Like what
she writes?
... Add *atnatxxx to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *atnatxxx a private message | | | *atnatxxx's profile:I found this website off google. Yay, im just going to answer the list of questions suggested on this website to add in here.
What qualifies you to help people?
Thats a hard one, im still young but i reckon i have alot of common knowledge (if thats what you call it) to help solve problems. After coming out of a bitter divorce i learnt alot about peoples relationships and reactions to different situations. But i dont have any grades in any pertitucal subject, apart from GCSE's in the basic subjects.
Where do you live?
I live in the midlands, in england, it rains alot, i hope to live in america when im older, life seems more fun there.
What makes you tick?
I enjoy being socialable. I like to be in a big group and noticed by people in it. If someones upset like a friend i always turn into a conseullor and can be over protective over certain people. I get annoyed when people say uncalled for comments or go out of there were to irratate me. But ive learnt to calm myself in agreesive situations.
What's your relationship status?
Im currently in a relationship, half a year now :)
So im completely loved up as you might say hahaha!
Well that took me a while at 1am ! xx
|
|
My b/f's in prison. Do I accept it's over between us?
Q. been with bf for 13 years i cheated on him which i deeply regret hes in prison he rings me 3x a day comes home on a weekend he tells me he doesnt luv me and hes using me til something better comes along but yet he still does things for me and hes ...
A. 10 January 2008: Well first of cheating was wrong. But just put to life experience. If it helps get it off your chest. Since it seems your relationships broken anyway.
Why are you letting this lad treat you like this?
Using you until something better comes al... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for my first love, and I've heard she has feelings for me too, but she has a boyfriend.
Q. hey i been thinkin alot recently and its about an old girlfriend of mine that i broke up with bout a year ago now n she has a new boyfriend now but i hav heard from my best mate.. hu is also her best mate that she still has strong feelings for me n ...
A. 18 December 2007: Ive been in the same state.
And its hard looking back on your first love.
You wont always have feelings for her.
But there will always be that something special.
It may seem the easy thing to do right now.
Since you still like each other.
Bu... (read in full...)
My friends don't like him and I have now lost some of them as they think I have changed.
Q. I really like this lad, and he knows I'm a virgin and he said he thinks its good not just basing out relationship on sex and he really respects me, he said he wants to do it propa! the thing is i haven't told my mates because non of them like him...
A. 6 November 2007: i have been in this situation. Explain to your mates you really like this guy. Make time for them, and make sure you stay the same person you were before. I balanced out the time for my boyfriend and mates. I got took him places i knew my friends ... (read in full...)
Did he break my virginity with dry humping?
Q. I am a 13 yr old old virgin and have pledged to remain so until marriage. I recently had an intimate moment with my boyfriend. I sat on his lap while he kissed my neck but he had an erection and I felt his penis almost at the entrance of my vagina ...
A. 5 November 2007: Like what most people have said
You cant lose your lose your virginity unless the penis actually entered your vagina.
Though the chances of you being a virgin for marriage is unlikely. It is good you want to keep your virgnity, but it doesn't ... (read in full...)
How can I shave and not bleed?
Q. Pubic Hair.!! i have only recently started shaving. and wen i shave up wards it really hurts and it bleeds. its there any cure on stopping this? because if i shave downwards it doesnt get rid of any pubic hairs..?...
A. 5 November 2007: I tried shaving there once. And it really hurt when shaving stubble. I cut myself when shaving upwards and was really painful. A good idea is too leave the hair to grow longer or try a different appoarch like waxing or hair removal cremes? A bad ... (read in full...)
How can I try and understand my gay friend?
Q. I want to be able to support my gay friend. How can I try and understand? I really want to be able to support my friend as he is gay but I think he worries about finding partners and having homosexual relationships. He likes this guy but we don't...
A. 23 October 2007: Adjusting to a friend's sexuality is hard. When both my friends, one boy, one girl, confessed to me they were bisexual i nearly screamed and felt completely terrified and freaked out by them.
Worrying about your friend is normal but Just be supp... (read in full...)
How do I stop thinking about him?
Q. I need advice! A while ago I met a guy when we were on a school trip abroad. I liked him the first time I set eyes on him. Recently he said something quite mean to me and he has a girlfriend. But I can't seem to stop thinking about him. I keep lis...
A. 14 October 2007: Take your mind off him by hanging out with friends or getting yourselves involved in activites. Guys come and go. You could also tell him how you feel. It will get it on your chest, and if things dont work out move on with your liffe! ... (read in full...)
Why did it hurt when it should feel good?
