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I really enjoy giving advice and helping people with their problems. Though i usually have rather strong opinions, I'm still a very good listener and i try very hard to put myself in others' shoes.

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I see him every day but we don't talk but he is all I ever think about

Q.   Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent ...

A.   18 January 2010: No problem :) No i haven't thought about becoming a therapist, haha. I'm glad that you appreciate my advice. Let me know if there's anything else that i can help you with.... (read in full...)

I see him every day but we don't talk but he is all I ever think about

Q.   Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent ...

A.   18 January 2010: Well, you could just start out with what have you been up to since i last talked to you, it's been a really long time. And then go from there according to what he says. It's ok to be nervous about seeing him again. Just be yourself, talk a... (read in full...)

I see him every day but we don't talk but he is all I ever think about

Q.   Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent ...

A.   16 January 2010: Well when you see him sometime say hey we haven't hung out in a while what are you doing tomorrow night? Bring up something fun to do to make him interested, since just hanging out and watching a movie or something can get boring and awkward. What... (read in full...)

She was my first, but I wasnt hers, and that makes me angry!

Q.   She told me about one of the guys she has had sex with before me and Ive been wanting to kick his ass so bad. I saw him tonight and got so close but it didnt happen. She was staying with him when she got kicked out of her house and she had sex with...

A.   16 January 2010: Is there a reason why this is bothering you so much? Does she talk about him all the time? Because her having a previous sexual partner really shouldn't be that big of a deal, but it's obviously haunting you for some reason. HAve you asked her not ... (read in full...)

Reluctantly Romantic: How can I reverse my romantic feelings for my friend?

Q.   Dear Cupid, There's this girl. (Cliché, right?) She's just about the cutest thing I've ever seen, and at the same time she's so independent and self-sufficient. She's not interested in a boyfriend and that's part of why I find her so attractiv...

A.   15 January 2010: You are in a tough situation my friend. If you still want to remain friends, and she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, you're just going to have to keep telling yourself that your relationship cannot go past friendship. Maybe you should try talking ... (read in full...)

Does she like me, or is she just being friendly?

Q.   I am a 19 yr old bisexual female and have been bisexual for years, fighting to keep it secret from family, especially my homophobic mother. Most of my friends know I am though and have no problem of it. Recently, I was re-acquainted with a friends ...

A.   15 January 2010: Hmm... interesting situation. The best advice i can give you is that you should talk to her. If you guys really are this close do you think it would weird her out? I don't think so. Maybe she said she's asexual because she's denying that she may ... (read in full...)

I can't get the ex out of my head, not sure what to do!

Q.   Hey everyone, So i just contacted my ex after like 15 days to contact no seeing eachother its been about 3 months since we broke up he is currently with someone new. I contacted him just say hey how are you doing. And then i said well just to...

A.   15 January 2010: In terms of you not being able to get your ex out of your head, I think you have a classic case of wanting what you can't have. Your ex seems very happy in his new relationship, and you should let him be happy. I understand that you're missing him, ... (read in full...)

New bedroom tricks to wow him!!!!

Q.   My boyfriend and I just fixed our semi broken relationship and I want to spruce things up and maybe be a little more kinky without freaking him out. Any suggestions??...

A.   7 January 2010: guys have a g-spot underneath their balls, on the skin that connects them to the butt. massage it with wet fingers or your tongue with your hand on his shaft. he'll go crazy i promise. :)... (read in full...)

At my age can I buy a vibrator?

Q.   I'll get straight to the point. Im 14 and masturbate. I have for a couple of years but have done the same thing the whole time. It feels amazing but Im getting tired of doing it that way and like to try new things. Any suggestions? Please don't say ...

A.   7 January 2010: I don't see why you couldn't get one. They shouldn't check id. Just go to a mall or with a store like spencers or something.... (read in full...)

Will he forget me when he's gone?

Q.   I'm feeling seriously bummed. Me and this guy just started flirting for a couple days and he's so sweet. We text and IM eachother all of the time but now he's leaving for 2 weeks to do some family stuff. Do you think he'll forget me while he's gone? ...

A.   7 January 2010: If you guys text and IM each other all the time i don't see how keeping in touch is a problem. Two weeks really isn't that long. You should try telling him how you feel... say something like "hey, I'm really glad we've gotten closer over the last ... (read in full...)

He says he'll get help so should I go back to him?

Q.   The other day, my boyfriend and I were arguing in my car. He kept saying he was going to leave me so i fianlly got tired of the threats and told him that i was not going to beg him to stay anymore. At one point he just sat and let me express my ...

A.   6 January 2010: I totally agree with Angzw ... get out!... (read in full...)

How do I know if my erection is hard enough?

Q.   I am a virgin and I'm a little worried about if my erection is hard enough. I can get erections easily and things fill out well, it just seems like the "grip" is lose. I don't know how much sway it should have while I'm erect. Can anyone ...

