Please help, how do I tell my parents and my bf I'm pregnant?
Q. Well....i am 16 and my boy friend is 19 and i was ready to have sex so we did it some how condom broke and i am now pregnant...i was very thin and its now my 3rd month and you cant really tell i have never consitered abortion but i am just scared 2 ...
A. 5 November 2009: I was in your situation but luckily a bit older. My suggestion is that you first sit your boyfriend down and tell him. Face to face. Find out if he's going to stand behind you or leave. I think it depends entirely on the family. In my ca... (read in full...)
Pregnant with 1st child, Boyfriend distant...I'm so lonley.
Q. I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first child, my boyfriend and I got pregnant maybe a month or two after we first got together and so much has changed. At first he was so sweet and when I told him I might be pregnant he was so excited and happy to ...
A. 5 November 2009: No judgement here. I was with my boyfriend for 3 months and I was 18 when I fell pregnant and he too was extremely excited about starting a family. He was 21. As we go through our roller coaster of emtions, so do they. I understand that ... (read in full...)
How can I get condoms discretely?
Q. i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store...
A. 5 November 2009: I agree with Lola and Satindesire... If you're embarrased to have people know your buying condoms then you're not ready for sex. ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone is considered the "backbone" of a relationship?
Q. What does it mean when someone is considered the "backbone" of a relationship?...
A. 5 November 2009: Well being spineless generally means that you can't stand up for yourself and that your a push over. Being the backbone of something means that you are the strength of whatever it is. So I guess whoever's the backbone of the relationship is the ... (read in full...)
Every morning its harder and harder to get up
Q. every mornin i wake up gets harder and harder for me i am suffering from depression but i cant afford the therapy... everyone mornin i get up and apologize to myself and the guy im in love with ( even tho he doesnt know) i apologize for not being ...
A. 2 November 2009: You can't control who you're attracted to.. Lots of people go through the same thing. They find themselves attracted to someone they know they shouldn't be. Being attracted to him is not a crime but if you end up getting together, you are setting ... (read in full...)
Every morning its harder and harder to get up
Q. every mornin i wake up gets harder and harder for me i am suffering from depression but i cant afford the therapy... everyone mornin i get up and apologize to myself and the guy im in love with ( even tho he doesnt know) i apologize for not being ...
A. 1 November 2009: If you can't afford therapy or a doctor, I suggest finding someone you can trust and talking to them about how your feeling. Someone you can confide in, who wont judge and will be supportive, may be what you need.
No one's perfect and you can'... (read in full...)
What has happened to the world?
Q. What has happened to the world...children having sex at the age of 14? They can't be emotionally prepared for all the stuff they will go through....
A. 1 November 2009: I don't know how anyone can answer ths question. Kids are having sex when they are younger than 10. They want to be adults. My brother is 17, a teenager but still acts like a kid, although he wants to be an adult, like most teenagers do. They want ... (read in full...)
He must think I'm so stupid!
Q. I dont know if i am over reacting but, recently i found on my boyfriends laptop a number of folders of girls pictures which must equal to over 300 pictures of half naked girls etc including my best friends! But he said sorry and that he forgot i...
A. 31 October 2009: Do you really have to ask this question? What you should do is one thing but what you might want to do is another and that is your decision entirely. It's pretty obvious that he has no respect for you and is playing you and consistently lyi... (read in full...)
Is my penis curved because of the way I masturbate?
Q. I'm having curved penis problem.well its a different one,i have a preconception about it-i use to masturbate lying on my belly and pressing my penis up and down on the bed,so i get the feeling that it is because of this only.My dick very little ...
A. 28 September 2009: My fiance has a curved penis and as far as I know he never masturbated like that...
Penises, like vaginas, generally come in different shapes and sizes.
I think if what you're doing feels good and not at all uncomfortable, then there's no ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's too soon to start trying for a baby?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 years old and I really want a baby. My fiance and I are planning our whole future. I am graduating a year early, we're moving in together in a year and are going to the same college and working part time jobs. I figured our finances and I ...
A. 27 August 2009: I am 20 and my daughter is a year old. I live with my fiance and we are very in love and happy. Our daughter was seen as a blessing from the day we found out we were pregnant. I was 18.
However, I'm studying via correspondence, whilst taking c... (read in full...)
I'm a 19 year old virgin, is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and I am still a virgin. Is this normal? All of my friends have had sex. there is one girl I like but she is 14. Should I wait for her or just go for it?...
A. 14 July 2009: My boyfriend lost his virginity 2 years ago to me! :) He was 21 and he was really embarrassed so he lied at first and said that he wasn't. A while into our relationship he admitted that I had been his first and, apart from being a little ticked off ... (read in full...)
Why masturbate in front of them?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him, but i'm not really sure what to do. I don't really masterbate often because honestly i'm not that good a it. He is just so much better at pleasing me than I am at pleasing myself. Also I have ...
