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Am I just nothing to him now? Does he just forget me, completely, after years of marriage?

Q.   Does a man just forget his wife after he finds a new woman, even when he knows he was at fault for cheating does he just forget his wife, after 18 years, I was good to him... Can he just forget me just like that... i fought for him back begged h...

A.   22 January 2011: Hi anonymous, I know the feeling it nags at the heart like heartburn and broken. I'm going through that feeling right now myself and it hurts! and sends awful frustration our way continuously. They tell us they love us and we take it to hear... (read in full...)

It seems like she wants me to chase her, even though we are official!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been talking for a year and some change now, and just in September we made it official. But its like she wants me to chase her, its like she doesn't like to call or respond to my texts unless I contact her. If i don't ...

A.   21 January 2011:  Hi BlueMan91, I can relate to what you are saying about your girlfriend, because she reminds me of myself and my boyfriend when we were talking. Things were very twisted between us and we had a very hard time communicating in the relationship... (read in full...)

My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex!

Q.   My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex. They haven't seen each other for over a year and she says he was verbally abusive to her. She and I have been dating for 8 months now and are very happy and in love. Yet....she still talks to her ex....

A.   21 January 2011: A female reader, soft2020 writes ( 21 January 2011 ) Hi Ithacachris, I know relationships can be confusing and frustrating and seem almost impossible to success- fully accomplish. I know it can be one of the most tiring things in the ... (read in full...)

I'm a teen who's in love with a married men, but I need to get over him!

Q.   This is probably going to be a long question, so i'll just get straight to the point.. i can't stop thinking about this married man. I'm 16 and he's in the his mid 30's, he lives near me so my parents are quite close with him and his wife. Although, ...

A.   20 January 2011: A female reader, soft2020 writes ( 20 January 2011 ) Hi Claire1640, I have to say I must gather my pillow and some Kleenex tissues and wipe my eyes and blow my nose as tears run down my face. I may run out of tissue before I run out of ... (read in full...)

I can't get a new guy because I'm too fat. I lost my ex over it. Best dieting tips please?

Q.   I want to diet but if I don't satisfy my hunger, I get migranes! Also, if I'm nervous or bored my stomach growls so loud, it's embarrasing!. I want to diet because my ex refuses to say I'm hot, or sexy because I'm so fat. And I can't get an...

A.   20 January 2011: A female reader, soft2020 writes ( 20 January 2011 ) Hi anonymous, I wish I had a marvelous miracle self esteem tablet to give to you with super energy boosters, unfortunately there is no such thing. Many times in my life I had to endure ... (read in full...)

Is he just using me or is he actually struggling with his decision to break up with me?

Q.   Hello All, I am in need of some serious advice. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I was totally blindsided. He said things were moving too fast and that he didn't think he could love me the way he should. He was emotional and even got tear...

A.   20 January 2011: A female reader, soft2020 writes ( 20 January 2011 ) Hi anonymous, I have been there too and had been in a similar situation like you at some point and time in my past life with the opposite sex. My heart goes out to you and wish you th... (read in full...)

Is there always worry and heartache in relationships?

Q.   I am in a relationship at the moment and it is such HARD WORK. The fear he will cheat on me, the jealously of his ex girlfriends is always in my head. When he says something that hurts me. It really is torture. Being in love with someone is just ...

A.   19 January 2011: A female reader,soft2020,writes ( 18 January 2011 ) Hi Anonymous, like Anonymous replies love is what's found inside of ourselves first before we can receive it from anyone else we have to receive it from ourselves. Look deep inside yourse... (read in full...)

I'm really in love with him but don't want him to put his hands on me in anger again

Q.   ok me and my husband have been together for 5yrs now we have a daughter and everythang..will he has slapped me choked me and throw me cross the room,an not only throw me a cross the room but im late on my period like 2weeks late so i mite be ...

A.   18 January 2011: A female reader,soft2020,writes( 18 January 2011 ) Hello bbygirl 11, I can feel the agony and pain from all the blows your husband gives you my heart goes out to you girl!. I used to be in that same predicament along with thousands of other... (read in full...)

He takes me for granted

Q.   I like my boyfriend a lot, it may not be love but I care about him deeply. I feel he takes me for granted and does not listen to me. All he ever talks about is sex and sometimes I feel annoyed by this. He says 'I need sex' or 'its not fair you hav...

A.   18 January 2011: A female reader,soft2020,writes(18 January 2011) Hi anonymous, It seems as though you had enough of of trying to please the opposite sex. Yes! stand up girl and start trying to please yourself I feel ya I just got out of a similar situation m... (read in full...)

I fell for Mr Nice Guy who promised the world and delivered nothing.....

Q.   i am hoping to recieve help. my husband and i have been married only a year. we met on an internet dating site. he was the most romantic caring guy on the planet until we got near our wedding day.weve known each other 3 yrs. i had serious doubts t...

A.   18 January 2011: A female reader,soft2020,writes( 17 January 2011 ) My heart goes out to you vip66, I have been there many of times myself keep your head up and stay strong. Males and females have different needs in todays world it is all about self not you a... (read in full...)

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