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My husband refuses to stand up for me after his cousin and I argued. I am heartbroken!

Q.   I love my husband dearly we have been married for only 3 months, but recently his cousin and I got into an argument. I had asked my husband not to bring him to my home until he apologizes to me for going too far. I will not do it and he told me ...

A.   1 February 2006: i can understand your pov! its your home! and he shouldn't be in it! especially if he is going to fall out with you! i will agree with the first poster and say maybe its your attitude towards the cousin too! but you need to make it clear to your ... (read in full...)

I am going on the pill..any advice on the side effects?

Q.   I am planning to go on the pills. Juust curious about the side effects? And also, once started on the pills , after how many days/months/weeks is it safe to have sex without protection? Thank You...

A.   1 February 2006: hiya, i know you have to atleast have taken the pill for a month and had a period before you are even protected!! ITS NOT STRAIGHT AWAY ... (read in full...)

He asked me...then told me he asked someone else to the prom...

Q.   Hey well this guy that i really like asked me to the prom and of course i said yes but then yesterday he comes to school happy as anyhting and i saif wow your pretty happy and he said no not really n asked wats wrong and he said his dad's an a hole ...

A.   1 February 2006: Hiya, well lovely just think its his loss! now you can go and have your pick of any boy there!! if it was me i would just ask him why he did it!! and if he just did it to tease you or asked you incase this other girl said no! then i wouldn't talk to ... (read in full...)

I'm insecure and worry he'll talk to other girls..I need help desperately with this!

Q.   Hi have im 20 years old and i have dated my bf for about a year. I have an insecurity problem with myself do to the fact that i have been cheated on before. ( I mean don't get me wrong i know im a very pretty girl but there is always that scar...

A.   1 February 2006: hiya, i know long distance relationships are hard! but the other posters are right! if he loves you and cares for you he wont stray! hes probably worried about what your up to as well!!! ( not that you up to anything!!) just think to yourself that ... (read in full...)

I went too far with the guy I like. Now I realise I'm too young for that sort of thing...

Q.   OK...Well I'm a 14 year old 9th grader in High School. I met this really cute 16 year old who's an 11th grader. Well I was sooooo naive and young in love. I went to his house one night and it led to something more. I regret it so much because I'm ...

A.   1 February 2006: hiya, dont worry, i did the same thing when i was your age! i have regretted it ever since! but im impressed that you have realised what you have done and not carried on like i did! i dont mean to sound rude but you are too young to have sex! i was ... (read in full...)

My friend of 20 just got engaged to a 68-year-old. What problems might they expect?

Q.   I am a 23 year old girl and my friend is 20 years old. She told me she has recently got engaged to a 68-year-old man she met in a pub - he is the owner of it, and that he is a decent person, was what she told me. She asked me what problems w...

A.   1 February 2006: well... you have probably already said this but the only ones i can think of are she might get called a gold digger! or she might have problems with sex, she might have problems with each others attitudes! because of such a huge age gap! im sure she ... (read in full...)

I want my wife to understand that I think she's loveable and beautiful, but she has terrible self-esteem!

Q.   My wife has such esteem issues from her ex-husband. They were married 15 years, 3 kids. She was a beautiful athletic build, a hottie when she was young. He broke her down so bad she feels all men are the same. She feels like she is being judged and ...

A.   1 February 2006: hiya, yes this isnt uncommon!! i have been throught this myself! the only thing you can do is what u have been doing!! try and be patient, just reassure her!! but the ultimate thing is get help from someone! if she is that bad the doctors can help ( ... (read in full...)

I just need a second chance to remind my ex how much we loved each other!

Q.   Dear Cupid My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year but we were dating for about 1 year and 6 months. We broke up due to the fact he did not trust me and said I was a flirt, so basically it was a jealousy problem. He always prom...

A.   1 February 2006: hiya, in my opinion you should distance yourself from him, Stop have sex with him!! thats not a good idea!! if he wont get bk with u then yes he is using you!! if he wants to get bk with u then he will come to you!! if not then forget about him!! ... (read in full...)

Can I get the Pill without having to see doctors or take blood tests?

Q.   Me and my first boyfriend are planning on getting serious in our relationship for the first time and I'm wondering if I should go on the pill. The only problem is I have a huge fear of doctors and I would like to know if they do any sort of tests ...

A.   1 February 2006: well in the uk there are no tests you have to take, the doctor will just perscribe you them! dont be scared they see it as you being sensible!! the wont think any less of you probably more! you will have to go to the doctor as they are perscribed! ... (read in full...)

All the old feelings for my ex are rushing back, after 15 years!

Q.   I have kept in touch with an ex boyfriend for 15 yrs now. Recently we have been talking, emailing, texting and talking on the phone. Feeling are just rushing back. For the past 15 yrs I have always said he's the one for me. What was I thinking...

A.   1 February 2006: hiya, well first i know its been a long time since you broke up but you nee to think about why you did in the beginning! people dont change completely! but if there is no reason for giving it another go just be honnest with him!! but be careful, and ... (read in full...)

I want my boyfriend and I to get engaged, so how do I let him know that without asking him to marry me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and we have discussed the issue of marriage. I know he wants to marry me, but he wants to wait until I am older but I really want to get engaged now. How can I let him know that I am ready ...

A.   1 February 2006: well... if u have a stable happy relationship just talk about it! tell the truth! tell him how you feel and that you want to get engaged! there is no other way round it! but you do have to respect the fact he wants to wait! hes only thinking of your ... (read in full...)

My husband knows he has a problem with ogling other women. What can I do about it?

Q.   I am married for 6 years now and I'm on my late 20's. My problem is that when I confronted my husband about ogling a certain woman, he readily admitted that he ogles all types of women, from old to the young ones, sexy to some obese women and he ...

A.   1 February 2006: hiya, my fiance ogles women all the time, also downloading porn all the time!, i hate it! but the only thing i can do about it is just be honnest and tell him how much it hurts my feelings and makes me feel inadiquate!! maybe you should try this!! ... (read in full...)

Christmas with him was forgettable, and our dates are a yawn. I don't understand why he still wants to see me!

Q.   I met this guy mid October and we started seeing each other quite often. We never really did anything other than sit on the couch and watch TV or a movie (sports usually). Christmas came and I went to visit family out of province so we decided ...

A.   1 February 2006: we'll it seems like a classic case of " you don't know what you got till its gone" in his case!, my advice would be don't get back with him! the likely hood is his behaviour wont chage! maybe it would be better at first but at the end of the day it ... (read in full...)

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