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He put 4 fingers inside of me????

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Question - (21 September 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and have been sexually active with him for about 8 months. On Monday we had sex and half way through he pulled out and fingered me for a short while, until I orgasmed, and then we continued. He'd fingered me before but never mid-sex but during it I never thought anything of it. It was only after when he mentioned he had 4 fingers inside me at once, that I began to freak out. His fingers aren't small, so does this mean I'm loose? Will my vagina return to it's original size? Please help.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (25 September 2010):

birdynumnums agony auntYour vagina will not turn into a hat, not even after having a 10 pound baby (my own personal experience). Nature has designed the vagina to have very elastic qualities, and it will always 'shrink' back into shape after arousal and sex.

If vaginas could be stretched "out of shape", the TAMPON industry would be out of business...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010):

Don't fret it. My girlfriend likes that very much. Things return to normal afterwards.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

yes dear your vagina will return to normal size almost immediately as a matter of fact last woman had sex with a given birth at five different locations and everything down there was a perfect fit it was a perfect fit for my finger (ONE) and also and my penis so you really have nothing to worry about

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A female reader, misLadYd.. South Africa +, writes (21 September 2010):

misLadYd.. agony auntlol u knw that babies gets out of there and yea the vagina gets bak to normal.i agree that during sex it gets bigger to let big things in so i dont think u are loose unles he complained.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (21 September 2010):

Honeypie agony auntKegel exercises - goggle it, honey.

And no, doesn't mean you are loose, it mean you are very flexible.

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (21 September 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntI thought size didn't matter?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

okay.

well obviously while having sex your vagina will extend in size to let the penis enter and you will be wet which would be a lubricant allowing big things to go in there..

after sex you will feel your vagina tightening up and to be honest this is completely normal..

just remember some people can get fists up there.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

lol dont worry its nothin to worry about :D if u dont like the idea of bein fingered then just tell him but i dont think ur vagina lost its size and even if it did then yea it will get bk to normal ...his fingers cant be as big as the head of a baby if u know what i mean

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A female reader, chigirl Norway + , writes (21 September 2010):

chigirl agony auntWhat do you mean by "original size"? As in when you were a virgin? Probably never will return to that size no, unless you stop having sex.

This was during sex. You were expanded down there, and wet. Trying to put 4 fingers in at any other time might have even hurt you.

Why does this freak you out though? Has he complained about you being loose? Does he not enjoy sex with you? I don't think you have anything to worry about at all. If you are freaked out by it, why not ask him if he thinks you are loose? I think he might have thought it was sexy to be able to use that many fingers, and that is why he told you.

But if you want to be tighter you should work out your muscles down there by pinching them together several times a day, just like a normal work-out (the same muscle you use to stop the flow of urine).

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