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writes:Am i stupid? i was in a relationship for a few months with this boy, and i completely fell head over heals for him. this was all new for me because i had never truely believed in love.well after about 5 months i decided it was time to prove to him i loved him(i hope you understand what im getting at). after it was all over we both kinda freaked alittle but everything wasnt so bad, but a few minutes later he just got up and left my house. of corse i went after him.he broke up with me that same day.i had never been more hurt. he than got with a friend of his friend.(all in the same day). he told my friend he felt bad and wanted be back but he told his friend different stories and came to tell me i shouldnt keep asking for him back. its now been almost a month since the break up and he found out the girl he left me for was kinda nasty bouncing from guy to guy so he got back with his other ex. who not to sound mean but honestly isn't the cutest thing.there is a few guys that like me, exspecially my best guy friend(my first love), but i feel bad whenever i even think about getting near him like that. am i wrong for that? he also gets mad if he even hears about me liking another guy. if he moved on, why can't i? what do you think?
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reader, TalonZurfluh  +, writes (23 August 2010):
if you proved to him that you loved him and he ran away and hooked up with some useless chick the same day, then he never deserved you in the first place. any caring guy would realize the beautiful thing you two had, and not be so immature. be with the guy who truly cares for you, and move on. and i dont blame you for feeling that way when you go to have sex, that probly scarred you. it would do the same to me if that happened
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 he has no right to get angry about liking another guy...if this is your ex we're talking about getting angry he has no right because your not going out anymore and he can't have you by a string for the rest of your life. go out with friends. its not bad if you like this guy (your bestfriend) but be careful your feelings aren't only just happening now because of the breakup and that he is just a re-bound cause that is hurtful for both of you. you can move on. its your choice but i don'tttt think you will want someone who treats you like that in your life again. dont go back there. be content with yourself, be happy and do things that you love doing. dont go back to him. he'll probably just do it again. goodluck
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