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28 May 2009: This is not a question this is my personal opinion for some things said to others onthus site... I have read and commented on a lot of different forums on here and there is always someone who gets on and criticizes the ones asking for advice. For ...
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Am I a bad mom?
Q. I'm wondering if I'm a bad mother? My kids are 4 and 20 months. Both boys. My oldest is very hyper and we actually had him screened for ADHD and he isn't. But I swear he is! he bounces off walls. It doesn't matter what we do he's all over the place, ...
A. 4 June 2009: Ur blood pressure is very good! And feel lucky u have time for u! I don't work and my children r not in school yet. Lol it gets better you are far from being alone on this one. You ever need to chat about anything let us know I know I will be more ... (read in full...)
How do I tell b/f I'm through making mistakes?
Q. how do i let my boyfriend know that im done with making my mistakes and want to take the relationship furthur?...
A. 14 May 2009: Honey that depends on what mistakes you have made! You didn't specify what you had done. They say actions speak louder than words and that is very true! Take that into consideration. You should sit down and have a face to face heart to heart! He ... (read in full...)
I need a boyfriend!
Q. i need help.i know im kid but i know what im talking about.i need a boyfriend.my boyfriend that i absolutely loved dumped me when i moved cn anyone help.can you tell me if i need to go to the skating rink and meet one there please help....
A. 14 May 2009: Why do you NEED a boyfriend? Honey you are young and the way I see it a female is to be chased not be the chaser! But yes going to a local mall movie theater skating rinks anywhere a lot of people hang out. Get some friends together and go out just ... (read in full...)
Why is she being like this and doing this?
Q. i was with a girl for over 1 year, and the othere day she broke up with ma. we was on the phone and we had a little bicker because she had to go home from work to get her stuf, so i asked her did she want to come down n see me, and she said she ...
A. 14 May 2009: Ok honey all I can say is give her alittle space let her be the one to see she made a mistake! How was your relationship before? Maybe if you let her have alittle time and let her figure her own problems out She'll see what a blessing you were to ... (read in full...)
Do I really have to let her go?
Q. Reality check... Do I really have to let her go. My ex girlfriend have split now for over 5 months and I'm still finding it very difficult to move on. We were together for 3 and a half years and most of the time it really was the best time of our...
A. 13 May 2009: Honey I have been in a similiar situation but I was the one who left! I was engaged to a female we had a wonderful relationship it was fun laughs and lots of love! I didn't know how my family would take it so I thought I could talk to my sister! ... (read in full...)
Broken up because of family/religion but I can't get over him!
Q. My case might be unique cause I am from a very conservative background. I am a very religious Hindu and i CANNOT go against my parents to marry a guy they disapprove of. But emotions took over me, and i fell in love for a Buddhist guy! He loves me ...
A. 13 May 2009: Don't part yourself from him the heart tells more than you think you are in love so is he. Culture and religion has nothing to do with falling in love! If you love him as much as you say then your parents will accept it as long as you are happy ... (read in full...)
He takes everything so seriously that a big war breaks out
Q. I'm really in a confusing mode..Between love and friendship..talking about love there are always silly fights in my relationship.. i really dono what to do..every small thing that happens he takes so seriously that a big war breaks out...re...
A. 13 May 2009: It seems like insecurity plays a big role in your relationship. You need to sit down face to face and tell each other what's going on how you both feel and what you should do as a couple! If he is dragging you down and making you feel less about ... (read in full...)
My sister is being played -- how do I help her?
Q. Ok this is not about me its my adopted sister she is 30 years old and is in a long distance relationship. The guy is 26 and is a truck driver. They have been together for 4 months and he proposed to her they have only seen each other twice since ...
A. 10 May 2009: Well to update u she broke it all off with him. She even sold the ring he bought her! She is better to talk to now. She has taken advice on other things from us and it has made things easier on her. Oh yeah my dad contacted him and told him to leave ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for a gay boy
Q. I'm 16, and recently i've begun to really like a a guy in my school, i knew he was interested and i think he knew i was intertested too. anyway we swapped numbers and it wasn't long until he admitted he was gay, i was devastated! but he told that ...
