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How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   29 October 2009: She has lied to me about some stuff from the past. She lied about a lot of stuff early in our relationship. We told each other no lies. She knew I had trust problems.... I have ended it with her. Thank you everyone. TTM most of all thank... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   26 October 2009: A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009) First: I did get jealous when she used to go out with her single older male friend. When I first met this man, my girlfriend and I were not dating we were just friends. I did little to hide m... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   25 October 2009: @A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009) I am not jealous of her past lovers. I am not jealous of what she has done. I am sickened by it. I find it disgusting. ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   22 October 2009: @Vectra "A good chance that one or more might have been abusive or had std's or made her pregnant etc." I force her to get tested. Well I asked and she has. And I am going to make her again since its been a few months and sometimes it take... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   20 October 2009: I have finally come to my final thoughts. I spent basiclly last 2 weeks distance myself from her past and the last week distancing myself from her. I was able to come to term with that yes this will bother me. And yes I love my girlfrie... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   3 October 2009: @ A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009) Yes, no one is normal when it comes to sexual craving and desires. Lets us me as an example: Almost all (cept for now 2 girls) that have I been in a long term relationship with have call... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   30 September 2009: Thank you Everyone. I might love her, but its not enough. We have a camping trip be have been planing for months now. These past 6 months with her have been great, for the most part. But maybe be just are not right for each other. Like Dav... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   11 September 2009: When my girlfriend and I had our first date, we went out to dinner. At the resturant, we had dinner, desert and coffee. Desert and coffee lasted for a long time. We sat there and talked the whole night away. Our first date lasted 6 hours. I asked ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   10 September 2009: I talked to her about regeit and how you can hate the part of you did something so bad but still love yourself. It took over 2 hours of talking and crying and knowing that if we didnt find a solution it was over. I learned she really put up a ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   9 September 2009: She says the same thing as your wife. That she doesnt want to feel bad about it. There there is nothing she can do about it now. I konw its wrong but a huge part of me wants her to feel as awful about her past as I do. I dont want her to be sa... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   9 September 2009: I hope i get some advice before it happens today. Sep 9. 5pm est I have talked to my gf about her past. I told her that I need to understand why i feel the way I do about her past, that I need her to understand that I think what she did was ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   3 September 2009: TTM, EXACTLY Honestly, HONESTLY... If i knew when I met her that she did threesomes and had done a gangbang with strangers, I would have NOT dated her. I would have looked at her said wow she hot and smart but I am looking for a nice girl,... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   2 September 2009: TTM and Gina you both bring up very good vaild points. I am starting to see that its not something that one day I will wake up poof, i wont care anymore. It just seems like a lot I have to deal with to be with someone. At some points I really d... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   1 September 2009: Hey TTM, You always know just what to say and how to say it. The way you explain things always helps. It makes me a bit better. I know I'm not as good as replying to your advice as you are at giving it, but thank you. Thank you so much. ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my significant other's sexual past?

Q.   I'd like some advice from anyone who has a boyfriend/girlfriend who has slept with lots of other people before them. I can't seem to get past it and it's causing problems between me and the person of my dreams. Please help, thanks....

A.   30 August 2009: I know this is an old question by my thread might help anyone who stubbles upon this question. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-her-promicuous-past-including.html... (read in full...)

The dreaded past...

Q.   Hello. I was wondering about something. Lets just say my current girlfriend has slept with around 30+ guys/girls. She used to be into group sex, threesomes and one night stands. I ask her why and she said she was heavily intoxicated or under ...

A.   29 August 2009: people posted a lot of good on mine http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-her-promicuous-past-including.html... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   28 August 2009: Gina, But she doesn't regret it. That is part of the problem. ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   28 August 2009: iydm, It still bothers me that she would do such a thing. I find it so awful and disgusting. I'm not sure I can ever look at her the same way again. Dont worry about the size of your post, you had a lot to say. She could have said n... (read in full...)

I can't have a sexual relationship because of premature ejactulation! Does anyone else have problems with this?

Q.   I cant stay the distance in bed and because of this I cant maintain a sexual relationship. I'm 36 and have a major problem with premature ejaculation. Because of this I've ended up in some very embarrassing situations and have never been able ...

A.   26 August 2009: Hey, See a doctor. Talk to them about this. ED meds can help with this. If you are not ready for that, then try to masturbate once or twice a day so you are not too excited before bet with a girl. Everyone has one or two of these even... (read in full...)

I've got a bumpy clit. What to do about it?