A. 1 July 2009: Well I have heard that it drives most guys through the roof to watch a woman "touch" herself. My boyfriend isn't like that, I wish he was. But if you don't feel comfortable doing it don't. Sometimes all it takes is time.
My suggestion, if you w... (read in full...)
Left with the tattoo, but not him!
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I ...
A. 1 July 2009: You can get it removed, however it is expensive and I've heard, painful. But I suggest that if you can that you do. You can't keep it for memories... How would you explain it to you new boyfriends? I'm not sure that they would be too happy with your ... (read in full...)
How do I let her know I'd like to sleep with her without offending her?
Q. Hi, I think the wife of my brother-in-law is attracted by me. I get this idea by the way she looks at me, specially when I walk by her when nobody else is around. But I am still not 100% sure. Does someone have any suggestions on how I can let ...
A. 29 June 2009: You're both married... Get rid of these thoughts before you destroy 2 marriages!If you can't get rid of the thoughts then don't act on them. Avoid being alone with her and try looking at your wife some more.
... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test says negative - is it right?
Q. please ladeis i need help, i had an intercourse with my wife wich lasted long as i usualy dont cum fast,but i lost erection before cumming.. the peoblem is,since then her period has been late now for 12 days we bought a pregnancy test and the...
A. 5 May 2009: Take a second pregnancy test... The first one isn't ALWAYS right... if it's still negative it might be that she is stressing. That can cause pregnancy symtoms, including a late period. Wait a while then and maybe go see the doctor if it still hasn't ... (read in full...)
The mother of his child is trying to worm her way into his family!
Q. So...my boyfriend of 2yrs and i are living together happily and have been so for 6months now!!! my problem is the pesky mother of his child. my boyfriend and his daughter's mother were never in a relationship...in fact, his daughter was conceived ...
A. 5 May 2009: Well I have a child with my fiance and his ex doesn't but it's still pretty similar... she still loves him and is trying to weasel her way back into his life through his family by befriending them... Your situation is a bit more complicated because ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and pregnant. The father is addicted to pot and drinking
Q. ~I'm 19 and pregnant and the farther is addicted to weed and drinking. My first problem was started a year ago last January when I started to date a guy that was defiantly not the kind I use to date. He was wild almost right out of person. He di...
A. 2 May 2009: You need to think of this child as a blessing. It is going to be the thing that changes you. I seriously hope that your drug taking isn't going to affect this poor child though. You said you've moved back in with your paretns, so they're willing to ... (read in full...)
First pregnancy anxieties.
Q. I'm 19 and last night I found out I was pregnant. I took a pregnancy test after having cramps and sore breasts pretty much constantly for around a fortnight. My periods have been slightly irregular for around the last four months so I'm not entirely ...
A. 15 April 2009: It probably won't sink in for him completely until he feels that baby move from the outside. That's only when my fiance finally felt it was real. But even holding that tiny human in your arms just after you've given birth feels so surreal... I ca... (read in full...)
First pregnancy anxieties.
Q. I'm 19 and last night I found out I was pregnant. I took a pregnancy test after having cramps and sore breasts pretty much constantly for around a fortnight. My periods have been slightly irregular for around the last four months so I'm not entirely ...
A. 15 April 2009: I was 18 when I fell pregnant so I can relate... I moved in with my boyfriend, who is now my fiance and we live comfortably in a flat attached to his uncles house with our beautiful 10 month old daughter. So don't worry. Things have a way of working ... (read in full...)
My bf is 7 yrs older than me and I know it's illegal for us to date. Is he worth it?? Please read xxx
Q. i am currently going out with a 21 year old and im only 13 (he was 20 when we started seeing eachother) the thing is he hasnt pressured me into anything and ive never felt this way before. i know about his past and everything ive spoken 2 his cous...
A. 13 April 2009: You posted this question, looking for answers and how many people have all said the same thing? It's clear what you really want to do, so why did you bother in the first place?!
The fact is he knew what he was doing is wrong before he even did... (read in full...)
Questions for pregnant or formerly pregnant women
Q. Hi there. I'm a little over 5 months along and and I have a lot of questions. Even if you only answer a few, I'd really appreciate it. 1- my breasts are pretty large now, will they stay that way? or be bigger after I'm done breastfeeding? I...
A. 25 March 2009: Hey
I can only answer a few of those questions from personal experience. Hope it helps.
1. Your boobs will probably get back to normal after you've finished breastfeeding. Be sure to wear a bra as much as possible otherwise they'll droop. ... (read in full...)
Parenting advice wanted!
Q. Hi everyone. i was wondering if anyone has parenting advice? i am 22 weeks pregnant and terrified. any advice about birth, raising a baby, names for the baby, or the portion of the pregnancy comming up would be greatly appreciated....
A. 23 March 2009: I'm 20 and my baby is nearly a year old. I fell pregnant at the end of my matric year. I was so scared of everything but everything's turned out great. Advice for the birth in my own personal experience: If possible and your comfrotable with... (read in full...)
