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Hello everyone.

I live in the Midwestern "small town" USA.

I want to be a psychologist. I really like to give advise to my friends and they all come to me. I can think logically and not get too much into the lust of the situation.

I am single and would rather stay that way. :)

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I don't want to use birth control and don't want her to get pregnant

Q.   when is it ok for me to cum inside my girl???wit no pill and no condoms.. and please dont tell me to use a condom cuz its not the same and i dont want to hear .make her take pills.. ...

A.   6 July 2009: Nuva ring. Are you ready for sex if you just asked this question??? Is it ok? Sure it is but WARNING kids may be produced! Good LuckXX ... (read in full...)

I'm forcing myself to throw up because I want to be a model

Q.   My boyfriend is freaking out cause he caught me making myself throw up (been doing this for a week). I mean I'm 18 so I'm legally adult and its not like I'm killing myself. But he nags at me because "hurting" myself and he doesn't want to be like ...

A.   6 July 2009: If you get too deep. You will kill yourself. Go get some help before its too late. God BlessXX... (read in full...)

I need to end a crush!

Q.   I need to end a crush. So far this site has helped me so much with my problems, as in, they have identified my problems as limerenece which seems likely. But, its for another guy, which makes me bisexual. I'm learning to deal with the fact, I ...

A.   6 July 2009: Nobody should know that you blocked him. I have blocked people on there and nobody has been able to tell. good LuckXX... (read in full...)

Sneaky Sex: How to avoid awkward situations with the kids!

Q.   Those Viagra ads are totally misleading! Any idiot can get "in the mood" when two adults are alone in a room (Or in a bathtub!) But with fussy infants, noisy 4 year olds, or prying 13 year olds around, how on earth can ANYONE have the freedom to ...

A.   6 July 2009: yea he will lke pat her butt and say that he loves her or call her beautiful. Just they dnt kiss in front of me. I wouldnt feel totally confortable if they had been making out in front of me. But i get whats the point that you are trying to mke.... (read in full...)

My parents are too strict!

Q.   my parents are too strict and overprotective. i have been a solid A student my entire life. my midnight curfew has always been the same and im only allowed out once a week despite the fact that i am now 18 and that this is my final year of school. t...

A.   6 July 2009: Ok so u do live under their roof. So it changes things just a bit. But u can legally move out and contol ur life. What is the legal drinking age in your contry?? Cause if you can legally drink i dnt see how they could stop you.... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...

A.   6 July 2009: Well i lke an older guy. hes 9 yrs older thn me. For me it is illigal. Mke sure that you know the laws on it. idk what they r n ur Canada but if i spent time with mi crush n the US WITHOUT parental permission they could charge statutory rape. ... (read in full...)

Does my boyfriend have an STD?

Q.   My boyfriend has white bumps that lead to his penis. They stop at his penis and don't go any further then that. It is very red around that area. Although he has this, I don't have it? I have inspected myself and so has he. So I'm very confused...

A.   6 July 2009: gential herpes possibly. std. try www.webMD.com i tried to but ud have to read through it. Best of luckXX... (read in full...)

Are teachers now days giving off wrong ideas?

Q.   Something you hear alot now days from teeagers.( Mostly girls). That they think their teacher is flirting with them or is being a pervert. I am a teenager myself. I know by first hand what their going threw. They need to know the difference of being ...

A.   6 July 2009: The problem at our school would be the teens who have the crush on the teacher and he is totally clueless. and they are open bout it. LOL Nice aritcle... (read in full...)

Sneaky Sex: How to avoid awkward situations with the kids!

Q.   Those Viagra ads are totally misleading! Any idiot can get "in the mood" when two adults are alone in a room (Or in a bathtub!) But with fussy infants, noisy 4 year olds, or prying 13 year olds around, how on earth can ANYONE have the freedom to ...

A.   6 July 2009: Umm id rather not hear mi parents gettin at it. Nor do they need to make out n front of me. and they dnt. my dad may say something umm dirty (not rlly but i dnt no how to decribe it) to mi mom but no kissing. that is a private and intimate thing. ... (read in full...)

The Most Amazing Guy I have Ever Met

Q.   Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...

A.   5 July 2009: Oh i no how you feel. I rlly lke this guy. Hes way to old for me. I cant compare him to anyone cause they just cant measure up. I understand the car thing casue i am rlly into mustangs and look at him drivein a 2004 orange mustange convertiable ... (read in full...)