Q.   Um, Hello. I Just realized I had a bump near where my clit is. and I dunno how it got there. When I went to lay back down, I noticed my underwear Rubs against that part a bit hard. Maybe that's why it's there? When I got back up and tried to fix my ...

A.   26 August 2009: its most likely nothing. It happens. If you are sexually active or if you masturbate. It could just be a nomral bump... BUT SEE A DR!!! better safe then sorry!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Unlocking the mystery of the g spot

Q.   So, I think all males are kind of consumed in this inferiority complex when it comes to sex. I am no exception to that rule. My fiance is absolutely incredible, but I am unable to make her orgasm... There has been a few fluke instances, but n...

A.   26 August 2009: Some girls dont climax though vaginal penetration. Talk to her, see if she does. You can ask if she ever has (if your comfortabl know about her past) or you can ask if she can bring her self to that point alone. If she can im sure we can help you ... (read in full...)

B/f friend masturbates over friend's pictures!

Q.   Is it normal for your bf to masterbate over your friends, by either thinking of them or looking at pictures of them? My bf has admitted that he does this. He also sed he likes the thought of cheating on me, is this normal? He often brings up ...

A.   26 August 2009: I used to masturbate to my female friends. lately i only been able to think about my girlfriend. I'm sure its nomral. Everyone has fanasty. ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my trust issues and start believing there really are nice guys out there?

Q.   Hi aunts / uncles. i have trust issues when it comes to relationship and i always second guess myself and the other person. i got bullied when i was younger so i know thats why i dont think a guy will find me attractive and had a few partners who...

A.   25 August 2009: To get get over your trust problems that hard. I have trust problems too cause I been f______ over so much in the past. Once your in a realtionship, its best to explain your trust problems and say hey this is why i have trust problems. And if the ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   21 August 2009: @ jj2night Your very wrong. I am very dominate. This is the first time that I havent been as dominating. I have pretty bad sexual past too. Not as bad as hers but I was involved in a form of bdsm that involves 'slave girls'. She is less... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   21 August 2009: Gina, Thank you for you words of encouragement. I can not see my life without her. I really hope you are right and that I have the power to leave her past in the past. She has been great in helping me. The thing that got me was the gangbang... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   20 August 2009: I am away on a bussiness trip. When I lay in hotel bed and close my eyes, all i can see is the things she has done. I feel like I havent really slept at all in two days. This is just so awful. I dont know anymore and it kills me. I want to ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   16 August 2009: *sigh* So I have a follow up question. How do I break up with her without hurtting her feeling? I don't want her to think she is a bad person or anything. I just cant handle it anymore. ... (read in full...)

The effect of some over the counter herbal male sexual enhancers on mild ED

Q.   I know that this board is mostly made up of women and mostly younger people. Hey, I think everybody here is younger than me (almost 63). However, there have been some questions on ED (erectile dysfunction) like symptoms from time to time and it can ...

A.   16 August 2009: Right TTM. So as always, please get tested and practice safe sex. I was given cialis by a dr. I only got a few pills because he was pretty sure (as was i) that my problem was emotional. But even for emotional stress it helps. I was unable to ... (read in full...)

While we had broken up she slept with someone else....and I can't stop thinking about it. Help!

Q.   My girlfriend and I had a bad break up with no intent to get back together. While we were broken up, she thought I did not care about her and I thought the same as she did. we became started talking to each other between our break up, but very ...

A.   15 August 2009: Hey Man, I know it sucks, it really really does. Sometimes you need a break to move apart and really understand that you miss someone. It seems like breaking up might have been the wrong thing to do. But it happend, so you couldnt expect h... (read in full...)

The effect of some over the counter herbal male sexual enhancers on mild ED

Q.   I know that this board is mostly made up of women and mostly younger people. Hey, I think everybody here is younger than me (almost 63). However, there have been some questions on ED (erectile dysfunction) like symptoms from time to time and it can ...

A.   15 August 2009:  Well I just did some reseach, and Viapro is mostly just L-Arginine. So If you dont want to spend all that money on Viapro, try the L-Argine.... (read in full...)

The effect of some over the counter herbal male sexual enhancers on mild ED

Q.   I know that this board is mostly made up of women and mostly younger people. Hey, I think everybody here is younger than me (almost 63). However, there have been some questions on ED (erectile dysfunction) like symptoms from time to time and it can ...

