My husband lies and gambles our money away. Where do we go from here?
Q. im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years.We have a 2 year old son and we live together,but my boyfriend has a gambling problem. He lies to me all the time and gambles behind my back,he also thinks that its alright and makes me feel...
A. 17 April 2009: your husband is immature, give him an ultimatum. its u and your child or lying and gambeling your lifes away, if he chooses gambeling then you no that ther is no hope. im sorry for putting it bluntly, good luck... (read in full...)
Am I cold hearted?
Q. Hi, I'm starting to think im cold hearted or something. Two people have died recently my form tutor that i had for 4 years and now my grandad. But yet.... tears do not flood my eyes, nor to strong emotions... Whats wrong with me? :(...
A. 17 April 2009: nothing is wrong with you, its just u cant show your sad emotions. my brother had the same thing and he still like it now, your sad inside but you dont want to show it that's the only explanation. your not cold hearted. if you were you wuld say you ... (read in full...)
How do I give my boyfriend space when he doesn't even say he needs it?
Q. i'm 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now.. i know its not that long but we're crazy in love! we see eatchother partically everyday..but my friends tell me that they think i should give him some space..cause im like always with him ...
A. 24 July 2008: hello, talk 2 him and ask him. then explain to him if he does want space then you will give it to him. tell him you understand and that u dont want 2 lose him. good luck... (read in full...)
I haven't had sex, as such, am I still a virgin?
Q. I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend was fingering me. it started to hurt eventually, but i ignored it. After we finished fooling around, i was bleeding. He pointed it out to me. Did he break my Hymen?? Or is it something else? If my Hymen is broken,...
A. 7 July 2008: it could be your hymen breaking if he was a bit rough but if he has long nails he could of cought u with them inside that could cause bleeding aswell. ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on an older boy that hates me
Q. I have a crush on a boy, he is in high school and i am in primary school, we only see each other in mosque. I love him but he hates me and makes fun of me and calls me names. I really want him to love me but how? I am despret for him....
A. 4 March 2008: U r obviously head ova heals 4 this boy, think about it he is in high school and ur 2 young 4 him. U wil experience true love soon enuf darling dont wori good luck in the mean time.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he will dump me if I ever cut myself. Now I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Help.
Q. My bf was recently telling me how a friend of his broke up with his gf because she was cutting herself. I was shocked that someone could break up with someone they are supposed to love when they need them so much. I was even more shock to hear my bf ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hey there it seams your bf has issues about you hurting yourself try talking to him about it, im sure he loves you. Good luck... (read in full...)
My ex doesn't want to be friends, but I do.
Q. Well, me and my ex split about 3 months ago now and he in another relationship(with a girl who lives half way around the world.) I've just started seeing someone also. Though we are taking it very slow, I can't help but compare it to my previous ...
A. 13 February 2008: it seems like this boy wants to forget and move on. Yes it wuld be hard for you, this happened to me it took a while but i managed with the help and support of my friends and family. try and forget and try a better relationship with new guy. good ... (read in full...)
My ex is still in love with me and I feel sympathy for another boy who also asked me for a date. How do I know if I love the ex?
Q. I once dated this one guy for a while, then broke up. He is still in love with me though, and asked me out again. I feel sympathy for another person who asked me on a date as well. It is all so confusing! How do I know if I love my ex-boyfriend? ...
A. 22 September 2007: Ask your new boy friend to give you some alone time maybe 2/3 weeks just to get your head straight to make sure you made the right decicion... (read in full...)
I saw the empty packing, he said he threw the condoms away because the date had expired, but it had not! Does he cheat on me, or I am exaggerating?
Q. Hi, does my boyfriend cheat on me? A while ago I've found some empty packing of condoms in the dirt bin at his house. He said that he threw the condoms away because the date had expired and he wanted to be sure that we would have save sex. I find t...
A. 22 September 2007: He might be he might not be just go extremley careful. He might be telling the truth, who knows ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me when drunk, she doesn't know I know. She says I'd have to get used to her, because that's the way she is.
Q. hi im have a problem with my girlfreind in that she drinks a lot of alchohol and even drinks in the morning on vodka, she smokes,does canabis, and will out drink most men!, and has cheated on me when drunk although she doesnt know i know. but she ...
A. 22 September 2007: You can't change her if you love her but don't agree with what she is doing then try and move on. She will keep on doing this when she is drunk and nothing can stop her. Get her counciling or get out her life.... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'll do it wrong and he'll dump me! It'll be my first time.
Q. Im 13 and my Boyfriend wants to make out with me, I want to but im scared I'll do it wrong then he will dump me. All my friends have done it. I dont know what to do, should i try and risk it or should i wait. I would be my first make out! Mizz...
