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Do I stay single or give him one more chance even though I don't really think he's cute???

Q.   I'm 16 and just had my first boyfriend. I broke up with him over the weekend (we dated for a week) b.c I was unsure of what I really wanted. In the past, I've kinda hooked up with guys thinking that I had a chance with them. I've always wanted a ...

A.   4 May 2010: I have been in this position before, once to be exact. I dated this guy my friends matched me up with. He was a nice person, we had a lot of things in common but i wasn't physically attracted to him-he wasn't cute to me. We dated for awhile about ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?

Q.   I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine liv...

A.   29 April 2010: I think you are partly to be blamed about what your girlfriend did. You should have called her and let her know that you were sick so that she could take care of you, after all she is your girlfriend, nevertheless, she had no right to hit you with ... (read in full...)

First he says he loves me, ...then says he never had any feelings for me!

Q.   Hi guys, I mentioned 4 months ago that my boyfriend said he was laeving the country for good and he had to look afdter his parents and tahthe couldnt take me with him becaus ethat place isnt for me, conditions are not suitable to live being a ...

A.   29 April 2010: I know what u r going through, i went through similar, let him go, he is playing you, he has no interest in being with you thats why he doesn't call often or come to visit you whenever he feels like. When aloves loves a woman he will do anything to ... (read in full...)

How can one be so cruel?

Q.   I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...

A.   28 April 2010: This guy is real JERK. And yes people can be that cruel and even worse. I was talking to this guy i met online for a few months. He was a soldier in the US air force security forces. We used to communicate often but then everything changed when he ... (read in full...)

How do I get an introverted girlfriend to open up?

Q.   My girlfriend is 18 and im 19 and she is very introverted and never really talks about her problems to me or anyone for that matter. I wish she would open up to me more so I can help her out because she is going through alot right now. She also ...

A.   27 April 2010: Give her time. People choose to be introverts and they do so for various reasons, i.e, they were abused, physically or otherwise,raped, molested, have low self-estem among other reasons. All in all there is a reason behind her behaviour-she bein... (read in full...)

I messed up and now I am lost!

Q.   *Op's own title* I was dating a girl for the last month , well when I say dating I mean we were hanging out on a regular basis talking alot we kissed, held hands when we were alone, things like that. I felt like I needed to know where things were ...

A.   27 April 2010: I can see that u really like this girl a lot. I adivice you to give her some space as you have been doing and wait and see what will happen. Don't try to rush things in will only make things worse. good luck have a good one.... (read in full...)

He stopped contact, suddenly..did I offend him..did he get bored with me? Any advice?

Q.   Hi I started chatting to a man over the internet about 3 months ago, now all of a sudden he has stop communicating with me. We usually have some form of contact at least every day or every second day either by phone,text or email. But its bee...

A.   27 April 2010: I have going through the same thing right now. I met this guy on a very prominenet dating site a few months ago. We clicked instantly, we used to email and IM each other on yahoo messanger very often. We even made plans about us taking turns to ... (read in full...)

Facebook romance-ish?

Q.   There’s a girl (we’re both student teachers) who teaches down the hall from me. We chat online fairly frequently--I usually initiate it, but she’s receptive and sometimes does. She says she doesn’t want a boyfriend or anything. It does seem like a ...

A.   19 April 2010: Well it looks like she's not interested in you that way- as more than a friend, maybe she interested in someone else, or she's getting to know someone else. But since you don't know why she's giving you the cold shoulders in terms of you guys... (read in full...)

I want him to be hanging on my every word!

Q.   The guy i have fallen for is basically the coolest in the school, but i know hes a bit into me. The thing is, i don't know how i can get him to talk to me more? I want him to be hanging off my every word. Hes the kind of guy you cant get too int...

A.   19 April 2010: Leave him alone. If he likes you he'll initiate contact with you, even if you sense that he likes you, leave him alone. Men/boys don't like to be chased they like to do the chase/chasing, it excites them. So the next time you see him ignore him and ... (read in full...)

How early is too early?

Q.   Okay I am currently in a 3 month relationship with my first boyfriend ... still a virgin hes not .. im not sure tho wether i want to "fool around" yet he tries to but he understands that i am inexperienced haa but i dnt want my nerves to ruin it or ...

A.   19 April 2010: I think ur too young to have sex but it seems af if you have already made up your mind. If your boyfriend really loved you he would wait. I know you said he doesn't pressure to to have sex but I also know that he's a guy and when that 'feeling' ... (read in full...)

Fell for him be he started going out with someone else before I could tell him

Q.   Hi guys/girls (IM sorry if it seems im pouring my heart out but i dont really have anyone to talk 2 ) im katie in 24 and compleatly lost at the moment, i really likes this guy slept with him 2 fridays ago, then the weekdend of that friday(...

A.   19 April 2010: Girl YOU NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY. The resaon he left you to be with her is because he only wanted one thing "SEX" and he did so now there is no reason for him to stickaround with you. He has now moved on to his next victim. So YOU NEED TO MOVE ... (read in full...)

Fell for my ex again, but she doesn't feel the same way

Q.   ive fallen for my ex girlfriend again after we split up to years ago because i was going through a tuff time at home. i have made my feelings known to her an says she does still like me and she wants to want me but cant seem to feel the same way she ...

A.   19 April 2010: If she finds it hard to start a new relationship then I think its best if you just give her some space, give her time to think about the situation and get to the root of the problem i.e,m Why does she finds it hard to start a new relationship with ... (read in full...)

He's in no hurry to divorce his wife! what should I do?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for two years who is separated. he is so good to me and we have such a great relationship. I could never imagine my life without him in it but my problem is everytime I mention him getting a divorce he gets offensive and ...

A.   19 April 2010: I understand how you feel. I know whats it's like to love someone so much that you will do anything for them(with the exception of anything illlegal,lol). It's clear that he's still in love with his wife, even though he says he's over her and he ... (read in full...)

Does my boyfriend REALLY want to marry me?

Q.   My boyfriend's family don't really like me but I want to get married to him. They would be totally against it. He says if I can get a million fans on my Facebook page he'll marry me anyway. So far I've only managed to get 137. Surely if he re...

A.   19 April 2010: If your boyfriend wanted to marry you he would have asked it along time ago. Men always go after what they want even if their friends and family object. It's obvious that he is playing you like a fool by asking you to do an impossible task of ... (read in full...)

Why do guys take so long to call you back?

Q.   why do guys take so long to call back? If they don't call after 3 days dose that mean they lost interest?...

A.   15 April 2010: These are the possible reason guys don't call a girl after 3 days: 1. He was just flirting with you. 2. It was just a fling. 3. He and his girlfriend broke up so he needed someone to fill that gap until she cools off. What does that makes you the ... (read in full...)

Since he hasn't asked the question, should I?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for two years we live together and have a mortgage and everything is lovely but my problem is that I really want to get engaged and get married. I have started to discuss it a few times and he gives the impression t...

A.   15 April 2010: I know you love him dearly but the question is does he feels the same way about you too or have that strong feeling about you too. When a man loves a woman he will do whatever it takes to make her happy or feel loved. His only concern is showing her ... (read in full...)

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