What do you think of breast implants?

Q.   Well I'm considering a boob job after I lose weight from weight loss surgery. I know I'll probably lose my breasts. I have a d cup but they sag I bet I'll be a small b cup. I want a full c and them to be lifted! I want to know the stories from the ...

A.   5 July 2009: If you are losing weight there is not telling what your bodys gonna do. I have lost 35 pounds slowly and boobs are still the same as always. If you have a full D cup. They are going to sag. Gravity. Go get an appointment with a plastic surgo... (read in full...)

Is it possible that I have some kind of mental illness?!

Q.   Is it possible I have an undiagnosed mental illness? I never quite feel there, everything's a blur, it's like I'm watching through the eyes of a robot. I really don't know how to explain any of this. And I don't know how to go about it. I can't go...

A.   5 July 2009: This isnt a stupid question. If youve had probs with depression, stress, abd gugh anxiety maybe yo should see a counsler. What you decribed sounds lke depression. Go see your doctor. Good LuckXX... (read in full...)

Where would I go and what would I do if I left him?

Q.   Hi today is the 5th of july I feel very stupid and sad and angry and also really annoyed I don’t Even know how to describ how I feel! For the 4th of july me and my husband threw a b-day party for our son and then we spent all night till about 5:...

A.   5 July 2009: You have got to give out. Once a man hits you. he WILL hit again. he nos no better. If he is giving you his pay cheak start to put some in "savings". You will have to plan cause this will not be an overnight thing. Try tlking to a preach... (read in full...)

He always says he's sorry afterwards...

Q.   MY boyfriend has never punched, hit or attacked me. But, he has squeezed my arm so hard it really hurt ( he said it was bacause he thought i was going to hit him ) and he pushed me off the bed when i was 3 months pregnant. (didnt hurt myself) Bu...

A.   5 July 2009: "He has called me a whore, dog, slut, bitch, fat.. etc." This is called emotional abuse. If he says this to you. He will not know how to express his feelings to a child. So how will he be talking to them? The excact sme way he tlks to you. "som... (read in full...)

I need to end a crush!

Q.   I need to end a crush. So far this site has helped me so much with my problems, as in, they have identified my problems as limerenece which seems likely. But, its for another guy, which makes me bisexual. I'm learning to deal with the fact, I ...

A.   5 July 2009: If you want to get rid of it youd have to try to stay away from him. Meaning maybe blocking him on facebook. Staying away from those places that he usally is. Now do you feel depressed cause i said to stay away from him. If you do its gonna be... (read in full...)

How do I use tampons?

Q.   hey im a girl and im a virgin. never even used tampons. i want to but im scared i'll faint cause i read that somewhere. im so afraid of passing out! so any pointers on inserting tampons? also how do i masturbate? like what do i do? what feels really ...

A.   4 July 2009: If you do not change your tampon at least every 8 hours you could get TSS Toxic Shock Syndrome (read the paper in the tampon box). but you should be fine if you change it. Make sure you have the right absorbency also. Lke start out wiht the ligh... (read in full...)

My parents won't let me date anyone

Q.   im 17 and my mom and dad wont let me date any guys i have told them that there afrad to let me go well im not there baby gal any moer i need some help big time ...

A.   3 July 2009: Your probly right. Just think that in less than a year you will be 18. Then they cant make you do anything.... (read in full...)

Does this look like I have an STD?

Q.   I have had a tingling feeling in my genital area and legs all week. I have these tiny open sores all on the left side of my vaginal area. I think I may have herpes. I am planning on seeing a doctor but can't until monday due to the holiday. in the ...

A.   3 July 2009: Have you tried a medical website? It might give you some peace until you can get to the doctor on Monday.... (read in full...)

How can I take my mind off boys?

Q.   heeey x Im 13 and I find myself thinking about boys alot. I really just want to be a normal girl. Im having mood swings lately but it doesn't mean i have gone off boys. Im always thinking about different boys and then i become obssessed and th...

A.   2 July 2009: Ok so i have "obessed" over boys too here are some things that i was aable to do to get my mind off it. join diffrent clubs or take up a hobbie. Let your mind think about boys for a certian amount of time. Thn force yourself to think about other ... (read in full...)

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