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13 February 2015: Many people have insecurites or issues with aspects of their looks or personality. Often its the most insignificant details that makes us become the most obssessional. Whether it be our height, figure, complexion, breast size/shape or our weight, ...
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He wants casual but I want a relationship, should I give him what he wants?
Q. I feel like im loosing my mind. I met a mysterious guy and we got on so well, he told me he felt comfortable around me, making me feel relieved and srawn even cloaer to him, but recently he told me he only wanted a casual relationship.I'm 18 and ...
A. 11 April 2015: No! No ! NO! Please don't make the mistake of sleeping with this guy as he has made it crystal clear he only wants casual sex. If you sleep with him, and give up your virginity to him, he wont then change his mind and form a relationship with ... (read in full...)
I wonder if she is brushing me off.
Q. Hello, I met a girl last week and we hit it off really well and she gave me her number she seemed really into me. I sent her a few messages over the week we shared same interests. These were short emails replies after 3 days so I felt maybe the ...
A. 2 April 2015: Hi speaking from experience of being brushed off many times, I know how you feel: you WANT her claims to be true, but deep down know she is fobbing you off. You also feel frustrated that she is dangling a carrot in front of you when deep inside you ... (read in full...)
Any options for a hopeless romantic virgin?
Q. I'm in a conundrum so to speak. I'm a male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I been on a date. I'm not very attractive as women have told me in the past that I'm not. I believe them as well as I'm not handsome. I'm a huge nerd as w...
A. 23 March 2015: You need to stop focusing on your virgin status and stop wearing it like a placard around your neck! Whether or not you are physically attractive is largely irrelevant. It s as much about personality and how you come across as your physical ap... (read in full...)
Dear Teenage me
Q. Dear Teenage Me As it stands, I am just about to turn 20 which means soon I will be waving goodbye to my teenage years. But, what journey it has been. This probably won’t seem a lot to some people but to me is moving on to the scarier years, t...
A. 19 March 2015: Hi A terrific article which I myself could have written at nearly twenty! (for the record I turned 37 last week) It is scary moving away from your teenage years as suddenly everything does become more serious and instead of looking forward y... (read in full...)
When can a lady have sex so that she doesn't get pregnant?
Q. Hello, three days ago, i had sex with mt Gf. after sex she feel pain in stomach and smell coming from urine and discharge flow from vagina and also condom was not used.after she also used unwanted 72(i pill),we both did sex before 3-4 times. due t...
A. 18 March 2015: Hi there I'm sorry if this is a little blunt but you admit to a lack of knowledge and understanding, which is fair enough, but you are old enough now to understand sex and contraception and having unprotected sex and hoping for the best is naïv... (read in full...)
He flirts with me and he's younger than I thought. Do I act on my feelings or forget him?
Q. Theres a bar i go in and each time ive gone theres a young guy who works there always chats to us, this week he had more time to chat and got quite flirty. He told me how old he was i was shocked he was as young as he was id like something to happen ...
A. 16 March 2015: Yes here in the UK the legal age for bar work is 18 and 16 year olds can collect glasses. (im 37 and a bit so I get to do both)
Mark ... (read in full...)
My friend confided in me that her husband was a cheater and then later that night he was hitting on me. Now I don't want to be around them! Help!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts of DearCupid, Something happened to me a few weeks ago that has both shocked and upset me and I don't quite know how to handle it. I am good friends with a married couple who live in the same apartment block. They like a few...
A. 1 March 2015: Hmm sounds like they are both playing a game of wanting you to join in. Abella made a very valid point about spiking your drinks and other such ploys. Its a little odd for a married couple to invite a married woman round there home alone while t... (read in full...)
To what extent does scent affect attraction?
Q. A question for the uncles! How much do you enjoy a female's scent? Would you pick a clean but plain smelling girl or rather one who had on an distinct added scent such as perfume, deoderant, shampoo etc.? To what extent does scent affect attractio...
A. 1 March 2015: Hello! I like a clean, plain smelling girl more than one wearing some expensive, designer perfume. The latter makes me fret she will want an expensive xmas gift LOL! But a lack of scent can make a woman smell like she hasn't made an effort if its... (read in full...)
Is it too late to be friends with him?
Q. So I met this guy at work almost two years ago, we started talking more and we became friends. Then he started asking for pictures of me and asking questions and stuff, he had a girlfriend and two kids so I felt wrong about it. Eventually I actually ...
A. 26 February 2015: He was never your friend. He used you for sex and for the thrill of taking your virginity. If he cared about others he wouldn't cheat on his partner/wife and children. If he respected you he wouldn't claim to be your friend while wanting naughty ... (read in full...)
Is This Too Much For The Context Of A First Date?
Q. I watched a video on couples (some strangers, some long term etc) who had to look into each others eyes for 4mins. The experiment proved them to feel closer and much more connected than they did moments ago, after having experienced all of the ...
A. 26 February 2015: I don't think asking a guy on a first date to stare into your eyes for four minutes would be appropriate. It would probably be awkward and the effect probably temporary.
There's a huge difference between a natural rapport and trying to force th... (read in full...)
I had started to think he was the one but once he got comfortable he was disgusting
Q. I need an advice but deep in my heart, I feel that the impression is irreversible. I have met this guy through common friends. He is his mid 30s, handsome, a doctor, very smart, gentleman and generous person. 2 weeks after I met him we had sex, ...
A. 26 February 2015: Hi Im sorry you have been through this bad experience. Nose picking, throat flegming, pimple popping, getting drunk, farting...enough of my issues lets get back on track! To be honest, and I don't want to sound rude or blunt, but I think to sa... (read in full...)
Man I started talking to online won't stop sexting me! Opinions?
Q. Right, hi everyone. :) So I'm hoping to throw this out there and see if I'm overreacting. The other day I started chatting with a guy online and we seemed to hit it off. We exchanged numbers and the next day we decided - quite spontaneously...
A. 25 February 2015: Hiya Mark here from across the pond. I hope your having a great day! As well as following the great advice re: blocking this guy, I think that in the nicest possible sense, and with the greatest of respect, that you need to see guys like h... (read in full...)
The perills of looking young
Q. Many people have insecurites or issues with aspects of their looks or personality. Often its the most insignificant details that makes us become the most obssessional. Whether it be our height, figure, complexion, breast size/shape or our weight, ...
A. 25 February 2015: Thank you Abella, your kind words mean a lot to me. I guess its a confidence thing to some extent. My current job was taken out of nessecity and im a bit out of my depth. Im not a natural leader and the job I have now involves leading and bein... (read in full...)
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