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Tell me to be sensible! College professor likes me and I like him too!

Q.   I just found out my uni professer likes me and I'm in turmoil. I am a mature student and I like him too. I don't know what to do, so far I have just been avoiding him. It is driving me nuts. I want to be sensible about the whole thing. He is ...

A.   23 September 2010: I think you shouldn't do anything right now, since you can ruin his life and yours. Do you like him a lot? If so, wait until you graduate. ... (read in full...)

I have hair in places that I don't want it!

Q.   um well this is awkward but i've been getting ALOT of hair in places it shouldnt be and where it should be but theres alot of it. i use nair, veet, or i shave but it grows back the next daay. Is there anyway i can get rid of it or when i shave it or ...

A.   13 September 2010: wax is the best way to get of hair, I know it hurts but that's only for the beginning. When you wax: the hair grows back a month and a half later and the roots get week over time.... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a young teen girl to have feelings for their teacher?

Q.   Ok so i'm attracted to older men and most of m friends think that's pretty werid but anyways there's this teacher that i know and he was my wrestling coach for 2 years. But lately i've started to have a major crush on him because he's easy to talk ...

A.   9 September 2010: This is completely normal. Ever since I was a kid, I always like older men and I always had HUGE crushes on my teachers. It's just that older men are more mature; they are more experienced and therefore they are morally more attractive. Don't ever ... (read in full...)

If you saw a 46 year old man and a 17 year old girl holding hands or kissing in public how would you react??

Q.   My first love is 46, we've been seeing each other for a year now and we're both complete opposites but get on so well. We've cried together laughed together and he waited 4 months before we had sex.  If you didn't know anything about the people...

A.   4 September 2010: I am a 19 year old who only falls for men 45+ but I have to admit that even though I am like that I would still think that you are looking for a sugar daddy or something. It's just the society. But I guess you shouldn't care what "the public" thinks ... (read in full...)

How do I choose between these two women??

Q.   Hi, My story is very long and complicated I'll resume the main point. I was dating that woman A since high school, for 10 years. At year 8 I discovered she was cheated on me for a period of time, I forgave her because she says she chooses me on a ...

A.   8 June 2010: I hope you follow my advice. The first girl has shown you already that she doesn't deserve you. SHE HAS CHEATED ON YOU!!!! She can never be trusted. Forget about her before she ruins your entire life. Your heart has been broken by her once; don't ... (read in full...)

How do I choose between these two women??

Q.   Hi, My story is very long and complicated I'll resume the main point. I was dating that woman A since high school, for 10 years. At year 8 I discovered she was cheated on me for a period of time, I forgave her because she says she chooses me on a ...

A.   7 June 2010: People who cheat can never be trusted. Looks like woman A is one of those people. I guarantee that she is going to cheat on you again. I am not telling you to "choose" the other girl though. All I am telling you is not to choose the first girl.... (read in full...)

How can I stop my underarms sweating?

Q.   hi. im 18 and have a problem that has been getting on my nerves, my armpits keep sweating, it happens within 10 minutes of getting out the bath. i wash well and everyday, im very hygienic. the sweat doesn't smell, it just ruins me from wearing nic...

A.   2 June 2010: Use Dove ultimate visibly smooth..it's really good and you wont sweat and would always smell good Use it right after you take shower. Use it every morning.... (read in full...)

I love him, but we are so different.

Q.   I am living with a man that is 8 years older than I am. I really think he is losing interest in me in more ways than one. I love him but there are so many ways that we are different and I get so lonely because he stays so tired. I don't want to ...

A.   29 May 2010: How long have you guys been together?please give details!... (read in full...)

I want to teach at my high school some day, would it be okay to date a fellow teacher then?

Q.   So I was just looking for some opinions on this one: This year, I developed a tiny bit of a crush on a teacher, I realize this is nothing to act on right now, but I'm not the type that gets a crush that often, I'm 15 and this is only my second c...

A.   26 May 2010: I think you will be over your teacher by then. You are gonna meet so many new people.... (read in full...)

I am gay, he is straight, should I tell him how I feel?

Q.   I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm gay. I've always known that so that isn't the issue. I've been having REALLY strong feelings for another guy, but he's straight. I don't know if it's love (I doubt it) but they're strong enough feelings to make me ...

A.   25 May 2010: Even if you tell him that you like him, he wouldn't have any feelings for you because he is straight. So I think you shouldn't tell him.... (read in full...)

How important is it that a man is fit and attractive?

Q.   Ladies do you think its important for a man to be physically attractive in a relationship (marriage for an example)? I know there are other more important factors, but don't you think its a least important for the man to be physically fit a...

A.   20 May 2010: No, appearance is not important at all. It's the man's values and behaviors that attract women.... (read in full...)