My wife & mother are constantly fighting! What can I do?
Q. my mother and wife keep arguing. my wife and i are 21 and my mom is 47 and i think they are both to old to be fighting the way that they do. they scream and yell at each other all the time. sometimes my mother brings my wife to tears when they ...
A. 20 January 2009: I would sit them down together and tell them that they need to both make an effort, for your sake, to at least be civilised and respectful towards each other.Even if it's one last big fight to make sure all the feelings are on the table. Though you ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my g/f and her best friend
Q. since xmas i have been seeing my girlfriends best friend behind her back. it started as sex but its started developing into more - we hang out all the time (without anythin happening) i love my girlfriend but she is really possesive and pa...
A. 14 January 2009: Nice best friend your gf has... You have 3 options.
1.If you decide on your gf and tell the truth, she decides to keep you her so friendship with her so called "best friend" will be ruined. If she chooses to leave you the friendship is still ru... (read in full...)
What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)
Q. This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day ...
A. 12 January 2009: I am 20 and I lost it when I was 18 and drunk to a guy who claimed he didn't remember anything and made me look like a fool. It's one of my biggest regrets as I wanted it to be with someone special. Once you loose it and guys know you've lost it ... (read in full...)
I drove 2 hours to see ex, pregnant wife found out and left me
Q. ive been married for 1 year and my wife is expecting our first child. i receantly started talking to my ex girlfriend over the internet and i started to get all my old feelings back. i told my wife i was going to my brothers to spend the weekend. ...
A. 12 January 2009: Wow, your poor wife. She's probably feeling fat, uncomfortable and pretty much useless. And now you've added unloved and unwanted. Her hormones were already going crazy and will still be for the next year. I hope she's got tons of love and support ... (read in full...)
I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex?
Q. I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex? ...
A. 8 January 2009: YES! Unless it's sore or your discharging or bleeding after or while doing it. I LOVED sex while I was pregnant. When you are 9 months, sex might even help your labour. The pills they give you to induce your labour are semen based. I sta... (read in full...)
Research for a novel--sexual questions
Q. I am doing research for a novel I am writing. I would like to have answers to the following questions for females and males alike: 1. For the females: What were the circumstances that you were in when you performed fellatio for the very first ti...
A. 8 January 2009: 1. My brothers friend on my bedroom floor. He begged me to do it after we'd made out and done hand jobs and he'd gone done on me. I was young and not into it but I did it anyway. Unfortunately I've only ever made my current cum. 2. I had given... (read in full...)
Parents won't let me get condoms or The Pill, but I want to have sex!
Q. My boy friend and I want to have sex but my parents wont let me get condums or birth control pills. what do i say to her and what do i say to my bfriend?...
A. 8 January 2009: I would think your parents are right. Obviously they don't want their daughter having sex at such a young age. Buying you the condoms or pill is basically giving you their consent.
But I know that parents, as wise as they seem when your older, a... (read in full...)
How do I make her see that she is beautiful?
Q. my girl wont believe me that she is beautiful she just says that shes not beautiful and shes fat and that i have other girls and idk what to do at this point she wont stop its just nothing but bad talk that she says how can i help her see that i ...
A. 6 January 2009: She has low self-esteem. I have the same problem. My bf constantly tells me I'm beautiful but I think that he's just saying it to make me feel better and not becasue he really means it.It didn't help when he used to only say it when I was feeling ... (read in full...)
I don't think I love him anymore
Q. I dont know what to do! I dont think i love boyfriend anymore. We are engaged and have a 3 month old baby! It's such bad timing! I want my son to have his father around and ive stayed in this relationship for him! But i'm not sure i can do it anymo...
A. 6 January 2009: Our lives are so similar, except for the fact that I still feel love and sexual attraction for my boyfriend. We're young, have babies and guys that want to marry us and get really upset when we threaten to leave.
But my boyfriend knows that I w... (read in full...)
Do you think your best friend would risk a friendship if he really liked the girl?
Q. Do you think your best friend would risk a friendship if he really liked the girl? or is "I don't wanna risk the friendship thing" a lie? This particular guy fancied me A LOT in the past, so it's not like he's never felt nothing for me. He'll be...
A. 6 January 2009: I don't believe the "I don't wanna risk the friendship thing" is a complete lie. Lots of people are really good friends and then they end up having feelings for each other. Start dating and then breaking up and the friendship will never be the same. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm pregnant!!
Q. Okay, so I've been on the pill for almost 2 months now and I haven't missed a pill. Just last month my boyfriend and I had sex about 4 different times in like 2 weeks... without a condom but he pulled out about 10 seconds before he came. This month ...
A. 5 January 2009: It's highly unlikely that you're pregnant. There is still a small chance of falling pregnant, even whilst taking the pill religously. And spotting does occur in some cases where girls are new on the pill. It's just your body getting used to the ... (read in full...)
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