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writes:Hi all, i am from a reserved and conservative family . i tried a lot to get work just for my confidence and ended up with getting placed in a bpo. I had relationship with a guy for 6 months in the work place . when v started he was behaving like a gentle man but latter on he started threatening and torturing me wen ever he sees me talking with any guys. so i started avoiding him and finally decided to leave him DUE TO PSYCHO like character . Its been nearly 3 months that i moved on , now my parents found a match for me, he some how heard this and threatening me that he would say "EVERYTHING " TO MY PARENTS AND BROTHERS with evidences that we were in relationship. If he does so then i ll be in a serious trouble and i dont wants my parents to suffer because of this. Since they are very orthodox and conservative this issue would affect not just them even my future.Please help me out to get out of tis Blackmail !please help me out with this as i dont have anyone to discuss this with !thank you !
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reader, swordandredrose  +, writes (29 April 2010):
you should tell your parents BEFORE he does that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): I am a father of several adult daughters just like you and we are a conservative middle eastern family also but if one of my daughters was in a similar situation and she came to me directly or via her mother seeking my help I know I would be very angry initially with her but after that I will stand by her and defend her. So my advice is let your parents know of this incident. they may scold you a little but eventually they will stand by you and know what to do.Don't be afraid. Parents are made for such cases.tell them.
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