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writes:Is it normal for your bf to masterbate over your friends, by either thinking of them or looking at pictures of them?My bf has admitted that he does this. He also sed he likes the thought of cheating on me, is this normal? He often brings up the idea of having a threesome too.It makes me feel as though im not good enough and maybe thats why he has to to think of others.
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reader, Pyroshadow  +, writes (26 August 2009):
I used to masturbate to my female friends.
lately i only been able to think about my girlfriend. I'm sure its nomral. Everyone has fanasty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Well, you needn't worry about it any more! He will definitely cheat if he gets the opportunity. It's written all over him darling so wise up and dump the jerk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all the comments.
The pictures arent of naked friends, just normal pictures of say when my friends have been out or something.
So does every guy masterbate other their gf friends?
If i mentioned bout having a threesome with him and another guy he would just say no and that would be the end of it.
Im just worried that he is going to end up cheating on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): He masturbates to pictures of your friends, and admits it? Good lord, are they at least *naked* pictures?
I question his level of maturity. I strongly question his upbringing. He sounds like either a spoiled child who doesn't know better, and a shit-disturber of the highest order. All in all, not someone who will bring out the best in you, IMHO.
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Whoa! Ok. This guy is obviously looking for some trouble. I think it's probably normal for a guy to jack off to thoughts of his girlfriend's friends. It's also normal to think about having sex with other people, or even thinking about threesomes. There is a total difference however in actually talking about these rather secretive fantasies. Or even taking pictures of your friends and looking at them while jerking off. I think that's kind of weird. It's one thing to think about it, but to actually use a picture or tell YOU about it is another thing entirely.This guy obviously doesn't respect you, and it probably makes you feel really bad about things. I would dump him before continuing any further. If he's using your friend's pictures to get off, or hinting to you that he wants a threesome, he isn't really worth your time. Simple as that. It's all about respect!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): if your bf likes the thought of cheating on you he would probably cheat on you eventually..
The rush that he feels when he think of that makes him crave to do it so if there is any chance im sure he will.
In the meantime, try to make him more excited about you,be more creative and kinky coz he might just be bored that why he think of those thoughts.
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reader, Claire73  +, writes (19 August 2009):
I agree it's normal to masterbate, but not tell your girlfriend!! That is completely wrong. Your self confidence has been knocked because of this and this is not on. If he has told you that he wants to cheat on you then it's time you left. He will leave you completely deflated if this keeps going on the way it is. You may think the world of him and want to keep him but believe me he is not worth it. It's time you went out with your friends and have a laugh and enjoy life. If he really cares about you he will realise that this is not the way to treat a girlfriend, if he doesnt care then he wont. I can only tell you what i think, and I think it's time you realised that there is more to life than being treated like you are not important!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Fairly normal, yes, just the same as doing the same thing to porn films and top-shelf mens' magazines.
The cheating thing probably is less normal but not unusual, and the threesome thing even less so.
It sounds to me like he's checking you out to see if you'd agree to a threesome, or even better, involve one or more of your friends in this fantasy of his.
It's not a very respectful way to run a relationship is it? If he's voicing these fantasies to you- and most of us men have had them at one time or another - he's rather thoughtless to put it mildly. If I told any girlfriend of mine that sort of thing I'd only do so if I expected to get dumped about ten seconds later. It's up to you how you handle it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): I'm afriad that is what guy's are like. But, if like most girls you don't like it, then you should talk to him about. If it still continues to bother you then maybe you should give him the aultimatum of carry on with what he is doing and loose you forever or keep you and loose the masterbating over your friends pics and the fantasies he has. 'Cause hunni, you sound way to good for him, no girl should be made to think they're not good enough for their boyfriend! I say, if he continues leave him! Good luck, I hope I helped! x
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