
My favourite aunt, who had a problem different from yours, but a problem all the same, was too embarrassed to speak to her doctor. She started to have symptoms at age 53, but again, too embarrassed to ment... (read in full...)
Although he didnt cum, could I be pregnant?
Q. Hey guys , i am really in a bad situation.Me and my boyfriend played two days ago with no protection.Nothing went inside,he said he didn't cum , but i saw he did pre-cum.Is there a chance i could get pregnant if he pre-cumed near my vagina(even ...
A. 9 March 2011: First rule of intersex play.
"When the pants come off, the condom goes on"
Chances are, your not pregnant.
What are the laws in your country concerning doctor patient confidentiality?
It's quite possible your doctor, by law, may not be allowed t... (read in full...)
I am always horny
Q. I'm a 15 year old boy I get horny for most of the day thinking about having sex with girls. I can't help it, but i love thinking about sex and thinking about having it. I masturbate at least 4 times a day I need a girlfriend How can i try and st...
A. 9 March 2011: You don't "NEED" a girlfriend! That is to say if all you want is sex. All you'll be doing is using a girl for sex.
That's far too selfish on your part, and it's cruel, hurtful, and disrespectful to the girl.
Not to mention pregnancy and or STD's.
... (read in full...)
How can I get her to forgive me....she read an old email that I never sent.
Q. My girl friend recently just looked through my email account, I have never given her my password or permission to look through my account. She saw a draft of an email a while back addressed to her. It was written at a time when we had split up and I ...
A. 9 March 2011: Give her time, she'll cool off... or not. If she doesn't, then it's time to pick yourself up and move on. If this is the kind of thing that she considers a "deal breaker", then she's too unstable to continue a relationship with. You're better o... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend is waaay to clingy....help!
Q. There's this guy that i literally just started dating. He's really sweet, and seriously romantic...If he doesn't let up i'm gonna go postal. We went out to a movie less than a week ago, he's texting me constantly, shows up at my work because he says ...
A. 9 March 2011: Sounds like a "control freak"... RUN!!!!
He'll soon start to ask you who you where talking to on the phone, because he got a "busy" signal when he called.
He's already disrupting you at work, this kind of activity could actually cost you your job... (read in full...)
Any way to naturally enhance breasts by next month?
Q. My boyfriend of five months will be visiting me next week for the first time and am desperately in need of breast enhancement. . .i have a very small breast and i don't want him to see me this way. Pls can you guys give me any tips that will enlarge ...
A. 8 March 2011: I'm confused. If he is your "boyfriend" is he not already aware of the size of your breasts?
Please tell me you haven't met him on the internet!
(a dangerous and stupid thing to do at the best of times)
Also, if he's indicated to you that breast ... (read in full...)
He got an erection from just cuddling?
Q. me and my boyfriend were snuggling on the sofa together, and he got an erection.. Whats with that?, We were just watching a film, not even kissing.. I don't understand why it happened.. ...
A. 8 March 2011: Young boys can get erections for absolutely no reason whatsoever. It's natural and not strange at all. Look on the net for medical articles concerning "puberty and erections". You'll have a much better understanding of what's going on than any expl... (read in full...)
Ladies can you tell me what is going on here?
Q. I've known this woman for over a year now, we go to church together at a smaller church. I had left for a bit, and returned, and decided to ask her to coffee. Finally after a week or so we met up, and it was great, and we talked for about 3 hours. ...
A. 8 March 2011: Stay polite and open with her, but cool it off a bit.
Give her time to think about this for a while, don't pressure her.
If she decides she's interested, she will pursue you.
If not, try to remain friends, but look elsewhere for a love connect... (read in full...)
Teenaged boy needs advice on sexual relationship with girlfriend...
Q. im 16 years old and in my first sexual relationship.i've been reading other questions off a similar subject and the sex life in question has taken months to droop. i am worried because i have only been in this relationship for almost 4 months and i ...
A. 8 March 2011: Considering the ages involved, it's totally natural that the two of you will drift apart. In fact it's practically guaranteed. Neither one of you really know just who you are yet. Your both in the early stages of learning how to become an adult.(it ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is afraid of work!
Q. So, I have been dating my current boyfriend for about a year now. Very early in the relationship we decided to move to another city and live together (after about 4 months of dating). We have now been living together for about 8 months. I love ...
A. 8 March 2011: It's time to leave. He's proven to you time and time again, he's not yet mature enough to be in a committed relationship. It sounds like he's looking for a mother to take care of him. Whatever you do, if you do stay with him, don't get pregnant... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my female teacher and at a complete loss about what to do? Ideas?
Q. I am 16 years old and have been in love with this teacher for about 2 and a half years now :/ I first met her when I was 13 and I didn’t like her very much at all. Then she became my teacher. In that term I realised that I didn’t hate her but ins...
A. 8 March 2011: Date within your own age group!
Your infatuation can only lead to heartbreak and embarrassment if your advances are rejected.
However, if she does accept your affections and reciprocates, she could very well face termination of employment, loss of ... (read in full...)
Now and then! Next move?
Q. Dear cupid I'm a 21 year old male that met a girl 4 years ago back. then she was to young for me. she is 16 now and damn she is pretty. last weekend when I saw her my heart nearly stopped. 4 years ago she was totaly inlove with me but t...
A. 8 March 2011: All you can do is ask her. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? If so, walk away. If she says yes,
Take it slow!
(been there, done that... and survived)... (read in full...)
Should I give him one last chance or just move on?
Q. Finally my boyfriend want's to do everything to make me happy(Now) .I afraid it's too late .He has hurt me so much that it's just too hard for me to trust him again When he said something ,he did something hurtful else ,for years .I am thinking of ...
A. 8 March 2011: If you give him another chance, you are, in fact,
giving him permission to hurt you again. Your telling him,
"It's OK, I'll always be here for you"
If you allow him to hurt you again, you've only got yourself to blame.
Get away from this guy, h... (read in full...)
We think my friend may be pregnant, but we're not sure what to do
Q. I need help and i dont know what to do. Im a 13 year old girl and my best friend(who is 13 too) had sex with her boyfriend and she hasnt had her period in about, a month n two weeks. She cant eat and she throws up all the time. We(me n our o...
A. 8 March 2011: First, she should talk to her doctor, and ask what her options are. By law, doctors are not permitted to speak to her parents without her permission. Second, she should seek counselling, she's about to face things she's never faced before, she's go... (read in full...)
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