Q. My bf tried to enter me last night, but it didn't go in. It was so painful, i was quite wet so i dont know what the problem was [sorry if that was 2 graphic]. Why did it hurt, and why was it soo 'tight' ??? He even tried going slow, but it just hur...
A. 14 October 2007: The first time this happened to me, it did not feel painful but just strange and uncomfortable. I was also tense, if you are a little tense, it may hurt. Explain to your boyfriend it hurt, or talk to someone you trust about it. Though its meant to ... (read in full...)
How can I make my orgasms last longer?
Q. Heyy, I keep having thoughts about girls and wanting to masturbate over them but I'm in love with a guy! I don't know if I'm bi but I just love looking at naked girls and using my vibrator.. * c o n f u s e d * Also my orgasms only last a cou...
A. 14 October 2007: Sometimes during puberty, one gender feels atrractive to the same sex because they know more about them. You may be bisexual, but you'll find that out later in life. ... (read in full...)
How could I love him so much one month then the next month, feel..differently
Q. theres this guy at my school.. ive just recently joined this new school after giving birth to my son i felt i should start fresh and new so, this boy no one at this new school noes i have a son (in case of bullying and stuff) and me and this ...
A. 13 October 2007: Sometimes your feelings change for someone
Sometimes for the good and sometimes for temporary until something happens which brings them back. The 1st date may have been akward, but feelings may appear on other get togethers. If nothing appears, move... (read in full...)
I'm having doubts - is that a bad sign?
Q. I'm 18 and a virgin. Recently though I've told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. At the time that i told him i was becuase i trusted him, but now due to certain circumstances i don't feel like the trust is fully there and I'm not sure if i ...
A. 11 October 2007: Just explain to your boyfriend carefully you changed your mind, lads are understanding too, so he should see this and wait. If you not ready for things like sex you shouldn't get forced into it, you should wait until your 100% comfortable. ... (read in full...)
Our love isn't dead, but we're having problems. Please advise me!
Q. Okay well where do I begin? I'm 14, and no I'm not going to ramble on about how I am in love because that would be naive... I just have extremely strong feelings for this guy. It started in 6th grade, he told all of his friends that he really l...
A. 9 October 2007: Sorry, but it sounds like love to me!
I had the same problem, but i have yet to decide whether to get back with my ex or not too.
Playing hard to get obviously didn't get you anywhere, and you need to tell him how you feel.
I no its hard, and it... (read in full...)
My ex still loves me - shall I get back with him?
Q. i like this guy from school but he doesn't seem to like me.i think i got bored of trying to make him notice me,so im thinking of getting back with my ex,who still loves me.what should i do???...
A. 9 October 2007: Just people this guy isn't interested doesn't mean you should have your ex has a "back up boyfriend" . If you like your ex the same, go with it, but it's not fair if its just cause you cant get the guy your crushing. Wonder who you'd rather be with, ... (read in full...)
I'm a boy who fancies my male teachers. Am I in denial? Am I paranoid? Am I gay?
Q. I'm a 15 year old boy and constantly find myself attracted to my male teachers??? what exactly makes someone gay? I think it could be because I want to be like them not just because I like them but I have got a freidnly relationship with them all...
A. 9 October 2007: This does not always mean your gay.
Most teenagers go through a stage during puberty where there attracted to the same sex because they know more about it and simply, hormones! Of course, people won't admit because they don't want people to thin... (read in full...)
What's the furthest you should go with a boy?
Q. Whats the furthest you shuld go with a boy? I mean, i like to make out with them but they always want me to go further, and im not even 15 yet. I dnt wanna giv them BJ or or toss them up, but this makje sme seem like a total virgin! Wat shuld I do? ...
A. 9 October 2007: There's nothing wrong with waiting a while. Everyone's different about how far they want to go at certain points. If a lad loves you enough, he'll except the fact he cant get anymore than a snog and wait until your ready.
You are not a virgin or a... (read in full...)
I don't seem to be able to trust my boyfriend, I know he loves me to bits, it's just me... I can't help it.
Q. i dont seem to be able to trust my boyfriend. i love him and i trust him with my life but when it comes to other women being around him it drives me crazy. anywhere where hes goin out with girls and friends and things, i want to be there. There ...
A. 2 May 2007: Its ok to feel insecure about your man being around other women, but its time to cheer up. the best thing to do is talk to him about it. Get all your feelings off your chest, and cut down on the stress your putting on yourself. If you still dont ... (read in full...)
| *atnatxxx's friends
These are mutual friends, so *atnatxxx has
added them and they have added *atnatxxx!
|
