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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay here's the situation. I've been having sex for over 2 years now (since I was 16) and I definitely suffer from premature ejaculation. I ejaculate as soon as I enter my girlfriend and if we're kissing a lot and she is stroking my penis through my jeans I ejaculate in less that a minute with no real contact at all.I don't know whether it is a sensitivity problem or a psychological problem or what but ever since I've been having sex this has happened. I have not improved at all.I have at least once a month.What can I do to cure my problem? I want to cure it naturally aka no use of creams or condoms etc. I want to be able to have sex normally like a normal person. What can you all suggest?PS I don't use condoms when having sexThank you so much
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reader, Seeker01  +, writes (5 September 2009):
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Normal people use CONDOMS!
Think safe sex!
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sti-std-what-are-they-and-how-do.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): Take it as a compliment, she must really love you. Dont worry, PE wont last long
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): Ok, when I became sexually active at 18 I would ejaculate, most times, within probably 1-3 minutes of penetration. Now at 26 I have lasted for over 2 hours. A few tricks are don't get so worked up about having sex. Get yourself off about an hour before you think you are going to get some. Also wearing a condom helps, and I would recommend you wear a condom, I was your age the first time I got the "Uhh..You need to get tested" phone call from a girl. I wasn't much older when got a girl pregnant. Anyway enough with the condom speech, back to your question. As you get older this will become less of a problem, there is a medication that I believe is about to hit the market, it was in clinical trials around 2003, but I believe it still has yet to hit the market, talk to a urologist if this problem is that serious for you and he maybe able to get you into a clinical trial for this drug or something similar. What you are experiencing is normal, just try not to be so exciting when you are with your girl (yeah I know that's difficult), and get yourself off more often. Eventually a time will come when you still on occasion will have this problem, but for the most part it should take care of itself. If you are still having this problem regularly in 5 years you definitely need to see a urologist or sexual health professional. Also if you are on certain prescription drugs, or using certain recreational drugs they maybe the cause of this. If you are using recreational drugs lay off them, if you are on prescription drugs talk to your doctor about side affects, and ask if this is a side affect.
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reader, superdolly +, writes (4 June 2009):
you could try practising when you masturbate as soon as you feel yourself close then stop practise makes perfect after all.
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