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We would text all the time. Now he won't reply. I don't mind if he doesn't fancy me anymore, I just want my friend back.

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Question - (31 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been texting this guy that is around my age...a few months younger. We flirt all the time and he always compliments me which makes me feel really good and also makes me like him more. For example, if we see eachother that night and I am texting him later he will tell me how cute I looked or something nice like that. When we first started talking he would text me first sometimes, and I would text him first other times. Now, I always have to text him first and sometimes he never answers. Once we start talking we get into really deep conversations but again it takes a long time to actually get him to answer me or to get the conversation started. It seems like he's hiding something, like he puts a wall up that blocks people from getting close to him. I want to know, is he not talking to me as much now because he doesn't like anymore? I think I like him as more than a friend, does he feel the same way? Even if he doesn't, I just want my friend back. What do I do?

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A female reader, RXX United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2008):

RXX agony auntmen really enjoy the chase ... no matter what age. they are programmed that way! so my suggestion is that you just leave him for abit... i know it is really really hard to especially when you like him as more than a friend. but this way u can see if hes interested. I was in a situation like this and still kinda am but i only text him rarely except if he texts me first. Make him think u aint tht interested and he will come after u! i hope it goes well :-) xx

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A female reader, tryin2helpu United States +, writes (1 August 2008):

tryin2helpu agony auntbut today i said are you gonna talk to me or not! and he said hey

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A female reader, tryin2helpu United States +, writes (1 August 2008):

tryin2helpu agony auntoh my gosh! i a ahving the same EXACT PROBLEM!

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