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Russian brides? Con artists?

Q.   Hello Here is my story about Russian Brides and would like to see if anyone can help me out I am 19 and in Feburary 2009 my father passed away at the age of 63. In 2006 he met a woman named Viktoria from Tibilsi Georgia, in Febuary 2006 on...

A.   26 October 2009: The law sucks. I have heard off private investigators out there who will check womens backgrounds due to so many guys getting shafted by these women. But Russia runs on corruption and they will want cash upfront. I doubt its worth... (read in full...)

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

Q.   I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...

A.   26 October 2009: What do you think will piss you off the most. Me. Or seeing a string of girls you fancy going out with other blokes. Its your call. Makes no odds to me. ... (read in full...)

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

Q.   I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...

A.   25 October 2009: Oh lord..I'm being dissed by 17 yr old boy. My life is over. I will never hold my head up high again. Lol. I'm not you momma ok. And if i was being being a twat i would make you cry. If this is hissing fit is how you allways act when you dont hea... (read in full...)

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

Q.   I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...

A.   25 October 2009: You could ask for a date. But you are afraid of that so..Have you tried voodoo ? Or you could fake a heart attack near her. When she visits you in hospital dont run away. She must like you. Phone her friends and ask them. No ..that wont work. ... (read in full...)

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

Q.   I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...

A.   25 October 2009: What exactly do you mean by "keep" trying ? You should start trying. I wouldnt send her no letter. She will get over you. Trust me. You could scare her.... (read in full...)

I only touched it twice and he came right away! Is this normal?

Q.   I have very little experience when it comes to guys, but me a this guy were french kissing and his hands were everywhere and I could feel he was exteremely turned on, next thing he had his pants down and put my hand on his penis and I only touched ...

A.   24 October 2009: Thats very hairtrigger. Normal for a boy under 18 if its his first time. Let him have one practice shot. He wont be quite as sensitive second time. Your 22. ggg pardon me. ... (read in full...)

Does this mean it's a date?

Q.   This started about a month ago. (It's a long story) I just see him in my art lecture I started my second year at college. There is a new lad that I like. Every girl in the college like him. They are all clingy to him and always around him. I am ...

A.   24 October 2009: He said "yes" straight away! What do you think that all this means? is it a date? In my book that would be an official date. Does he like me as a girlfriend? Go on the date first hun. ... (read in full...)

What're the best ways to see if she has any interest in me at all? And how to lose this infatuation?

Q.   Questions: Reading interest/body language of a girl. Getting over an infatuation. Background Info: I'm infatuated with a friend I've known over a year now. Even now, I still get nervous around her. We're pretty good friends now. She's ...

A.   24 October 2009: What're the best ways to see if she has any interest in me at all? Ask her you fool. And what's the best way to get rid of this infatuation? The current one will end as soon as a better one comes allong. If you find out how to control it ... (read in full...)

Why would he turn against me? And what does "one-nill" mean?

Q.   I went out with this boy in April, i finished him after a week because he was really clingy. Then a few months later i got feelings for him again, my friend told him, that night on msn he asked me if i liked him ; i said yeah, because he said he ...

A.   24 October 2009: He's point scoring. One day he will be notching his bed.(that means he's had sex). Thats about the best thing he's got to offer you or any other girl. Kick him in the bollacks and say "one all" now sling your hook you loser. ... (read in full...)

He wants to be exclusive, but I'm not so sure... can this work out?

Q.   I have a male friend of almost two years who I'm pretty sure has been interested in me the entire time. We've been getting closer and in the last month he's been up front about his feelings for me. We've slept together a couple times since then ...

A.   24 October 2009: You have lost me by first saying that theres been no sex then saying the physical part is the best you have had. Maybe you should find out where you stand before jumping into bed with him. This may seem innocent enough to you. But dont expect all ... (read in full...)

I don't want his ex wife to be involved with him!

Q.   I am in love with this guy who also says that he loves me and I know he does through his actions and all however, he was married about 2 years ago and has a baby from his ex wife. The thing is that she is always around; calling him, coming to his ...

A.   24 October 2009: I feel sorry for the poor kid. Anyway if you think that changes anything where you are concerned i am afraid it doesnt. They have to sort themselves out and you need to stay out of that. Your place is to decide if you want to be there for him or n... (read in full...)

Drving test anxiety!

Q.   Hi,this isnt a "love" question but im hoping to get some help. My 1st driving test is coming up soon and since i've booked it in i havent had a decent nights sleep because of the worry. Im constantly feeling sick and keep crying about it. Im so...

A.   24 October 2009: Calm down woman. Look at it as a practice try. You will at the very least learn a lot from it and increase your chances the next time. Or you may find that once you actually start to drive it relaxes you. The are used to people being nervouse and ... (read in full...)

