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I truly love life. I want to find love and laughter again. I find that when I step outside of my own world and offer what I hope is my "helpful" words to another that I grow. I feel alive if I know that I have made another person smile for the day. I love music and I am a student of the harp. At this point, I play a "mean" twinkle twinkle little star. I must re-create my life and make it the masterpeice that it was meant to be. All of our lives are meant to be precious works of art. I enjoy reading especially self-improvement books. I love being part of the outdoors. I have been thinking of what I should study in school. Yes, I am returning to school as part of the "re-create" me project. This alone should be a journey. I am nervous but excited about retunring to school. Well, there you have it a little bit about my world. Thank you for allowing me to share. Smiles to you. Rosary

I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn.

Q.   Okay, so I found my boyfriend's collection of porn. We've been dating on and off for five years and just moved in together. I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn. He's never shown any signs of being gay or ...

A.   11 July 2007: Hi splendid. I apologize because I mis-understood. Thanks for clarifying. I thought he had a few adult material. Splendid is it possible that he has another life that you may not be aware of? Do you spend most of your time together. I would ... (read in full...)

My husband does not support me emotionally

Q.   Within the first three years of my 18 year marriage I moved 100 miles away from home, stayed on my own 7 days a week while my husband renovated an old house,got moved in 2 weeks before my Mum died and five weeks before I gave birth to my second ...

A.   10 July 2007: Hello. I completely agree with your previous July 10th response. Wonderful advice. It is time to set daily goals that are attainable for you and take it step by step. Why do I say this? I am doing the same thing. I am re-creating my life into ... (read in full...)

My best friend just died and I'm feeling depressed all the time and can't shake myself out of it.

Q.   My best friend just died and it's like someone has just shot me, run me over and all that. I find it hard because we were so close and now I'm depressed and can't shake out of it like I did last time. Any ideas?...

A.   10 July 2007: My dear I am so truly sorry for your loss. You are going to feel emotionally exhausted for awhile but I promise with each rising sun that it will get easier. Honor your friend's memory by living a happy life. You are so young and have so much to ... (read in full...)

I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn.

Q.   Okay, so I found my boyfriend's collection of porn. We've been dating on and off for five years and just moved in together. I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn. He's never shown any signs of being gay or ...

A.   10 July 2007: Hi. I think that you are right in that your boyfriend has a right to his private thoughts and fantasies and you should probably not be concerned based on what you state in your post. If it really disturbs you then perhaps you can GENTLY bring up ... (read in full...)

My ex and I want to get back together but doesn't want me to continue a relationship with my friend

Q.   I'm 38 and gay, and have been with my partner (who is 21) for nearly 3 years. We recently had broken up for about a month or so, and in that month I met someone else who I consider a friend. We did hook up once during that month but now my partner ...

A.   10 July 2007: I think that you are right when you say that you are hurt. Time truly does heal all wounds. Give your partner and yourself some time. When you are hurt you are angry and disappointed. Please try to remember what things kept you together and if ... (read in full...)

Caught my husband of 10 years having an affair with my best friend! Can we work this as an open marriage?

Q.   I recently caught my husband of ten years in an affair with my best friend. I had suspected something several years ago and confronted him but he denied it and life went on. I now find out it has been going on for 7 years. He says he loves me and ...

A.   10 July 2007: When you first married your husband did you plan on having an open marriage? I think it is truly an unreasonable request of your husband to suggest that you have an open-marriage UNLESS you are comfortable with attempting this type of relationship. ... (read in full...)

I feel so lonely with my husband. There's no love, no sex and no affection...

Q.   I have been married to my husband for 7 years. We have recently moved to the United States from England. I thought it would be a new beginning for us. My husband has always struggled to show affection which is something I need, he also is not i...

A.   10 July 2007: I have been married 17 years on July 11, 2007 and I share in all the replies that I have read this evening. I don't know how this "loneliness" came into my life but it did. Each year my husband and I have grown further apart and I have tried so ... (read in full...)

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