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Hello all :) I'm 21 years old, I study fine art, I'm a layed back person and I like to enjoy and appreciate the small everyday things in life that make me happy; this includes walking bare footed on grass, running my hands against bushes as I walk past them, listening to the sound of rain pounding to the ground and bouncing off the windows when i'm in a warm house, the sound of crunching leaves when walking in Autumn, attempting origami with paper food packeging, and much more that I won't bore you with :D I love music, I don't go a day without listening to music, I have varied taste a few of my favourites are Black Sabbath, Placebo, Shpongle... I like to try and help people out if they are in need of advice, and I like voicing my opinions. I don't like people who force beliefs on others, and confuse their own opinions as fact, which happens a lot and that's about the one thing that angers me if anything! That's ebough about me for now, peace :D

Why do men have to think about other girls when they masturbate?

Q.   Hi there, I need some other thoughts on this matter. It is causing both myself and my boyfriend a lot of stress and arguments. I would be so grateful for your help: I have an issue with my boyfriend masturbating. This is because of...

A.   2 August 2010: I think good points have been raised here, but looking at porn, and looking at real live girls on web cam IS cheating. If I was you I'd get out of that relationship looking at girls on webcam is not something men in relationships can do, this is ... (read in full...)

I found a message on her cell phone from a guy getting straight to the point...cheating!

Q.   I am a father of a one year old, and I think my girlfriend, the mother of my child, is cheating on me. Why? Because I found a text message on her phone, from some guy I've never met, that went as follows: "Do you want to f*ck?". Seems pretty ...

A.   2 August 2010: So you saw a message on her phone from a man, did you see what she'd text him back in her sent inbox? Yes, this could be serious and it could infact be that she is cheating, in which case you should note down the number, confront her, or even keep ... (read in full...)

Porn isn't entirely harmless

Q.   I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...

A.   29 May 2010: To Mr Anonymous reader, what on earth are you rambling on about? You've just told the poster of this question to "stop this insecure shrillness about porn" After telling us your wife doesn't give you sex very often. Sorry that you're having trouble ... (read in full...)

Porn isn't entirely harmless

Q.   I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...

A.   27 May 2010: I don't think anyone could of said that and worded that as well as you have, you truely hit on everything I could think od related to the issues of porn. I used to be a wreck when I was with my ex, who looked at stuff all the time, I told him I'd ... (read in full...)

Disgusted by my boyfriends interest in porn.

Q.   dear cupid, i feel so disgusted. this morning i went online to listen to music and as i was typing visited porn sites started appearing in the browser. i love my boyfriend, weve been together for 3 years, recently moved in together. hes always b...

A.   27 May 2010: To the comment below that really was well said! Just another thing to add to this topic, to anyone who has a boyfriend that watches porn and looks at lads mags etc.. you have to see the sad but amusing side to it, that men can only wank over plastic ... (read in full...)

I feel trapped in my marriage and don't know what to do

Q.   I'm very unhappy with my marriage and I am really fed up and want to finish it but don't know what to do. I do all the housework and gardening and shopping and work full time. I have lots of friends and get involved in lots of local activities...

A.   24 May 2010: Although I can't advise with the financial situation and the circumstances you're in, maybe you should seek help with that by talking to someone professional. However, from what you've said, this man is unpleasant to be around, which is an ... (read in full...)

Should I explore the dating world while I am young?

Q.   Im 20yo and I love my girlfriend very much. We have had many ups and downs. But I think I want to experience more of life while im young, date more girls. Is this wrong? Im trying to tell her how I feel, but she says she is at breaking point, she's ...

A.   24 May 2010: Firstly, that would be one of the cruelest things to ,my ears if my boyfriend told me that, I do advise that you stop filling her in on the gorey detail. You shouldn't be with her, you clearly don't love her, and you are definatly not ready to ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back

Q.   "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very ...

A.   24 May 2010: First thing's first, you obviously adore this woman if she's cheated on you and you still long for her. Personaly, I don't think it would be wise, nor benificial to take her back after what she's done to you, because a) She clearly does not care ... (read in full...)

I miss him, but don't want to take him back too easily.

Q.   I finished things with my boyfriend after over 2years because he was texting another girl and I wasn't comfortable with it, he was flirting, he's done this before and we got past it without it being a big issue but this time I felt he needed to know ...

