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writes:heeey xIm 13 and I find myself thinking about boys alot. I really just want to be a normal girl. Im having mood swings lately but it doesn't mean i have gone off boys. Im always thinking about different boys and then i become obssessed and they are always on my mind. Then they let me down and i start fancying another boy. I am scared I will never get a boyfriend... boys do say Im fit. But it just makes me feel self conscious because im scared they are saying it to make fun. Im am thin ( not being big headed) but im something like 5.7 or 5.8. Do you think this has something to do with that? I want to have my mind taken off boys, especially with important exams next year. How can i forget about boys? I mix with boys more than girls because i hate bitching. I agree that 80% of my friends are boys.. but once i am close i end up fancying them. Please help me :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): I wish I could help. Your question is one I ask myself every day. Unfortunately, I'm the last person in the world qualified to give you an answer.
As far as being scared you'll never get a boyfriend - trust me, if they say you're 'fit', it means they're alredy taking notice of you.
Good luck
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reader, ugh101  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Ok so i have "obessed" over boys too here are some things that i was aable to do to get my mind off it. join diffrent clubs or take up a hobbie. Let your mind think about boys for a certian amount of time. Thn force yourself to think about other things or go do something.
If you have "bitchy" girl friends. then try to find a laid back group. All of mi best friends are totally laid back and are awsome to be around.
Best of luck XX
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Don't worry this is normal, all part of puberty same with the mood swings. Its pretty common for girls to be thinking about boys ALOT. Just try and take a step back and really think about whether you would want to be with any of the guys your 'obsessing' over.. would you really want a relationship with them?
Try and keep yourself busy by getting hobbies and try and hang out with your girl friends more. Not all girls are bitches :)
Hope this helps
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