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My girlfriend is risking her life just to loose weight!

Q.   My girlfriend is risking her life daily by refusing to take her diabetic medication, so that she loses weight. She's been diabetic for 4 years and has always mistreated her condition. In the past few months, she discovered not taking her medicati...

A.   25 August 2010: offer to workout and excersise with her, give her other weight loss options than that... (read in full...)

Am I over reacting? or should I be worried?

Q.   My girlfriend has pictures of herself with another guy on facebook and its really pissin me off! There are about five pics of them and they all seem really flirty to me. He has his arm around her in most of them. They talk on the phone and skype ...

A.   25 August 2010: i wouldnt worry about it, youve got it easy bro. my girlfriend had some guy friends and shed have sleepovers with them and tell them she loved them, but as a friend, or whatever. yeah i quickly put an end to that. but any ways, ask her if she can ... (read in full...)

Why would my girlfriend add my ex on Facebook?

Q.   hi just a quick question, i have just accidently checked my GF's facebook (i thought i had left myself logged in then relised after that it wasnt mine) but she has added my ex who i have a child to and.. the other night she said that my ex had sent...

A.   23 August 2010: maybe its nothing at all, and she just wants to have lots of friends on facebook. my gf has 600 plus friends. she adds EVERYONE. maybe its not a big deal... (read in full...)

She wants to lose her virginity to me but I'm not sure if I want to spend the rest of my life with her because of her past!

Q.   hello im with this girl i know through internet..we been together for 2 years but we still havent met since we live far away. anyway i know everything about her and her past is actually haunting me..she didnt do much but just the idea that some oth...

A.   23 August 2010: if shes a virgin then nothing should haunt you. i was a virgin before my girlfriend, and im the 5th guy shes had a sexual relationship with. it doesnt even matter that shes had sex with 4 other boyfriends before me, cause i love her and the past is ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend won't touch me!

Q.   So I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months and everythings good very serious. But I give her oral a lot which she asks for! Which I don't mind doing it for her I love to pleasure her but she's always askin for it and hinting but when it comes ...

A.   23 August 2010: Tell her how you feel. or even better, ask her to 69. then you both get what you want. ... (read in full...)

My dad is going to get this boy in trouble because he sent me a dirty message!

Q.   I am So Worried. I went out with my Family today. And i was texting this boy we were having a NORMAL conversation. And my dad had to look at something. And he sent me a dirty message so my dad got mad. But luckly not at me! But at my friend. And ...

A.   23 August 2010: tell yuor dad to calm down, its not like you actually did anything physical, its just text. ... (read in full...)

She is in a never ending cycle with her ex and dragging me into it...

Q.   I'm having trouble here. I fell in love. Yea one of those. I've had a very bad history in life. My first love died in a car accident. I lost it stopped dating then started searching for the same feelings I had before and ended up hurt in every way ...

A.   23 August 2010: your not a bad person. explain to her how happy she makes you feel, and how she should realize that your there to love her. if her dumb ex does nothing but hurt her, then make sure she knows or realizes that your the better person for her, and you ... (read in full...)

The two loves of my teen life

Q.   Am i stupid? i was in a relationship for a few months with this boy, and i completely fell head over heals for him. this was all new for me because i had never truely believed in love.well after about 5 months i decided it was time to prove to him i ...

A.   23 August 2010: if you proved to him that you loved him and he ran away and hooked up with some useless chick the same day, then he never deserved you in the first place. any caring guy would realize the beautiful thing you two had, and not be so immature. be with ... (read in full...)

Do guys really care about breast size?

Q.   I have very small breast... I wear a thick push-up bra and layers of clothing over my chest to cover up the small size. And this has worked out fine for me until my boyfriend became touchy with my breasts. I started to feel very self-concous about ...

A.   23 August 2010: at your age, you shouldnt have anything to worry about. personnaly, breast size doesnt matter at all. ... (read in full...)

Is a 6 inch penis big enough?

Q.   Im almost 18, and i have a penis that is 6 inches, is that big enough for girls?...

A.   23 August 2010: you can have a 4 inch penis and be good enough. if you know how to use it, and hit the right spots, youll be excellent. by the way, 6 inches is a big size, thats nothing to worry about. be confident in yourself... (read in full...)

