Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?
Q. Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...
A. 4 January 2009: Most guys enjoy giving as well as getting.
But some like just getting it.
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How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?
Q. I recently cheated on my husband. What is worse is that my brother-in-law saw me outside in a parked car with the other guy. How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?...
A. 4 January 2009: I think it depends on what your brother-in-law actually saw.
You could soften the blow a bit by telling your husband that you kissed some guy and that you made a mistake and regret it (if you Do regret it).
Or perhaps you should just tell your hus... (read in full...)
Do I accept that its over?
Q. My fiance broke off our engagement on NYE after spending that evening with me on a date. Prior to this we had been arguing for about a week about some personal problems he was going through and his need to seek some professional help. He decided on ...
A. 4 January 2009: I agree with most of the answers.
If you really love him, help him as a friend. If you find the idea of marrying him unacceptable at the moment, perhaps you could remain friends in the future.
Depression is an illness like any other. If he was phys... (read in full...)
Have you been in a relationship where you were dating someone over 10 years older than you?
Q. Your personal experiences. Please share them, so I can make a conclusion on what I need to do with my own problem....
A. 4 January 2009: You are very young so I wouldn't advise you to date older men!
I have children your age and would not approve.
In general, age is just a number and as one gets older, if we're attracted to the person, what does age matter?... (read in full...)
Love at first sight - do you believe?
Q. do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...
A. 4 January 2009: I'd like to believe in it but I think it's more like strong attraction.
The attraction is probably a mixture of both physical and spiritual attraction.
In some cases it may last, but in many cases it doesn't.... (read in full...)
He isn't excited to see me anymore! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a few months. We are currently living 280 miles apart and he isn't as excited to see me when I come to visit (I only get to visit once a month) it seems that our spark is starting to fade I want ...
A. 4 January 2009: He seems to have got used to not having you around.
Monthly visits are not enough to maintain a relationship. Perhaps you could stay with him for a longer period to see if there's any feeling left.
Otherwise call it off and get on with your lif... (read in full...)
I feel like I will never get over him and that scares me.
Q. I was in what I thought to be a serious relationship three months ago. He dumped me because he felt he wasn't sure about his feelings anymore. It took him (1-2 months) to get over me after he dumped me( he would still tell me that he missed me and ...
A. 4 January 2009: you need to make a concious effort to get over him.
He doesn't care about you. I know it's easier said than done but this guy isn't worth it.
Go out. Meet people. You're worth more than this!... (read in full...)
My Own Life Experiences
Q. I have been looking over my answers to posted questions and I think I offer pretty good advice. I do however see a pattern of getting into my own life experiences to make a point. I wondered maybe some might think I am self centered by doing so...
A. 1 January 2009: Thanks for your post.
I relate to you fully.
I also enjoy answering questions as I've had a lot of experience and learned from "life".
Showing that we care for people, gives us so much in return.
Happy New Year!
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I just don't think I'm in love with him
Q. I've been married for 2.5 years now and I'm not in love with my husband anymore. In fact, I was never or am attracted to him and now it's really affecting our marriage. I did love him and married him because he made me feel so special and that i ...
A. 1 January 2009: This relationship is unlikely to last if you don't get counselling soon.
He needs help for "anger control". You don't have to spend the rest of your life being afraid to say what you think because you're scared of his temper.
Make sure you don'... (read in full...)
I'm afraid ill lose him
Q. Ok well my boyfriend has sooo many friends that are girls and he hands out with them more than me and he's always sayin jokes like sayin he madeout with another girl. He talks to other girls more than me and he liked 4 other girls awhile back. He ...
A. 1 January 2009: You're young and are wasting your time!
Your bf is very immature and not ready for a relationship.
As they say, "There are plenty more fish in the sea".
Happy New Year!... (read in full...)
Why does this always happen with myb/f?
Q. hey everyone, I really need help! It's New Years right now, and m bf and I had plans to visit one of my friends because she was alone for new Years ( bf was home, which is a few hrs away and her friends were all working) So We were going ot visit ...
A. 1 January 2009: Hi, Not the best way to start the New Year!
You're very young so what are you still hanging around with this guy for?
Find someone who does things your way sometimes, without putting you on a "guilt trip".
Relationships are about give and tak... (read in full...)
My boyfriend looks a gay porn! Does that mean he's bisexual?
Q. Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, we are very much in love and talking about marrage and children etc. My problem is i recently found out that he's been looking up gay porn on the internet. When i confronted him a...
A. 1 January 2009: He may just be curious. I don't think this necessarily means he's gay or even bi-sexual.
Take his word for it.... (read in full...)
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