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Christmas with him was forgettable, and our dates are a yawn. I don't understand why he still wants to see me!

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Question - (1 February 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I met this guy mid October and we started seeing each other quite often. We never really did anything other than sit on the couch and watch TV or a movie (sports usually).

Christmas came and I went to visit family out of province so we decided to exchange gifts a little early. I got him a couple of things he really needed which I thought was thoughtful. He gave me a tea cup and a teddy bear (hello - I'm 30 years old...). Okay, other than that, my point is that he didn't put any thought into it. This seemed really strange to me seeing he dragged me through the mall for hours picking out gifts for his mother and sister.

I kind of overlooked the fact that he didn't put any thought into his gift and thought maybe I was being petty.

Christmas ended and nothing changed between us and I felt like it wasn't going anywhere. In my attempt to break it off with him he suggested we go to dinner and pick up some wine. I thought he was making an effort and decided to go out with him. My night consisted of walking for 1 1/2 hours, talking to the back of his head as he was walking ahead of me.

To end the night he suggested I pay for half of the bill which was $40. I am not a gold digger, but really?? If you ask someone out for dinner, man or woman, I believe you should pay!! Especially when trying to make it up to someone. I break it off with this guy again a week ago and he started emailing me today asking to see me. What do you think this guy is doing? What do you think of this behaviour?

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2006):

shania agony auntThe mans a 1st class prat! Im sorry but he is having a laugh,isnt he? He hasnt got a clue on how to keep a woman interested,it sounds to me that he is a selfish man and only thinks about he wants.I think his behaviour stinks! Get rid of him before you end up killing him!

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2006):

smeedle agony auntForget him, move on and he is a waste of space, he is arrogant and selfish, I would not put up with this kind of behaviour and neither should you. Bin him !!

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A female reader, PornStarKitty +, writes (1 February 2006):

PornStarKitty agony auntwe'll it seems like a classic case of " you don't know what you got till its gone" in his case!, my advice would be don't get back with him! the likely hood is his behaviour wont chage! maybe it would be better at first but at the end of the day it wouldn't change!

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