A.   24 May 2010: I've been in a similar situation as to breaking up with someone because they've upset me, and taking them back too easily, and I know it's hard to be apart from someone you miss, but fact is if you take him back 'too' easily, he may just slip back ... (read in full...)

Can't look at each other during sex

Q.   hey guys my boyfriend and i hav been together for 4 years when we have sex we dont look at eachother ever!!! he took my verginity.. we do hav great sex.. when hes on top of me or going down on me the pillow goes over my face. when i...

A.   19 May 2010: I think it can depend on if you're making love, in the romantic sense, or having more of a dirty round! I think perhaps although you're comfortable in having sex together, you lack a little confidence if you're unable to make eye contact at all. ... (read in full...)

I love sex with women but like giving this guy bj's!

Q.   I am 27 years old and I am dating this woman right. We have sex all the time and please each other all the time. But thursday night I was at my apartment and I got on craigs list and posted that I wanted to give a guy a bj. Well I did not think any ...

A.   19 May 2010: Well it's not that hard to establish that you're bisexual surely?...A lot of people are, some go their whole lives closet bisexuals. I don't think the problem's that you enjoy both the woman's sex, and giving oral sex to a man, but the problem is ... (read in full...)

Into older men and don't know what to do about it! Help!

Q.   I am 18 and I can not imagine myself with guys my age! I think there is a problem with me. Whenever I have a fantasy or anything about making out or having sex, I always see myself with old men, and by old I mean men in their 40s and 50s! I am a ...

A.   19 May 2010: There's nothing wrong with that at all :] I'm 21, I've only ever been attracted to older men, from when I was a young teenager even. I think mentally it stems from associating older men, with maturity, being more experienced, and caring, and stable. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is coming home in 10 days and I don't think my thrush has fully cleared up!

Q.   my boyfriend is home in 10 days and i had thrush a couple of weeks ago and a used thrush cream and it went away but now a think its comming back and my period is due tomorrow and then its only 3 days till he comes! by the time my periods away what ...

A.   19 May 2010: Firstly, if you can't get rid of it in time don't be embarressed about it it's very common, more so than you think. But here's a few tips of what helps to get rid of it. Eating natural yoghart daily. Cutting out sugary foods, cutting out alcohol, ... (read in full...)

Disgusted by my boyfriends interest in porn.

Q.   dear cupid, i feel so disgusted. this morning i went online to listen to music and as i was typing visited porn sites started appearing in the browser. i love my boyfriend, weve been together for 3 years, recently moved in together. hes always b...

A.   19 May 2010: Horrible, I know, I've been there. I was with my boyfriend for two years and he told me how anti porn he was then I discovered that lie was a cover up for an addiction. My self esteem was too crushed to save the relationship so I had to break up ... (read in full...)

Should I just get it over with and lose my virginity?

Q.   I'll try to just get straight to the point) I am a 20 year old female who is STRONGLY considering losing my virginity, but not to anyone I particularly love, or even trust, but because the offer has been put out there by another co-worker a few ...

A.   19 May 2010: Well only you truely know if it feels right for you, by the sound of it, the choice of pre marital sex isn't a choice that you made for yourself, so if that's not what you want in life, then you shouldn't wait until marriage. If you just want to ... (read in full...)

Accidentally discovered my fiance had been loking at porn online - should I worry?

Q.   ok, well i'm very much in love with my fiance, who I have two beautiful kids with - our eldest who is 19 months and our new arival who is just 11 weeks. I feel so close to him and can't imagine my life without him - i can't wait for him to be my ...

A.   19 May 2010: I'm a woman, but I have been their with the whole boyfriend and porn situation, and all I can say really, is that everyone is different and everyone has different opinions on this subject. But ultimately, it's about how YOU feel, if you are ... (read in full...)

Does her having large sex toys mean she is not happy with me?

Q.   I have been with my partner for 8 years and I have always assumed we both enjoyed sex, but I have recently found a very large dildo and 2 large vibrators which she has obviously been using, to be straight about it I feel she does not enjoy sex with ...

A.   19 May 2010: It's sort similar for a woman to ask if her man still loves her if he jerks off to porn, everyone of course has different opinions about this kind of thing. I wouldn't say your partner's looking to meet a new man just because she owns a large dildo, ... (read in full...)

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