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writes:Why would my boyfriend do that?? is he really in love?ive been with my boyfriend for 4months now and he tells me he loves me everyday.. hes soo sweet and nothing compare to the guys ive been with in the past. the guys ive been with in the past cheated on me and treated me like ****.. and i was sooo hurt.. and heart broken.anyways, my bf was chatting to these girls that flirts with him and when i found out..i got upset and ive just found out that hes deleted their numbers and off his face book.he also had a beard, apparently hes been growing since her was 17 and well i didn't like it..but i was beginning to get use to it.. and he went to the barbers yesterday and shaved it all off.i asked him why he did that cos he loved it SO much..he said i did but i love you more..aww i dont know what to say..i feel soo bad.why would he do that? is he really in love??how can i learn to trust:( he just wants me to Trust him cos he'd never hurt me:)am 20..he's 21thanks..xx
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 It's not easy to prove to an insecure partner that you're not "foolin' around"... I applaud him for doing all he can to show you that he's serious about you.
Deleting girls numbers, facebook friends and hard earned teenage facial hair... if you can't trust him now, you probably never will. Seriously, what else could he possibly do to prove that he loves only you?
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reader, MayMay1  +, writes (14 November 2010):
Hey Girl, Look i think that in the past you have been hurt so much that you have forgotten how to have high expectations. This guy is in love with you and you can trust him. However you should always ensure that both you always keep your identities. Never forget who you are and what you like and he shouldnt do this either. In relationships you shouldnt change things about yourself just for that person, you should change things only because you want to. At the end of the day you want a guy who is not afraid to be himself rather than just please you all the time. Maybe try and explain this to him. Always believe that you deserve the good that is happening to you. If this guy gives you all the love and attention that you need and you are totally in love with him too then see this as a good thing. After all your bad experiences in relationships you deserve a great guy, because you are worth it and you should not feel uneasy about this. When good things happen to you, be grateful and enjoy the situation....Im not sure if this helps you at all but take care and all the best. You are worthy of happiness, NEVER forget this.
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reader, Sarahh._x +, writes (14 November 2010):
 My boyfriend is EXACTLY the same, tells me he loves me everyday and would do anything for me! He'd NEVER hurt me because he IS inlove with me. Just like your boyfriend is completely besotted by you!!
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