Do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination?
Q. My breasts are so small, do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination? Once a boyfriend said to me when I was getting dressed "Come on turn round ...
A. 3 January 2009: Most guys don't care that much; it's the entire package. Yeah, big boobs are great for most, but that's no deal breaker. Besides, he probably alreday had a clue about your breast size before hoping into bed, so that didn't stop him. By the way, ... (read in full...)
Question for guys
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I would be lying if I said I wasn't in love with him. I get scared cause I think he will leave me all the time. I want to talk to him about my fears, but guys hate girl stuff and emotion and ...
A. 3 January 2009: Better feel free to cmmunicate freely; instead of having it all bent up. He sees that you're worried, so be honest with him. He may think you're hiding more than you really are, and that's worse. Laugh aboutit, and yourself, and insecurities; ... (read in full...)
Can any girls out there just list the different feelings you experience when you have an orgasm?
Q. Just a quick question for the girls, I have had one sexual partner and another guy who I would have fooled around with. Thing is I'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm through sex or otherwise. I get pleasured but sometimes it's mixed with pai...
A. 1 January 2009: You haven't had an orgasm yet. If you had, you'd know. You need better lovers, frankly, but a lot of men don't know how despite their bravado (...based on info received from past GFs.) I've had several experiences where I was the first to make my ... (read in full...)
How can men be so cruel?
Q. How can men be so cruel sometimes? How can they act like the love someone and then dump them a week later like they dont even matter and as if they are just something they played with and threw away? I mean aren't we all people and should be treated ...
A. 1 January 2009: Not sure if you're sexually involved with these guys, but men do not respect women who sleep with them too quickly. Sure, the guys will have fun, and that's a woman's choice, too, but these women aren't the gals he'll bring home to Momma. ... (read in full...)
How can I live with the guilt?
Q. My best mates has been going out with a long term mate of mine for over 4 years. We are all good, long term friends, including my bf (and yer I am gay), well all get on really well as a group. But one night me and my best mate's gf went out with ...
A. 1 January 2009: Keep it to yourself, and talk to your friends GF, and say that you think you both should just forgetthe whole thing. And hope it doesn't rear it's ugly head (sorry, no puns intended, here.)... (read in full...)
My guy friend is so overprotective of me! What is up with him?
Q. I have a guy friend whos really protective of me, and he always tells me not to hang out with certain guys or if I mention a guy he doesn't like he always calls the guy an idiot. I'm kind of getting tired of it, he doesn't even want me to like his ...
A. 1 January 2009: He likely has romantic feelings for you, or is just a really good friend trying to keep you from making a mistake. Not sure how old he is, but hopefully he's around your age. If not, don't get romantically involved with him, of course, and make ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend and don't know what to do.
Q. I am in love with my best friends girlfriend and don't know what to do. They have been dating for 4 months. I want to confront her but it may get round and affect my friendship with my best friend what should I do?...
A. 1 January 2009: Do nothing. There are many pebbles on the beach. Move on.... (read in full...)
He says I ruined his New Year and now I feel so guilty and don't know how to make it up.
Q. I've been seeing this guy for 2 months and after a month of being together he asked me to spend New Year with him. The plan was to get ready together, go to his best friend's gathering (there were about 6 of his best friends there) then go to a ...
A. 1 January 2009: Firstly, we all make mistakes. Learn from them. Grow, and move on, and don't make the same mistakes again.
Secondly, refund him the money he shelled out for New Years. That's the very least you should do, and don't let him refuse to take the... (read in full...)
Homecoming is coming!! How can I clear up my back from acne?
Q. okay so my 1st homecoming is in a little more than a week, but i'm selfconscious about some acne on my back and the dress i'm wearing will show it. Is there anything i can do to help clear it up quickly, or any specific creams, medications, scrubs, ...
A. 1 January 2009: Medication would certainly help, but probably not in a week. Go to the pharacist and ask -- there are over-the-counter remedies to help. Wear another dress if it doesn't clear up.... (read in full...)
He's drawing fake 'staches on me and making me dress/talk like a man in the bedroom... is this normal?
Q. hi, im 21 and my boyfriend is 25. He keeps asking me to dress in his clothes and talk in a deep voice when we have sex. he even tried to draw a fake mustache on me with eye liner. he says its a huge turn on. is this normal? ...
A. 1 January 2009: I would venture to say no. If you got off, too, then, hey, whatever turns you both on, great, as they say. However, you clearly found this odd, and so would I; and I'm open-minded. Some red flags here.... (read in full...)
Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out?
Q. Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out? Like there are certain bras and tops I can wear that make my boobs look much bigger than they actually are. My bf knows my size of course but I'm just ...
A. 31 December 2008: He'd probably think, or say, Wow! You look great! Don't worry about it.... (read in full...)
My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?
Q. On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...
A. 31 December 2008: This doesn't sound like a special encounter for him, or you. Don't worry about it. Most virgins usually don't "climb on board" -- that shows boldness and experience in my book! -- so he probably didn't think about it again after he zipped up his ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in love with her ex
Q. Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...
A. 31 December 2008: Thank GF for her honesty. Tell GF that you're going to give her lots of space, and move on. My guess is that she is attracted to the fantasy of "what could have been," and once she sees that you have self-respect, and, indeed, move on, she might ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend
Q. is 30 years of age, I feel old because i never had any thing.i,ll never get married i never had boyfriend no body would bother with me. I'm really discouraged about all of this!...
A. 31 December 2008: Guys are easy -- really. Particulalry if they don't have any baggage:) A real plus now-a-days! Make the first move: Don't be shy. Try internet dating, or buying a pint. Ask friends or coworkers, hey! who is that guy! Fix me up if he's single. ... (read in full...)
Why do the bad guys always win?
Q. why do some people who are nasty and cold and who have inflated egos with good looks get every thing? some like who is nice,quiet,hard working get nothing in life only disappointment and rejection and failure. why do do bullies and meanies ...
A. 31 December 2008: Why is that good girls are always attracked to jerks who treat them like crap? I think that is likely some good guy who has pined for you, and then sees you turning your life upside down for this jerk! Do you see the irony here?!? ... (read in full...)
What do I do with these feelings?
Q. I've been married for 4.5 years and have a daughter that is almost a year old. My marriage has often been very rocky. We separated once and reconciled then became pregnant. Only recently has my husband truly started to turn into a man worth being ...
A. 31 December 2008: You are in a fantasy for yourself: The feelings you are creating take away from your reality of life - bills, kid, etc. You're creating this virtual relationship and building up something in your head, even though it feels real, so you can, ... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?
Q. I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...
A. 30 December 2008: This can't be a sincere question.... (read in full...)
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