A.   6 January 2010: By the "grip" do you mean how tightly it's connected to you? Because it should be able to move around fairly easily. If it stayed in only one spot you would be really limited on positions you could do without hurting your partner. So, as long as the ... (read in full...)

Married sex issues! He says I take too long to orgasm.

Q.   I've been married for two years been with him total 10.5 yrs. I enjoy giving oral...he does not..he says I take too long...and has "sighed" in the middle of it once. I seem to only get oral when he's been away with work...like it's a welcome home ...

A.   4 January 2010: I also can take a while when it comes to orgasming. One thing that i have found works well is getting fingered before sex. Have your husband finger you with an upward angle (since the g-spot is in the front...and finding your spot is key to an ... (read in full...)

Why won't my boyfriend touch me?

Q.   I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 18. I've been with him for 6 months, and I'm completely in love with him. He's my first "real" relationship, as in the first that didn't revolve around sex. He cooks for me all the time, he keeps me entertained every ...

A.   4 January 2010: Yeah... that's a really weird issue. Physical touch and affection is really important in a relationship. Honestly, I couldn't make it without it. I don't know how you've stayed with him this long. Have you asked him if he had some sort of abuse as a ... (read in full...)

How to lose weight fast without hurting yourself?

Q.   how to loss weight with out hurting your self to any pills an you are only 16 years old and want to loss it fast and keep it off for life can yall help me i mean its a new year i want to start off right but i need help because i know for sure i ...

A.   2 January 2010: First of all, crash dieting is NOT the way to go. I've tried it, and you're almost guarantied to gain the weight back. You should research healthy foods and the correct way to count calories and such. If you're looking for a program i'd suggest ... (read in full...)

Not sure what to make of her signals please help me interpret them

Q.   She is sending me mixed signals and I do not know what to make of them!!!!!!!? I met this girl a month or two ago and it seemed like we immediately hit it off. Lately we have hung out a few times with friends and **** and that is always cool, bu...

A.   2 January 2010: You need to talk to her. There is no way to know what she wants or why she's sending mixed signals unless you ask. When she's giving you one word answers it could mean anything from "I really want you to try harder to get me to talk to you because i ... (read in full...)

Was this rape? Or consensual?

Q.   About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a guy who was 21. I was 16 at the time. We had sex, and I consented (well, I couldn't legally give consent, but I said yes). Now that the relationship's been over for a few months, I'm feeling more ...

A.   2 January 2010: Was it rape to you? You did consent at the time. But, it is statutory rape, since he was having sex with a minor. You have to ask yourself whether or not pressing charges is worth it to you. Is it worth bringing your parents into it, going through ... (read in full...)

I'm torn between to different guys.

Q.   I'm torn between to different guys. When i say different, i meen compleatly different! The first is annoying and infuriating, he is so arragont and up himself, but he is so funny, and can be nice when he wants to be.He dosn't sound like a goo...

A.   16 December 2009: Stay with your boyfriend. I used to be just like you always falling for the outgoing player. You know that if you go for him you're probably going to end up getting hurt. It's easier to bring a shy guy out of his shell then it is to get an arrogant, ... (read in full...)

I'm confused, sexually frustrated, not getting any younger or more attractive and I'm afraid I'm going to look back on this with regret!

Q.   Hi all. My wife has always had a low sex drive. Mine has always been much healthier. A number of years ago she was diagnosed as suffering from depression, which she thinks she'd had since before she met me. She takes medication and it works well. ...

A.   16 December 2009: This is a really tough situation. I think that your wife should try first switching her meds. I'm on antidepressants and they don't affect my sexual appetite at all, though mine's rather high. I'm sure that she could talk to her doctor and they ... (read in full...)

How to stop being nervous about sex and such!

Q.   im fine with foreplay with my girlfriend and fingering her and stuff but when it comes to her giving me handjobs and blowjobs and sex im just nervous and it is ruining my erections. how do i stop being nervous cuz im nervous that im not big at all ...

A.   16 December 2009: If your girlfriend doesn't care about size then you shouldn't either. If you're too nervous and ruining your erections you're not pleasuring anyone. Just think of how much fun it will be when you can experience a hand-job, blow-job, or sex. I'm ... (read in full...)

Why am I taking so much bad behavior from him?

Q.   1) Husband infertile, cannot have sex, and not bothered to fix it. 2) Listens only to his mother, father and sister. Completely controlled by them, and expects me to dragged along. They exploit him for money. 3) He was not there for me phy...

A.   16 December 2009: I don't know why you're taking all of his crap. I think you know what you need to do. This guy doesn't sound like he's gonna change for you anytime soon. Do yourself a favor and finds someone who deserves you.... (read in full...)

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