A.   15 August 2009: L-arginine the one by Nature's bounty is good. I know I am young, but I was having ED problems, it was emotional and stress out related. After the first few time of doing it I didn't need it anymore but I still take it because it help me stay ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   15 August 2009: @troubledtoomuch To you first. Thank you so much for replying to my message and giving your input. I see you give out some of the best advice and really think highly of what you have to say. I guess it is different, every guy I ask says the... (read in full...)

To the men out there - do you get excited by the idea of seeing your wife having sex with another man?

Q.   I would like to see my wife having sex with another man, the thought excites me. Does any other male have this feeling....

A.   13 August 2009: No. I am absolutely disgusted at the idea of letting another man touch my girl. Before me, my ex used to have threesomes with 2 guys. I find just the though of that disgusting. I could never watch her touch another guy. ... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   13 August 2009: Male 25, Thank you. That is the best answer I have gotten so far. It does help. I will keep going keep trying. The more I talk about it and explore my feelings, the more I am able to dull the feelings of disgust out. I hate her past so... (read in full...)

I ruined it, can it be saved?

Q.   I've been dating an awesome girl for almost 4 years and she told me she wants a break as my actions at times pushed her away..she loves me most of the time, she says i'm such a great person, all the things she loves about me, etc., but the sway i ...

A.   12 August 2009: Me too. I am pretty much dealing with the same thing as you are. You think talking about it helps but then it just spins it up even more. From what I am learning there are really only two things you can do. Do you love her? Pic... (read in full...)

Is my girlfriend worth it?

Q.   I at the crossroads where I try to decide whether my girlfriend is marriage material. I have issues with her past and I don't know whether I get over it. She used to go to orgies and swingers parties with her ex-boyfriend and have threesomes with ...

A.   11 August 2009: YOur not messed up. I am in in a very similar situation. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-her-promicuous-past-including.html If you want to see who has it worst . Anyways. I understand what you are going though. Its ... (read in full...)

Every time we have sex I think about her with others from her past

Q.   Well im not going to write a book, but this is really putting a burden on my sex life with my girlfriend. Ive been dating my girlfriend for a year now. She is awsome, she really is a great girl. Last summer was kinda a roller coaster, it was grea...

A.   11 August 2009: Okay first. Stop listen to locker room talk. This might seem really odd, but the vagina actually gets wider when she is aroused. Lets assume the thickness of your penis is over 3.5 inches. That should be plenty. And it doesn't matter your are ... (read in full...)

27 never in relationship, I don't seem to attract the right guy

Q.   hi, i am a 27 year old girl whose never been in a relationship. i am not that beautiful, but i think i look nice. but as the years pass by, i don't think any guy is attracted to me, and i'm starting to have the feeling that i'm lonely, especial...

A.   11 August 2009: There is nothing you can do to attracted the right. You can do lots of stuff to attached men. Sexy clothing, the right make up, blah, blah, blah. But the right one will see you for who you are. Someone who can understand you better. How a... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   10 August 2009: @rhythmandblues2 Yes, she got professional help. And she made him do the same, but didn't press charges against him. She actually ended up Eloping and marrying him. They were going to have a real wedding for the family but she broke it off 2 we... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever left their girl because of her past?

Q.   Has anyone ever actually had enough courage to leave their girlfriend or fiance because they couldn't cope with her past? I'm stuck between walking away from someone I love for my own sanity, or having a loving loyal wife but having to deal w...

A.   10 August 2009: I am thinking about it right now. I look at the first poster, his is nothing compaired to the the girl I am with has done. Honestly I wish I could tell you it gets betters. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesnt. I dont know if am going to... (read in full...)

I've found out my wife is a slut

Q.   Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and my wife is 33 as of August 2, 2009. I just found out Saturday night August 8, 2009, that, well what I believe is a slut. She told over her 32 years of living she has had, 14 sexual partners. Some were one night ...

A.   10 August 2009: I have a problem with what my girlfriend has done in the past. and trust me, your wife is an an angel compaired to my gf. To each is their own. Talk it over with her. And if she that 'loss' there are things YOU can do about it. there a... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   10 August 2009: " If you are sickened by it all then ask yourself, why is it because it makes her seem cheap and therefore unattractive, are you confsed because her present self is so nice and her past self is so horrible." I think that has a lot to do with it.... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   10 August 2009: @LazyGuy Thanks. I want to be with her, it just this one thing that hangs me up. Its the one that gets to me. Everything else about is really great. We spent more time together then most people that have dated for a year or so. @rhythmandbl... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   10 August 2009: She wouldnt ever go for a threesome with another girl. She only wanted to do it with other guys. ... (read in full...)

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