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writes:Hello everyone:) so im a little new to the website.so my boyfriend and i are expecting. and on new years i broke up with him, why? i had a bad night and i realized i really dont love him cause of my past relationship. im scared of getting hurt again. so we were talking through text. and i asked him why he wasn't okay with the break up.this is his relpy :I really do love you so much and just cause o a bad day your pulling us apart i just don't feel right about this at all:( sorryand the thing that i hate about this the most is not being able to see you it just makes me sad.and i couldn't tell him that i don't love him cause that would just hurt him more. he already told me that i was hurting him..so i sent back: i love you too i really and im sorry i just feel like since im moving and everything it would be best if we just be friends and i don't want you to be sad at all.his reply was: then you must not love me cause i woulb be with you even i you were in another country and i truthly love you but i guess its up to you.then the next day he stayed the night with me cause he has been staying the night alot. and he was constantly telling me he loves me and everything. and anything i need he will get for me. does he really love me?
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reader, missyfit +, writes (5 January 2011):
 I know exactly how you feel.
My first boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year but then he broke up with me.
I was so devasdated that i tried to commit suicide...
Now that I have my second boyfriend, I was hesitant at first...
I told him what exactly you just said..
"I'm scared... I'm scared of falling in love with you and end up alone because of a break up."
He told me not to worry, and he said he's willing to work our relationship out.
We're still together until now, and I am happily in love with him.
If he's trying to make you guys stay together and saying he loves you, believe him.
He truly loves you and you just have to trust him that he will do what he says.
Love is taking a risk.
Sure you may get hurt, but you will never know what true love really is until you try.
I tried and trusted my guy and I found true love.
Good luck hun!
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