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*illow1989
writes:ive fallen for my ex girlfriend again after we split up to years ago because i was going through a tuff time at home. i have made my feelings known to her an says she does still like me and she wants to want me but cant seem to feel the same way she did. should i keep trying or leave it be?
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reader, raiders  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 someone shouldn't have to make themselves love a person, the feeling of love just happens. When you fall in-love or are in-love in a relationship is the most wonderful feeling, but being in a relationship when you are not in-love or loved might make your heart feel vacant. Its always nicer to be in a relationship when the person we love, loves us right back, maybe you should not re-kindle this relationship. Stay with the memories and continue to look for love.
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reader, Sanita  +, writes (19 April 2010):
If she finds it hard to start a new relationship then I think its best if you just give her some space, give her time to think about the situation and get to the root of the problem i.e,m Why does she finds it hard to start a new relationship with you now? Is is because of something taht happened in the past?
Whatever the reason maybe just give her time to think thing through and see what will happen.
Good luck
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reader, Redoctober +, writes (19 April 2010):
Dear willow1989,
The one thing you don't want to do is scare her away. Take it one day at a time. Let her lead it where she wants it to go. You have done the most you can do by letting her know how you feel and its up to her now. Don't push it. You don't want to force her into a second relationship with you and then it doesn't work all because you weren't patient. The ball is in her court now. Good luck
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reader, confide in kirsty +, writes (19 April 2010):
 well if shes said she wants to give you another go then do it and suggest going out for dates, maybe she's frightened to give you another go, so just reasure her that you have changed, and like i said suggest that you start dating and take it slow .x.
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reader, confide in kirsty +, writes (19 April 2010):
Well if she has said she wants to want you surley there is something there unless she was just saying it tomake the situation less awkward, so maybe you could reasure her you have changed and maybe you could suggest to start dating again? she may think its a good idea if she wants to give you another try .xx.
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