A. 22 September 2007: It will come naturally i was 8 when i first made out with a lad and i was embarassed. It is nothing to be ashamed of and to be honest you would enjoy yourself just don't go over board.... (read in full...)
Tips on staying on top? I'm embarassed when me and my bf have sex, as I'm still not experienced despite of my relations with men.
Q. im really embarassed about this question! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and ive been with over 15 men but im still not experienced with sex! i feel really emabarassed when me and my bf have sex! ive never been on top and wouldnt have a clue ...
A. 22 September 2007: Ask him! i'm sorry but if your not that experienced tell him and he will hel or ask your friends for a few tips if they have lost thier virginity ok.... (read in full...)
How do you meet the good guys? I thought deep inside he was good, despite of the abuses. Since leaving him I only met red flag guys...
Q. I dated this guy for 4 years. He was emotionally and physically abusive, he cheated on me. And yet I still believed that deep in his heart there had to be good. Eventually I just had to leave him. I knew that I deserved more. I am a good person and ...
A. 22 September 2007: You poor thing, you deserve much better than that. Many lads can be good you just have to figure them out and wait for the right one and you will know if he is mr right.... (read in full...)
I fell in love with the boy my friend had a one night stand with, and she says she loves him. What should I do?
Q. My best friend lost her virginity in a 1 night stand after telling the boy she was'nt a virgin and has never tried to contact him since, i met him a few weeks later and fell in love with him and now shes saying she has feelings for him. what should ...
A. 22 September 2007: If your friend knows your in love with this lad then of course she will say somthing. If this lad likes you as well as you like him you may just hit it off, just beware of the jelous friend of yours.... (read in full...)
Does he like me or is just using me?
Q. Hi i'm 13-14 years old and there is this guy i've like for 6 years and he always hugs me and stuff and even feels me and touches me etc sometime he kisses me anyways everytime he does that i like it but he then goes on about other girls who he ...
A. 22 September 2007: it seems this lad is confused. Boys don't mature proply till about 18. this lad is definatly using you to see if you will take the bait and have intercourse with him. Try and keep your best away from him.... (read in full...)
He seems to be losing his patience with me, and I don't want our relationship to be a burden for him! I'm getting depressed.
Q. Hi DearCupid. For the past few months, I have been getting more and more depressed. I have just started my final year of A-levels, and already I feel like I'm getting lost in it all. I can't concentrate any more. My home life is volatile, with my ...
A. 22 September 2007: your Head is going round in circles, you and your mum, you and your boyfriend, and your A levels talk to your mum explain how stressed out you actually are and show her this letter that you wrote to me. She will understand. As for your boyfriend he ... (read in full...)
Can't understand why he didn't contact all week, when after 4 dates he was enthusiastic to invite me to see his house up north.
Q. This guy came up to me in a club and liked me and wanted my number and wanted to meet the next day. I couldn't I was on holidays for a week, the next Sunday he wanted to know if I was out the night before and called me to invite me over. I did, ...
A. 22 September 2007: He is probably to ignorant and not for you, he is making a fool out of you and if i were you i would go extremly careful to what happens if he contacts you.... (read in full...)
Is it fair to stay with the boy I'm with when I'm in love with my ex?
Q. I was with a boy for a year and i fell in love with him but i made a mistake and ended it and now he wont take me back, its been 6 months since we broke up and iv tried everything to move on i'm even in a relationship right now but i cant stop ...
A. 22 September 2007: i was in the very same position as you. i was still in love with my ex but you will lose him in your mind when you are round your new boyfriend. Don't let your new boyfriend know or this won't be good. Good luck... (read in full...)
If I could I'd express my love to him now, but 14-15 is a bit young to lose my virginity, is it not?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are soo in love, we've been together for almost a year [11 months and 22 days] And we've discussed having sex for the past few months, i am not pressured at all and we're very matture about the subject. We've discussed contrcep...
A. 22 September 2007: sex is not the answer to your relationship, you are 14/15. yas you may take precautions but you may still get pregnant or sti's. There are many other ways of showing your love to him. Good luck ... (read in full...)
If I could I'd express my love to him now, but 14-15 is a bit young to lose my virginity, is it not?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are soo in love, we've been together for almost a year [11 months and 22 days] And we've discussed having sex for the past few months, i am not pressured at all and we're very matture about the subject. We've discussed contrcep...
A. 22 September 2007: yes you are absolutly correct, 14/15 is the wrong age to have sex. There are many other ways of showing your love to him but sexual thing is not one of them. try and find somthing none sexual good luck
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