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writes:I was in what I thought to be a serious relationship three months ago. He dumped me because he felt he wasn't sure about his feelings anymore. It took him (1-2 months) to get over me after he dumped me( he would still tell me that he missed me and loved me and all that). I am still in love with him, it has been 3 months as of today since we aren't together anymore and I just can't seem to get over him. I told him a few weeks ago that I still have feelings for him and he didn't say anything to me, but he did tell my friend that I am dumb(for telling him "I love you" all the time). I feel so bad because I feel like he really doesn't like me and I am here still having feelings for someone who isn't worth it. I am emotionally unstable, but so he is.. I don't get it. I don't know how to forget about him, I feel like I will never get over him and that scares me. Reply to this Question
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reader, pastfirst +, writes (4 January 2009):
 you need to make a concious effort to get over him.
He doesn't care about you. I know it's easier said than done but this guy isn't worth it.
Go out. Meet people. You're worth more than this!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 You're not dumb for telling him you love him. In fact he's for lack of a better word a stupid freak for letting you go for what sounds like over that. He seems like a chicken shit and affraid of love. There is nothing wrong with it infact it is beautiful the fact that you can and have felt it. He seems like an imature jerk if you ask me and you seem way better and deserve better than that!!!
I know it's hard to let go but I would move on an find someone who's going to respect you and has a little more balls than he does. What a wimp! He seriously needs to grow up and smell the f%~*ing roses.
Sorry this message is crude but you can do much better than him.
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