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writes:i was with a girl for over 1 year, and the othere day she broke up with ma. we was on the phone and we had a little bicker because she had to go home from work to get her stuf, so i asked her did she want to come down n see me, and she said she can't be bothered like. so i fliped a little and she said she's been having douts for the past few days. so she said she loves me but can't be with me, so i started crying and that. she said she will phone me the next day, and the next day came and she never phoned so the day after i went up to hers and she was sound with me i asked her to give me 1 last chance give me a trile for 1 month n she sed if i answer you now its a no, but let me think about it and ill phone u the next day after work with her answer so i said ok. i asked her if she loves me and she said she thinks she dose so i asked her for a hug and she said what will that do i said i don't know so she gave me one and it felt lik a proper hug so i left its been 2 days since she said she would phone and know contact i dont knw what to do can anyone help me please i just want her back thanx
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reader, bellaaddison  +, writes (14 May 2009):
Only she truly knows what she is thinking and feeling, but I would suggest that you leave it be.
Give her some time to think about how she feels and perhaps she will reconsider her decision.
If she does not, then you are better off to not be involved with someone who would stay with you out of pity and then break your heart again whenever it suits her to do so.
If she comes back, let it be on her terms and if she doesn't, remember that time truly does heal and you will find someone to love you the way that you deserve to be loved.
Take good care.
Bella xoxo
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reader, summerslady21 +, writes (14 May 2009):
Ok honey all I can say is give her alittle space let her be the one to see she made a mistake! How was your relationship before? Maybe if you let her have alittle time and let her figure her own problems out She'll see what a blessing you were to have! I'm so not telling you to sit around and wait forever still go out clear your mind and mingle. It will help ease the pain and that too will give you time! Good luck honey if you want to talk you're more than welcome to mail me!
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