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I am a simple Plain Jane, 35 years old, struggling for the One man which I ahve waited for 3 years with patience and forgiveness heart...is not easy...

One orgasm in 2 months !!! Help !

Q.   I love my boyfriend to death but there is just one problem... I been with him 4 a couple months now but we have known each other for 10 years and in those months I have only had one orgasm...ONE!!! and that's because I was on top... I fake it every ...

A.   27 October 2008: Thanks qcumbrl, I learn something from you :)... (read in full...)

One lover for life... and proud!

Q.   I have been with my partner for a long time now and I am proud to say that she is the only women I have ever been with and I am the only man she has been with, I think it is a testament to our relationship that we have never wanted or felt the need ...

A.   12 October 2008: This is true love....Love like this is hard to find. Cherish every moment of your life....I am so touched and proud of your love. If only everyone can have it, there will be no scandals, affairs, jealousy bla bla bla...... (read in full...)

My husband says it is all my fault. I think it is him. Can this be fixed?

Q.   Help my husband of ten years is not the same person. We fight almost everyday and a few times they have become physical in front of our two kids. He says it is all my fault and that if I was to change and get on some meds. that it would fix ...

A.   8 October 2008: Since talking does not help much, perhaps you could email or write to him, say somthing like, you wish u cud make things back to your old romance days xxx ask him if he is undergoing any pressure xxx you still love him and hoping that he could talk ... (read in full...)

We have a sexual history and now I want to be just friends. Is that possible or will he always see me as a sex object?

Q.   I've decided that I just want to be friends with someone where the only other 2 times we've met we've hooked up. I don't know why I made it so easy for this person, I'm usually not that type of girl. We didn't actually have sex, just performed oral ...

A.   8 October 2008: He is obvious knows how to talk and make you kneel down on him ! he is using you...I am so sorry....but once he thinks he is easy to get you, he'll think this way all the time. ... (read in full...)

Should I meet him offline?

Q.   I met this guy on the net but i never met him in real life we talk yeah he wants me to get with him What do i do.....???? =[...

A.   8 October 2008: strictly public place and don't wear too sexy.... (read in full...)

How can I initiate a friendship after the break up?

Q.   I was communicating with a man from an online-dating site for a few weeks. After our first date, we mutually agreed to meet-up again. The conversation flowed really well and we were both excited about seeing one another again. However, hours before ...

A.   8 October 2008: 32 years old is mature enuff to 'act' as if he enjoyed the date with a genuine smile. He also could have thought about the 2nd date throughly before he cancelled. He is obvious do not want to hurt you and kind enuff to explain to you about the ... (read in full...)

Do you think my online friend is ready to commit to me?

Q.   Hallo there, I met a really nice guy online and even spoke to him on phone. He is happy that I belong to the same religious group as he is and also for the fact that I am a 100% pure vegetarian. We took it a step ahead, when he s...

A.   8 October 2008: infatuation....... (read in full...)

I don't love my boyfriend anymore, the stupid thing is that I fell in love with a guy I have never met! Don't know what to do!

Q.   i am 28 and i have been in a relationship for 14 years. i have never cheated so it's obvious, my bf is the only man i have ever had sex with. never consider myself to be inexperienced, never felt bad about having only one partner simply because i ...

A.   8 October 2008: Maybe your prespective of this internet guy may change if you meet him in person. I can understand that the energy for that guy may be stronger than your boyfriend. Cyber world ( illusion world) is different from reality world. When we are blin... (read in full...)

I can't perform in the bedroom (I'm disabled) but its too embarrassing to tell her that I can't make love to her...what should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend's fallen out with me and won't talk to me properly and I was wondering if anybody could offer me some advice. I'm disabled and really can't perform in the bedroom... my ex-girlfriend saw other guys on the side for that so there wa...

A.   18 June 2008: I am exactly at your girlfriend's situation ! I have been waiting for him for 3 years and I knew he's got sexual problem from his ex girlfriend big mouth ( Thanks to her anyway ) .... I have confessed to him and have made clearly to him that I don't ... (read in full...)

Should I go through with this marriage?

Q.   I need help! I have been living with my fiance the past 2 years and engaged for 1 year. We are supposed to get married in 4 months! I just found out from a friend he cheated on me the first year and a half we were together. He has now admitted to ...

A.   5 February 2008: Postpone the marriage and live separately for a while. Give him time to "make up his mind". Once cheated, it'll be very very hard for a lady to gain back the trust on man and after marriage, the feeling of betrayal will live inside you forever. This ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?

Q.   I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...

A.   22 January 2008: ** sorry it cud be a long note but i would like u to understand the conversation I plan for this Sunday nite** 3 Years of waiting and trying all out has make me feel eager to conclude the entire episode. ** I dont’ intend to have children... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?

Q.   I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...

A.   21 January 2008: I desperately want to win him but I think I would fail if I do not reveal to him that I knew about his sexual disability ‘cos that is man’s most important ego. And he would not mention this to me for life !! I will be asking him out this week... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?

Q.   I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...

A.   29 December 2007: Thank you very much for your time, Peoriaman, I Dont Lie, Askeve, India....I have always wanted to move on to the next guy but I still cannot find 'him' who cud beat this old Gucci cow ! so in the mean time I still cling to him and work harder a... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?

Q.   I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...

A.   26 December 2007: My Update – I confessed to him last Jun07 but his reply was – there is no chemistry between us. He insisted that he is a normal guy who can get aroused. I told him that to me, emotional relationship is more important to a physical one. He kept ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?

Q.   I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...

A.   4 May 2007: Thank you DrBroz. I am not too sure if it's erectile dysfunc or a totally helpless in other ways. Yes, this man has a very big ego.....the challenge is that, he might even walk out on me if I say a wrong thing about his sexuality. The most I can ... (read in full...)

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