Is this too soon to be getting engaged ?
Q. me and my boyfriend were dating for seven months an we split up for two years we are now getting back together and he wants to marry me and i want to marry him but be engaged for about two years is this too soon for our relationship?...
A. 29 March 2007: The fact that you are asking whether it is too soon for your relationship is good because it shows you are thinking about things, but it also shows a doubt. If there is doubt there then I suggest you wait a while and carry on going out with him and ... (read in full...)
I lost a special girl because of my fears and insecurities! How can I help myself to get over this?
Q. I really need some help to overcome my relationship insecurities. My last long term relationship ended because of this after my ex slept with somebody while we were temporarily broken up and now my girlfriend has left today because of the same ...
A. 29 March 2007: I think it would be good to talk to your girlfriend about how you feel tell her honestly how you feel. There is probably something in your past that is making you insecure in your relationships also. Something that has happened to trigger off the ... (read in full...)
She hates me! I screwed over the most beautiful thing that ever happened to me..what should I do? (long post)
Q. months ago i used to go out with this girl named Analee we were good for a while and happy now i had another friend named Willianny and my bestfriend named Renzo.These 3 people were the closest people to me and was really happy. Things between me ...
A. 29 March 2007: It sounds like you have been through a great deal in your life and that you haven't been treated fairly by a lot of people. You have put your trust in people and they have taken you for granted and walked all over you. It sounds like you are very ... (read in full...)
We fought over trivial issues, I think we didnt spend enough time together, now she wont give us another go! Help!!
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and I broke up last week after 3 years together. We have had a pretty rocky last couple of months and we have had a couple of major fights at least once a month for the past number of months. We can both be stubborn and when we ...
A. 29 March 2007: I am sorry to hear about you splitting up with your girlfriend 3 years is a long time and will bring with it a lot of memories. It doesn't sound like it was an easy split either because you argued a lot and said a lot of hurtful things to each ... (read in full...)
My husband's personal hygiene is bad. We have fights about this a lot! What can I do?
Q. My husband's personal hygiene is bad. He doesn't change his under wear everyday. After a lot of debate and persuasion he started changing. If i am not around he doesn't bother to change. And now again he doesn't change. Adding to this he doesn't use ...
A. 28 March 2007: This sounds to me as if your husband has got depression. He needs to see a doctor and get some medication. The reason your husbands personal hygiene is bad could be because he doesn't care to look after himself at the moment. The reason you argue ... (read in full...)
The thought of spit and stuff when we kiss makes me want to vomit! How do I get over this?
Q. I really love my boyfriend but i find it really hard to kiss him , like a prolonged kiss with tongues. Its the thought of all the spit and stuff being passed around, it makes me want to vomit. I have no problems doing anything else with him, not ...
A. 28 March 2007: Firstly did you know that there is actually a phobia called philemaphobia which is the fear of kissing. Most phobias are also quite rational although they are distorted out of proportion. Your fear is easy to understand because you are afraid of ... (read in full...)
He blurted out about another girl being 18 and a virgin and laughed! But so am I, whats he gonna think!?
Q. Ok firstly I want you to know that this man I'm with is not a d*** head so please don't suggest that I get rid of him based on his ignorance... ...ok now to what I have to say. I have known this guy for a couple of years but only over the past co...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi Alicia I understand your fears, but if your boyfriend really loves you then he won't mind. Besides which most men are actually flattered that they will be the first man for you. I can see how you would be feeling after him saying that about the ... (read in full...)
I've lost all confidence when it comes to sex, been together 9 yrs and in a rut!
Q. i've been wi my partner for 9 yrs and we have a 5 yr old daughter, i am really insecure even though i am attractive and can attract many men. i jus don't have the confidence to be sexy around him. we have got into a rut an rarely have sex or a laugh ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi it does sound like you have tried a lot of ways to get the sex life going again, but this isn't working. I am wondering if there is an underlying problem that you both need to talk about. If the communication is not there in the marriage then ... (read in full...)
I flirt with this great girl. Should I get together with her?
Q. Hi Just a quick question. There's this really fit girl, I have a laugh with all the time. She's popular so she finds me uncool but I over complement her about her looks and personality, she over blushes when I do so and ends up laughing. Her fr...
A. 28 March 2007: You obviously really like this girl and it shows. This girl sounds like she knows that you like her as well because she blushes. There is obviously the fear of rejection as if you ask her out and she says no then you will feel rejected. However, ... (read in full...)
We split 2 years ago, Should I try and win her back ?
Q. Would you try win your girlfriend back even though its 2 years since split up? My ex still keeps in touch, she moved to spain for a while and sent me a text to keep in touch. she once said i liked you soooooooooooo much its a shame we argued all ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi you don't really give any details as to why you split up. Except to say that you argued all the time. If you did get back with your ex would things go back to the way they were or have you moved on since that time?
What might seem like a g... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out on a date but I have never met her! Should I do this?
Q. There's a girl who i met online and like quite a lot. We've known each other for about a month and chat with each other quite often but have never met. I fell for her cos she has a really sweet personality and although i haven't met her, I've seen ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi this is obviously causing you a lot of distress. You have met this girl who you really like and have spoken to her many times online, but have never met. You asked her out and are still waiting for a reply. The waiting game is never easy and ... (read in full...)
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