How important are looks really?
Q. How important are looks really? I'm not a toad, just saying. I would say I'm average. Everytime I meet someone new, they remark on how pretty I am. So theres this guy. (of course there is) and we met like once, in person. We exchanged num...
A. 4 April 2011: ok im not trying to be shallow but im just going to say the truth. looks are fairly important. think about it with out being a hypocrite. would you date a not so attractive guy who didnt care how they looked like? no.... (read in full...)
Awkward silences and lulls..are they ok?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, and we've been getting REALLY well. we've already hung out several times, and every time has been absolutely AWESOME. we text every day as often as we can, and that's ...
A. 4 April 2011: no there are always silences. think about them as like a calm before the storm or calm after a storm. sometimes silence is good. it helps balance things you can think things through ect. have fun... (read in full...)
If you've been friends for a long time, is there NO chance that he or she could ever fall for you?
Q. I've had something on my mind for a long time and I could use some wisdom in this situation. I would never try to steal, or break up someone's relationship... but, what I WOULD like to know is this: Suppose that you've been friends with someone...
A. 1 April 2011: yes of course there is a chance. just dont force the situation. let sort of happen if it does. unless he is going out with someone at the moment. if he trys the whole oh i love you more then i love my current gf then these are the 2 routes for that. ... (read in full...)
My classmate likes my crush too, and I cant stand seeing them together! How do I get over this?
Q. I like this Guy (lets say A) for the longest time and I plan to tell him eventually, but only to get over him because I know he wont reciprocate. And even if he would, he would be the most hesitant in showing any signs. So I really don't have much ...
A. 1 April 2011: lets just say you didnt say anything to A like hey do you like me? you just assumed things without finding an answer out..... (read in full...)
I want to change her opinions about me and I want her to fall for me!
Q. i know this girl for 3 years...we were kinda friends and now i am totally in love with her. She is always nice to ppl, very sociable and good to talk to. She is beautiful and very smart. the problem is that i have been into her for like 6 month...
A. 31 March 2011: shes not going to like you an you can't make her like you. your in the friend zone so you HAVE TO GET OVER HER. and you must MOVE ON or else you'll be wasting time and energy on nothing... (read in full...)
My wife refuses to try anything new in the bedroom! Help!
Q. my wife and i have been married for 18 years but have known each other over 20 years, she is 44 , i am 57,she is not adventurous at all in the bedroom. i have asked to do a few things like, play with her breasts when we make love, i have asked her ...
A. 31 March 2011: have some kind of something that will stimulate her and you.... (read in full...)
Both girls in my life are amazing! What should I do?
Q. Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and shes the perfect girlfriend but its just missing something; for instance I used to get jealous when she'd tell me about guys buying her drinks at the bar but now I really don't mind. To ...
A. 31 March 2011: i can tell you one thing to this amazing girl not your gf but the other one is playing mind games with you. if she was in an abusive relationship she'd have bruises right? does she have bruises? how come she can stay out with you for a late night ... (read in full...)
I don't feel physically attracted to my boyfriend anymore!
Q. I have been with my partner a year and we don't have sex anymore. see each other everyday as we live down the road, except for holidays were we return home from Uni.The no sex is down to me i try and talk about it with him and apologised for not ...
A. 31 March 2011: he's perfect yet you dont find him physically attracted? then is he really that perfect. and let me guess when he does ask instead of telling the truth you say you baby your so sexy.. give me a break and give him a break tell him the truth.... (read in full...)
Is it unacceptable to be with someone this much older?
Q. I am a 27yrs old woman in a relationship with a 55yrs old man. We've been together for 4yrs. I love him and he loves me very much but the age difference has been bothering me a lot lately. He wants to get married but the problem is I have a large ...
A. 30 March 2011: ya i notice how all the females that replied say no and that the one guy (now make that 2) say they disapprove. this age difference is not only going to bother you now but each and everyday and year by year it will bother you more. instead why dont ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 19 year old girl to date a 17 year old guy?
Q. I have recently started casually seeing a guy, but I don't want to take it further because I am 19, and he is 17. Is this wrong?...
A. 30 March 2011: i dont see why it would be. you can teach him quite a few things. just dont be surprised when he acts immature. he is 17 after all. but go for it... (read in full...)
40 year age gap, is it worth the envitable heartache?
Q. Hi, I'm 27 and dating a man who is 68. We have been together almost a year and some of our friends and family know but I do often question my sanity for dating someone so much older. Before starting this relationship I had a few longer ones with men ...
A. 30 March 2011: he is too old. plain and simple... (read in full...)
How I can try to progress intimately with this shy girl I’ve met?
Q. Hi there I’m 32 yr old guy from the UK and just starting dating a girl who’s 26. We’ve had 2 dates so far and both have gone well. First date was a quiet drink in a bar, and then the next has been a walk in the countryside followed by Sunday lunch. ...
