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Tells me to be honest, but he gets mad When I am?

Q.   My boyfriend always says that he wants me to be open and honest with him about everything no matter what it is. Especially if it has to do with another guy an he would do the same But the thing is, when Im open and honest with him he gets upset wi...

A.   28 August 2013: We are all entitled to a bit of privacy...you don't need to report every move you make to your boyfriend. If you do you are giving him control of you and that's not healthy for any relationship!! ... (read in full...)

Emotional affair that I'm having trouble getting over

Q.   I was in a long distance relationship and at this time I met another guy I had a crush on. Since it was just a crush, I never mentioned it to him and we became friends. The more we got to know each other, the more I realized he was recovering from a ...

A.   28 August 2013: Here is a few questions and answer them honestly and if you don't then your only lying to yourself!! 1. If you weren't married would you marry your husband all over again?? 2. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with your husband?? 3. Do you ... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable feeling unwanted?

Q.   i have been living with my boyfriend for 4 months i thought i'd feel closer to him but i feel even more so like i am second best to his friends/activities. He goes out every friday, watches football every other saturday and plays alot of golf - we ...

A.   27 August 2013: Join your gym that's a start it will make you feel great physically and mentally. Look on the web and see if there is any clubs that you interested in and you will meet friends with the same interest!! The hardest part is getting your butt off that ... (read in full...)

Has he been cheating on me this whole time !

Q.   Please more than one person help me out! I need tons of advice ! My ex is a compulsive liar and the guy I'm talking to, ill just call him my bf, is a player. And they're friends Well in the beginning my boyfriend would text me all day ...

A.   27 August 2013: Not to sure if he is cheating but with his calls and texts to you getting less it sounds like he is losing interest!! As the old saying goes out of sight out of mind!! If you were in his heart you would be on his mind.....meaning he would be calling ... (read in full...)

I found a pair of women's sunglasses in his hotel room. Is my b/f cheating on me?

Q.   My boyfriend of four years is staying at a hotel for work for a month and this is the second time I've come to visit him while I can't work (rain). Today I arrived at the hotel and found a pair of womens sunglasses under one of the bedside tables ...

A.   27 August 2013: Your quite right to question the sun glasses as they didn't walk in his hotel room on their own!! Did you confront him and what did he say?? ... (read in full...)

My g/f makes me wait hours between texts. I don't like her behavior!

Q.   hi guys. a few nights ago, my girlfriend came home after spending the night with one of her friends. she texted me "heeey" with a smiley face to let me know she was back. and i replied in about 10 seconds or so. then she disappeared for ...

A.   27 August 2013: Well I agree with your girlfriend that's the way she is!! you seem to have insecurities if you don't get a response. Maybe its you that has the problem.... (read in full...)

He wanted a break and a week later says he wants to be with me. Is he just playing games?

Q.   I been seeing someone for 8 month everything was good then about a week ago got he say he need a break to sort out what he want but yesterday he said he want to get back together a again he said he want to be with me and that he got sacred that why ...

A.   27 August 2013: My son does that to his girlfriend he wants to break up to have some time to himself and then goes back a few days later!! I don't know if your boyfriend is the same as you have not given much detail about him. My advice to you is think what you ... (read in full...)

What physical act counts as cheating in a relationship?

Q.   Hey Just wondering what you guys would consider cheating in a relationship? E.g. A kiss? Oral? ...

A.   27 August 2013: you don't need to be a guy to know that question!! If anyone makes contact with the other sex i.e kissing, touching, oral, shagging, is a cheater!!... (read in full...)

What should I do with an old jealous ex I shared 6 years of my life with?

Q.   I dated my ex for a little over six years before I'd had enough of his pessimism and serious lack of a sex drive (believe me, I tried everything to keep him happy and satisfied). Honestly, there wasn't a lot of give and take involved. Clearly, he ...

A.   27 August 2013: Well done you getting out of that depressing, unhappy and wasting relationship!! Tell your ex to fuck off, you're not responsible for him, he will meet another girl and treat her the same he will never change. Concentrate on yourself be happy and ... (read in full...)

I don't want to use my mom just to babysit while I have a baby!

Q.   Question for mothers and Fathers. I'm 22 weeks pregnant with my second child who I have been with for 4 years. Me and my partner 'Jay' got into a huge argument last night about the when the time comes for me to have this baby. He obviously wan...

A.   27 August 2013: Hi, speak to your mum, let her know your concerns and I'm sure she will understand and be there for you. Your not using your mum that's what family is for, to help out and support their children. Put it this way if it was your daughter and she ... (read in full...)

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