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I am very simple, always in problem, every time I get out from 1,I am falling into the other.Sometimes giving it a good fight, some times toiling over it, some times blankly thinking how to get over.This is how I came to be the member of this site trying to solve my own.
Whenever I used to get into one, always I had (and even have sometimes) my mom telling me you are the one who created it and so I get it okk I am the one who can solve it.Nowadays when I get into sum problem and my parents are not around me, I think in the same way.It doesn't work always but most of the time it does even in the situations when I have been entangled with hundreds of it.
I have tried and will try to answer and respond to questions in my way,I can only say what I could have done in your situation but I will request you people to analyze your own problem in calm and cool mind from all direction.
Thank you and best wishes.
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I hit my wife. how do I regain her trust
Q. I recently got into an argument with my wife over our sex life. to make a long story short im very affectionate and she isn't. but the argument got very heated and i slapped her then slammed her head into the wall. i cant express how much i regret ...
A. 23 March 2011: I think you should wait a little more,may be she is taking your advantage but let her do it for little more time.Getting angry,being rude is no solution, just keep quiet(though silent treatment are very much adopted by girls :) ) when you don't like ... (read in full...)
What should I do which would end up not hurting anyone?
Q. hi to everyone one of my friends has this girlfriend. they've been together for about 2 years but they broke up about 2 weeks ago and then last week they got back together. my friend doesn't treat her right and she knows that as he doesn't trust...
A. 17 March 2011: According to me, don't try to sort out whats wrong in their life if you really want to be a good friend from both ends.Don't try to make your friend understand that he is wrong, talk with his gf only when your friend is present.If the girl is just ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in him but not sure as he is confusing?? Any thoughts please?
Q. i know him since childhood .. he is 5 yrs elder to me and I used to call him Anna (brother) .. thtz how any girl here calls a guy who is elder to her .. anyways .. after he finished schooling and left school in my 5th grade we hardly ever met or ...
A. 15 March 2011: Its good to see that something is blooming but beware of your feelings, don't show it too much.Try to be normal as much as you can, you have already disclosed your feelings.It may be possible that he is equally interested and just taking his time, ... (read in full...)
I hit my wife. how do I regain her trust
Q. I recently got into an argument with my wife over our sex life. to make a long story short im very affectionate and she isn't. but the argument got very heated and i slapped her then slammed her head into the wall. i cant express how much i regret ...
A. 14 March 2011: its too rude and its very obvious that she will be scared of you after such a thing.Good to know that you have started counseling for your anger and want to get her back.I think you should behave nicely with her, should not indulge into arguments ... (read in full...)
I found photos of my husband at a big fancy party that he attended without telling me! He said he was going to play pool with friends! I'm I crazy to worry about this?
Q. My husband went to a birthday party for his friends' wife without me (I knew some of the party attendees, but have not socialized with them in over ten years, not because of a falling out or anything, just because of busy lives). He went to this ...
A. 10 March 2011: Its a big problem with boys, what we see seriously is most of time nothing to them.I think you should talk to him ,ask him why and settle it calmly.Its really not cool for a husband going to a couple's party and lying his wife for such an issue but ... (read in full...)
My bestfriend always takes jokes too far and hurts me
Q. Dear Agony Aunts Please help a month ago a fell out with one of my bestfriends ill call him ken (not his really name)me and ken had fallen out in the past before because he used to make jokes about my personal apperance which soon turned into ser...
A. 10 March 2011: I too appreciate your decision.Its good to see that you can stand strong and analyzing the situation for both of your welfare.Good luck.... (read in full...)
My bestfriend always takes jokes too far and hurts me
Q. Dear Agony Aunts Please help a month ago a fell out with one of my bestfriends ill call him ken (not his really name)me and ken had fallen out in the past before because he used to make jokes about my personal apperance which soon turned into ser...
A. 9 March 2011: It's very common in this age. When I was your age a few of my friends used to joke around. Even I faced the same but not to this extent. I got depressed and stopped talking, but it got settled by a mutual friend and I am still friends with those ... (read in full...)
Should I message her?
Q. i m a really shy guy...during college i fell for a girl ..it took me 3 months n alot of pushing to go and tell her..she knew through common friends that i liked her. the time i talked to her she was really nice but said she's not interested other th...
A. 7 March 2011: yes just go 4 it...what r u waiting 4..take d chance....if she seemed to get bothered,just don't talk about feelings and all but there is no harm in being friends and try your best once again.Even if she doesn't get any feelings for you, there is no ... (read in full...)
He says I have to accept him so why cant he accept me?
Q. Hi dearcupid.I need you to advice me.I'm so confuse now. I don't know what to do. Me and my fince been together for 3 and half years on and off.We're agure for 5 or 6 times aweek.That's a lot!He make the problem for every little things.If he kiss me ...
A. 6 March 2011: you should split up. and never get worried of being alone.just think there are so many people in this world.how can you be alone? and whats the use of social networking ,clubs and discs then?and even if you think so,its better to have a world of ... (read in full...)
Should I never listen to anyone just to be with the one I love?
Q. Dear Aunts, I've been dating my boyfriend for 15 months. We met online and everything was great at first. We're so into each other. He lives a world apart so we don't meet on a regular basis. At first he thought about coming to visit me. I was ...
A. 6 March 2011: According to me,things are always not same.If he is seriously engaged he will definitely come to see you someday even if he is not ready today.So have patience, let him take the step and then convince yourself that you people are doing good or will ... (read in full...)
What am I getting out of this relationship?
Q. I'm confused right now. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. I live in my own house and he lives with his family. We meet at my house and go out occssionally. My problem is that I don't think he cares about me. He was supposed to come to my house ...
A. 5 March 2011: it really doesn't sound good from your words, if 1 adores anybody why he would behave like this?I think you should give him silly fights about gifts and all ,don't make it a serious issue though to see if he is getting concerned.If he does, good ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife? I'm more comfortable with my girlfriend!
Q. I have a rather lengthy question I will try to keep short.. I have been married for 4 years and I have began having an affair with a girl 17 years my jr.. My wife is 10 years my jr.. I feel like I really love this other woman.. I have been open...
A. 4 March 2011: well it may be because your girlfriend had experience before, you are comfortable with her and i think you should stick to your wife and visit a therapist together..will see that issue of being what you are before people with emotional issue..it ... (read in full...)
In love with my boyfriend's brother!
Q. I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother. To be fair, I've known and liked the brother longer. To make it easy to understand, we'll call the brother Ted. I worked with Ted for a good year; that's how I met him. I knew from the start that he had a ...
A. 4 March 2011: if you are thinking Ben is not a perfect one for you,split up.It may happen that you like Ben only because he is Ted's brother..ask yourself that..and if you like to continue, spend more time together, try to concentrate on his qualities which you ... (read in full...)
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