A. 30 March 2011: ooooooh ya shy girls are fun. there is soooo much emotion built up inside of them. sooooo how about you do this? you are able to text her or call her right? right at this moment or when ever your going to set up your next date tell her you have this ... (read in full...)
Is she losing interest or scared of been hurt again?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few month now and we were completely loved up, we couldnt get enough of each other, she was upset i was there for her, id stay with her all night just to get her smiling again. Before we got together ...
A. 30 March 2011: shes afraid to commit. in other words needs to mature a little more. people get hurt from past relationships if shes not ready to let go of the past she is not ready to take a step forward for the future... (read in full...)
Was I just a sex friend that he threw away?
Q. Ok i have been talking to this boy for a couple of months and the first two were good and then his ex came down from out of town. we were not together so it did not bother me that much then. we stopped talking for three weeks so in Jan we started ...
A. 30 March 2011: biggest mistake ever is to have sex before there is a relationship... just saying. you were to easy for him think of it as a way a guy tests you. if you play harder to get then a guy will respect you more and look at you in a different way rather ... (read in full...)
My depression ruins all my relationships
Q. Hi ,I've had anxiety and depression ,my entire life... Every relationship I've ever been in ,I've pushed the guy away with my worrying, flip outs and not feeling good enough... And right now the best guy I was ever with just broke up with me ...
A. 30 March 2011: go and get yourself some therapy... (read in full...)
How can I tell her that I'm bi and I like her without freaking her out?
Q. I’m bi, a teenager and and I have never told anyone, all my friends are straight and they definitely don’t understand me so I’m a quiet girl, but I do smile and laugh a lot. I just moved to a new school for a few weeks and I’m quite close to the g...
A. 29 March 2011: just tell her.... ethier it will freak her out or it wont... (read in full...)
Pregnant with 2nd baby - partner can't find work - worried to lose the relationship over this?
Q. Pregnant with 2nd baby - baby 1 will be 1.5 yrs old when this baby comes out and this 2nd baby was unplanned - pill failed and condom broke. My bf currently can't find work in my country. He now thinks he should go back to the US and work in a ...
A. 29 March 2011: ...... uh she is his ex wife for a reason.. just saying... (read in full...)
I love him, but we argue. Should I let him go and see if he comes back?
Q. .."if you love something let it go..if it comes back that's when you know it's meant to be". I'm in love with my ex BF deeply and he does love me but things aren't working out as we argue to much atm because we both have other things on our mi...
A. 29 March 2011: is it really worth it? you guys argue alot and this will not just be a atm thing. this will continue and also why did you 2 break up? think about that to. exs are exs for a reason... (read in full...)
How do I deal with all the issues surrounding dating a man 20 years my senior?
Q. I am in my 20s and have recently started seeing a guy 20yrs my senior. We have been friends for years prior to dating each other. He is stable, but not wealthy, and I have a good job and support myself - I am not looking for a sugar daddy ...
A. 28 March 2011: OK forget what that other person answered and think about it like this. your 20 he's 40. your 30 he's 50. your 40 he's 60. your 50 he's 70... catch my drift? ... (read in full...)
Is he actually shy or just trying to blow me off?
Q. i asked out this guy whos a year younger then me, ive never been with a younger guy, so it takes 3 weeks before we can actually go out... hes grounded, ext anyways we finally go out and i just want to hook up at this point ive waited long enough. it ...
A. 28 March 2011: lol he's sort of like how i was. he's not shy with others because he couldn't care what they think now with you since he does like you he doesn't want to be an idiot or make mistakes to make it perfect for you... you know what im saying and did you ... (read in full...)
Are preacher's kids/sons unnattainable or stuck up when it comes to talking to girls like me? And how would I start up a conversation?
Q. I have an odd question and would appreciate some help with it! Well, I've gone to my church for around ten years now and have always thought that my pastor's son (lets call him Johnny) was very cute. He's handsome, a year older than me and very...
A. 28 March 2011: So you wanna nail me or what? lol jk. but you do understand the nail thing right? okay now this is how it goes. hmmm i don't know how to explain it perfectly but here it goes. now you know when people accidentally bump into each other and you happen ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my fiance what happened at the party? Or ignore it and pretend it never happened?
Q. i can already picture the yelling and the crying in my ear at the other end of the phone i can see his face and how hurt he feels . thinking about it tears me apart and i can't do it . i'm 20 and i'm engaged to my bf of one yr i'm super happy wi...
A. 28 March 2011: Get your man to be the man and show this douche who is your man. Understand? once his contract is up of course and no not your fault because the other guy was the one making moves on you.... (read in full...)
How do I get this new girl out of the picture and get my friend to care about me again?