A. 10 May 2009: Honestlty gay guys are great friends and maybe he does want to just experiment but at the same time Maine he is confused. He is young and a lot of times people will try different things to help themselves understand what they really r all about! If ... (read in full...)
My sister is being played -- how do I help her?
Q. Ok this is not about me its my adopted sister she is 30 years old and is in a long distance relationship. The guy is 26 and is a truck driver. They have been together for 4 months and he proposed to her they have only seen each other twice since ...
A. 30 April 2009: Ok I talked to my sister today and it has been two weeks sence they spoke last! I think she is getting the picture... I guess he told her he had been with another woman and has been for 7 years witch is a lot longer than them. She says she wil work ... (read in full...)
How could I convince her to have sex with me?
Q. I live with my cousin she is 33 and has two kids but she is so hot and I'm 19. I've been wanting to have sex with her forever now. She likes having sex but just broke up with her man. I made this lie where some girl said I was a bad kisser so I ...
A. 23 April 2009: Maybe you should move out of her home. I agree with the other two she is your cousin and no matter how attractive she is trying to sleep with her is never a good thing! If it was step or adoptive that is kinda off too but you are going to make the ... (read in full...)
They are say I'm anorexic, but I'm starting think it's true.
Q. I'm 13, and I haven't been on a diet long. A really short time in fact. My friends say I'm skinny enough already and think I'm crazy for dieting. It was just eating healthy and cutting back snacks, also with excersise at the beginning. But then ...
A. 23 April 2009: I had this same issue I ended up in the hospital for 3 months eating through a tube! Now I am 24 and weigh 96 pounds. I had messed my self up bad my stomach had shrunk so much from not eating that its still hard to actully eat my family tells me ill ... (read in full...)
He used me in a lie to dump his g/f
Q. Ok this is kind of stupid but I don't know how to handle this one... My 17 year old soon-to-be brother in law has made up a big lie involving me to dump his girlfriend of a year after he has cheated on her numerous times! He used the reason he can't ...
A. 23 April 2009: Ok well he is still doing this after I told the guy it was not fair to me that he did that! And now he is asking me to take him to see the other girls. I mean out of total honesty I can't stand the one he was originally with age is mouthy but its ... (read in full...)
Help! Can anyone give me tips on how to open up and have the ability to interact better with people?
Q. Long story short, I started University in September 2006, and went with the hope of opening up, meeting like-minded people and enjoying myself...and it didn't work. I've always been shy; I'm just really awkward around people. I don't know how t...
A. 23 April 2009: you have to just be yourself. Who cares if you say something someone doesn't agree with everyone has opinions and not everyone will agree! I was the same way people made me nervious large groups of people made me kinda akward I thougnt that keeping ... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend with her self esteem problems?
Q. My girlfriend has really low self esteem that I think stems from lack of parenting in early childhood and some abuse. I can't stand her being so hateful towards her beautiful body. What are some ways to help her overcome these issues?...
A. 22 April 2009: I've Got to agree with armywife! Be supportive and just do what ever it takes to make her understand that u love her for her and wouldn't change her at all. I also put myself down all the time. My husband has made it a point to tell me all the ... (read in full...)
Am I a bad mom?
Q. I'm wondering if I'm a bad mother? My kids are 4 and 20 months. Both boys. My oldest is very hyper and we actually had him screened for ADHD and he isn't. But I swear he is! he bounces off walls. It doesn't matter what we do he's all over the place, ...
A. 21 April 2009: You are not a bad mom. I am a stay at home mom of a 4 year old 3 year old and a 1 year old. I don't believe that your son has adhd my 2 oldest do the same thing and trust me honey I get to the same point you do! Like you can't handle it or you're ... (read in full...)
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