Should I lose weight for my boyfriend?

Q.   I am totally in love with my boyfriend, and i know he loves me. Never would i doubt that but... I dont know if im pretty enough for him. I'm worried about my weight. I am 5'3" and weigh 106lbs. I'm not even what some people would consider chubby. ...

A.   23 August 2010: 106 is a great weight. dont worry about losing weight, just eat healthy and stay fit by doing physical activities, like jogging or playing sports. im the same way as your boyfriend, im 6 feet 2 inches and i weigh 165. my girlfriend worries too and i ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I have had an orgasm?

Q.   Hey, im a 16 year old girl and i have been dating this guy for like 3 years and we have recently started getting intimate, how do i know if i have had an orgasim is there some signs i should look for?...

A.   23 August 2010: im no girl, but youll definatly know when you have one. your body will go insane. you wont have to question it. youll know... (read in full...)

How can I make my penis larger?

Q.   hi i am 23......my penis is small...how can i make it big....pls help me!!!!!...

A.   23 August 2010: your penis size is not a flaw, its just who you are. dont watch porn and get upset, either. i have a large penis and i even feel small watching porn. as one answer said,as long as you know how to use it youll be fine. size doesnt matter. be ... (read in full...)

I never told him I loved him, now I've lost him.

Q.   MODS NOTE: I've removed a few bits as it was TMI, and not relevant to the question. So about 3 years ago, this guy(who's younger than me by 2 yrs) moved in right next door. Since the first day we met, we became great friends. Since the past year we ...

A.   23 August 2010: talk to him. tell him how you felt about him all this time, and all your stories of being afraid to tell him. tell him EVERYTHING youve ever wanted to tell him. you might have to move on, but not without telling him the truth. the one thing you ... (read in full...)

Why can't she see he's not good for her and I'm better for her?

Q.   so i met this girl back in early october, 2009, she was with another dude at the time but then broke up with him, we were getting really close and all, she was my best friend and i was hers, after she broke up with that dudes we got really close, ...

A.   23 August 2010: if it doesnt work out with him then shell settle for you. BULL. dont let her settle for you, take her. Nice guys dont always come last. girls love nice guys, especially when there manly and know when to stand up for themselves. if i were you, id ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to look at my genitalia,

Q.   I am too scared to look at my genitals. I dont know why but I am. I was in the shower and looked for just a second, and it was kinda red, what does this mean? I also want to wear tampons but dont know where to put it? How can I get over this fear ...

A.   23 August 2010: Well, as long as your genitals are not in pain or irritated in any way you should be fine. red is a pretty regular color as i understand. and for tampons, theres only one plae you can really put them, so just be brave and try it one day. youll be ... (read in full...)

I wanna be happy

Q.   oh my goodness i just want to scream i am so unhappy,cant stand my kids my husband bothers me to no end i have thought of everything from having an affair leaving and never looking back,then the guilt hits so i stay,i am 40 and husband is 55 he has ...

A.   23 August 2010: if i were you, id leave him and find the right person for you. if your not happy, your not happy. the age difference definatly weighs down how much you enjoy life, because theres only so much you can do. 40 is still pretty young. im sure he will ... (read in full...)

Told him I was a virgin now he is distant

Q.   Okay, so there is this boy I have been talking too since april. We started hooking up (in april) but never had sex (though he tried). We hung out a few times, then summer came and we went home. All summer he texted me and would send me little ...

A.   23 August 2010: in my eyes, your very lucky, or just responsible to have your virginity. its a beautiful thing. maybe your partner has had sexual relationships before you, and wouldnt feel comfortable taking your virginity. if he doesnt feel like hes the perfect ... (read in full...)

I'm starting to resent her and her ways...

Q.   Okay, i have a girlfriend that i love to death, but sometimes i have some problems that i dont really know the names for. To start off, shes has a troubled past of family problems, drug problems, and boyfriend problems. I, myself, have self-esteem ...

A.   2 August 2010: thank you everyone. it looks like everythings gonna be great. i confronted her and she realized what i was saying and understood what had to happen... (read in full...)

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