Q. Hey, guys. Before I begin, I would just like to start out by saying that my question/situation isn't about a relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend, it's about my relationship with my friends. I really only have 2 people in my life that I can ...
A. 28 March 2011: i stopped reading at the i always talk to her and try to make her feel better part. OK so how can i explain this. you were a void for her when she felt down in a certain way what guy was there to cheer her up? you. you were being the "nice guy" and ... (read in full...)
I dated him because I felt sorry for him...How do I break up now?
Q. Hey, I'm gonna just cut to the chase if that's alright. So here's the thing, I have this ex who misunderstood everything I had told him. When I was speaking to him on a social networking site before we ever were together, he had asked me if I liked ...
A. 28 March 2011: okay here we go don't say anything about we could be friends.. it will make things awkward and make him think he still has a shot. you do this like blah blah I'm not interested in you anymore. end of story.... (read in full...)
I admitted I was jealous and things haven't been the same since.
Q. Dear Cupid, My girl and I have had the best of times together, we used to be close and tighter than anyone could imagine. We used to tell each other about everything and speak about everything that comes to mind before hesitation. One day i de...
A. 28 March 2011: its because shes cheating on you.. with that guy your jealous with... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I should believe him when he tells me he loves me.
Q. My ex wants me back and i want him back so he has been kissing me and calling me his gf again. I know how i feel about him, i know how he SAYS how he feels about me, but some times i don't believe it. My "BF" says he wants to marry me one day and w...
A. 28 March 2011: awwwwwe isn't that cute..... he's sooooo sweet... not. OK so here is the deal. he says your his gf... did you say that or was he the one who said that and your just going with the flow? also isn't it obvious? seriously isn't it? OK so imagine this ... (read in full...)
Why he has changed from the incredible man I once spent hours with, to someone who treats me like I'm suddenly beneath them?
Q. Hi there, So I have this lovely relationship question that's bugging me. I realise my sarcasm isn't evident but now you know, I am being sarcastic. It is no way "Lovely." I hope this isn't too repetitive for you as I know there are many,man...
A. 28 March 2011: i stopped reading at the part where you said your 22 and he is 16years older then you..... thats the problem. find someone younger like more around your age who actually has some life in them and isnt going to act like oh damn my "wife" is back.. ... (read in full...)
My crush told me he doesn't like me, how do I move on?
Q. So i know i been asking questions about my crush. I need help to know how to move on or get over him when he told me he dont like me. I've seen him talk to some girl no they go out on dates and yea just hurts me. But i know the only one getting hurt ...
A. 28 March 2011: with time youll get over him and also think about it... if he saw you with a guy would he be hurt? no he wouldn't so why should you be. remember your a good catch if he doesnt want you then he is missing out. but im sure there are others out there ... (read in full...)
Why do I hate sex?
Q. I am so ashamed of this issue I have with sex that it ruins every relationship i have. I love being with the person doing things with him but i hate sex it makes me feel sick and i always want to cry. I love the idea of having sex then when we start ...
A. 28 March 2011: go get yourself some therapy.. and im not being an ass about this. you really should... (read in full...)
Is my ex being genuine this time?
Q. I dated a guy last for a couple of months. We had great chemistry and I really liked him. But he was immature, he started standing me up. Then he only wanted me to come over late at night. Then the next day he'd be desperate to get rid of me. W...
A. 28 March 2011: meet up with him for coffee. if he acts the same as he did before find someone else. if he doesnt give him a chance, but if he slips up once then break it off. dont let him do the whole oh baby im so sorry crap. ... (read in full...)
My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......
Q. My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend ...
A. 28 March 2011: i think she is full of it. if she loved you so much then would she have broken up with you.....? shes a train wreck man and shes going to drag you with her for as long as she can. right now she has a grip on your balls and anytime she needs a void ... (read in full...)
I had sex with someone else while we were on a break and now he says I am 'dirty' to him, what can I do?
Q. My boyfriend who I love more that anything else told me we should take a break so he could deal with some issues. A week later I saw he was taking someone to prom and I knew he liked her. Out of jealousy and a need for security, I had sex with a ...
A. 28 March 2011: ya chigirl has the right idea. and i wouldnt even say keep it together. he's trying to make you feel bad for doing what you did.. paaaalllleeeaaassseee. this is what you do. if this douche bag wants you back then let him come to you without calling ... (read in full...)
What do guys think about petite women?
Q. I was wondering what men REALLY think about women who are petite. I wanted to ask this question because I heard someone say that short women are not sexy enough like taller women, and that guys rather be with women who are taller. I am 5 feet tal...
A. 28 March 2011: what do i think about petite woman? personally i couldn't really care how tall the women is. in highschool i was about 5'7 to 5'8 and i dated one of the tallest girls in my highschool if not the tallest. right now i have a gf who is 5'2 to 5'4 , im ... (read in full...)
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