I slept with my teacher on impulse, what should I do now?

Q.   Thanks for answering this, if it even gets posted! A few days ago whilst staying after school to talk to a teacher we got into a very deep conversation, he was telling me about his wife, we've always been closer than teacher and pupil as he helpe...

A.   20 May 2010: people who cheat can never be trusted. I know it hurts and I know it is bitter but you really should forget about him. He cheated on his wife and he definitely will cheat on you one day.... (read in full...)

Have a terrible crush on my 40 year old teacher, help,

Q.   At first it was a crush, I know, but after a year I feel as if I really love him and it's ruining my life! I can't go anywhere, do anything or talk to anyone without him always being in my head. I'm 16 and he's 40, but I don't even see that. I ...

A.   18 May 2010: I TOTALLY understand what you are saying. I am in love with one of my teachers. He is like 50 and I am 18! I have been thinking about him 24/7 for the last 4 months. I always go to him and talk to him just to "be" with him. I have tried flirting ... (read in full...)

Have you ever dated a teacher?

Q.   Have you ever dated a teacher? What happened? did it work out? Also, I heard that female students develop crushes on teachers because they resent their fathers? what do you think of that? Because the three student teacher relationships I ...

A.   15 May 2010: I was in love with one of my teachers this year (I actually still like him). He is much older than me, I am 18 and he is 52. He is single and has no kids. I loved him (or still love him) to the point where I would do anything to be with him. He is ... (read in full...)

I slept with my teacher on impulse, what should I do now?

Q.   Thanks for answering this, if it even gets posted! A few days ago whilst staying after school to talk to a teacher we got into a very deep conversation, he was telling me about his wife, we've always been closer than teacher and pupil as he helpe...

A.   15 May 2010: I am not sure about the laws in Ireland but in the United States it is absolutely illegal for a teacher and student to have romantic relationships. You should definitely stop having anything with him because it seems like you guys both have trouble ... (read in full...)

I'm 18, he's 50 and my teacher..is there a chance?

Q.   What do you think I should do? I get that this is your typical textbook Oedipus complex (fancying older guys due to lack of older male guidance) btw so I don't need any advice on that anyway, so here goes, I'm head over heels in love with my Ita...

A.   3 May 2010: For a second I thought I was reading my own story! WOW! I am exactly your age and the teacher that I love is also in his early 50s and neither does he have any kids!! This is the same question I have been asking everyone on this website and also... (read in full...)

How do I deal with his emotional blackmail without being found out?

Q.   Hi all, i am from a reserved and conservative family . i tried a lot to get work just for my confidence and ended up with getting placed in a bpo. I had relationship with a guy for 6 months in the work place . when v started he was behaving like ...

A.   29 April 2010: you should tell your parents BEFORE he does that.... (read in full...)

Help with a hairy chin

Q.   Hi...I need some advice. I recently just discovered that I am growing hairs on my chin!!!!! I keep plucking them, but its really beginning to freak me out and I am petrified that my boyfriend will see them and leave me. Is this normal? or is th...

A.   27 April 2010: It's normal. Some girls get unwanted or unusual hair growing on their chins. The best way to get rid of them is threading. I am not sure if you know what it is or not. It's a way of getting rid of facial hair (only for women) and it is a Middle ... (read in full...)

Will I look back and regret sleeping with a 46 year old man?

Q.   Hi, thanks for your time, I'm 17 and the guy I'm having casual sex with is man who is 46, with the benifit of hindsight will I look back and think what he is doing is wrong? It's just a pattern I've noticed throught life, as I get older I look bac...

A.   23 April 2010: You might feel ashamed but that's because what you did is considered a taboo. However if YOU don't think of it as a taboo you are never going to regret it. It's just an experience. Personally, I find older men (40s) more attractive.... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher but he shows no interest in me!

Q.   hi. please help me i have had hhe same Health and Physical Education teacher for the past 3 years. I am 15 turning 16 at the end of the year. I have completely fallen for him. He is 30 with a wife and two adorable children. I dream about him ...

A.   21 April 2010: He is married with kids! so stop thinking about him. I know it's hard but you have to do it. ... (read in full...)

I like my dad's cousin who is 10 years older than me

Q.   ok i have a huge problem and i cant keep it bottled up anymore i think i like (actually i dont think i like him i no that i like him) my dads cousin he is 10 years older then me im turning 20 and he is turning 30 i dont see him much maybe once ...

A.   18 April 2010: honestly, I am just wondering how you can be in love with someone that you only see once a year! but that's ok. In my opinion, you should definitely not tell anything about this to him because he is your dad's cousin so you may put him in a very ... (read in full...)

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