Russian brides? Con artists?

Q.   Hello Here is my story about Russian Brides and would like to see if anyone can help me out I am 19 and in Feburary 2009 my father passed away at the age of 63. In 2006 he met a woman named Viktoria from Tibilsi Georgia, in Febuary 2006 on...

A.   24 October 2009: I dont know much about contesting a will but one thing that may be in your favour(may)is the mariage was quite short. If i were you i would read everything i could find on the net on the subject. See if its possible to freeze any of your dads assets ... (read in full...)

I don't want my baby around his dirty family and now they hate me, am I in the wrong?

Q.   I cant stand my boyfriends family. they are so nasty and i met them after me and my boyfriend had been dating for a while. there house has roaches and flees and he said they have had them since he was born. also they have 35 dogs in the house not ...

A.   24 October 2009: You are very right. If they only had 1 dog that you felt was completely trustworthy around your baby you dont go there unless its shut somewhere safe when your baby is there. Despite that the baby can pick up worms that cause blindness from dogs or ... (read in full...)

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

Q.   I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...

A.   24 October 2009: You said.. Then about 2 weeks ago she wrote me a letter saying that she'd been really stupid and that she wanted to be in a relationship and that she had feelings for me. So i considered asking her out cos we both felt the same way. Look aga... (read in full...)

Should I end my marriage or stay in it for my son ??

Q.   37 years old, successful doctor, married for 8 years and have only one child .. he is 6. I am in love with another woman for sometime now .... she doesn't want the role of being mistress ... she want a full relationship and to divorce my wife if I ...

A.   24 October 2009: You got to do whats best for your son. If he's got a happy home environment to grow up in then i wouldnt want it on my conscience that i caused him any misery. On the other hand you have to think about the effect on him of parents who dont love each ... (read in full...)

I don't want his ex wife to be involved with him!

Q.   I am in love with this guy who also says that he loves me and I know he does through his actions and all however, he was married about 2 years ago and has a baby from his ex wife. The thing is that she is always around; calling him, coming to his ...

A.   24 October 2009: You are out of your depth hun. You dont have to like him seeing his ex but you sure as hell better learn to accept it. You try and interfere in any way that affects his access to his child and you will lose. Its important for a man to try and get ... (read in full...)

I like her but how to play it out?

Q.   My first time doing something like this so I'd like help please. I met this girl through my job a few months ago. Every week we got talking and chatting a bit more and more. I found that we got on really well and she liked me for who I am and she ...

A.   24 October 2009: She said she doesnt want to hurt you. She is pre warning you. She knows exactly whats going on here. You are clueless. That sinking feeling you felt but didnt know why. Its the gut feeling you need to pay attention to. It tells you that something is ... (read in full...)

His parents call me a predator!

Q.   Hi all ty for reading this and please your comments will be so welcome.. I met this guy will be 2 years soon .. We were instant friends and started off talking every day it was crazy how natural it was and innocent. He loves with his parents who I ...

A.   24 October 2009: Forget the age gap. That isnt a problem. But he's tied and financially dependant on his overprotective parents. They can see you as someone who's quite capable of taking their little boy away. So just you either support him or just wait. What you... (read in full...)

She's just not that into me and should I forget it!!!

Q.   Hi :) I've been seeing the lady for 5 months now. She is 41, 2 kids separated for 3 years and her life is upside down - no job, bankrupt and mentally exhausted but an amazing women. She is trying to get out of it and probably will but who knows. I...

A.   24 October 2009: They allways say they dont want to hurt you when they are hurting you and know they are going to hurt you more.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend won't go wild in bed, is he not attracted to me?

Q.   I`ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and sex has it ups and downs but he tells me that he will not go wild me cause he respect me too much. He doesn't do oral sex cause he doesn`t see me as an object. Is he not attracted to me or does he see ...

A.   24 October 2009: No offence but make sure your nice n fresh down there. Tell him it wont bite. He sounds afraid or inhibited. More of a dud than a stud. ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend lying when he says he doesn't want me to get a boob job?

Q.   Okay I want an HONEST answer from the guys here. I have small breasts, like B cup or so. There is enough there for a bit more than a handful, and I can make them look bigger with a push up bra but I hate to do that because I am aware that I am ...

A.   24 October 2009: I dont even like porn if they are false. ... (read in full...)

Aries male crazy over a Saggittarius girl. Need Help!

Q.   Classic Aries male in his 30's and I have a professional relationship with a classic Saggittarius female who's been driving me crazy. This girl could possibly be put on earth to be my soulmate. I love everything about her. Now the problem is two ...

A.   24 October 2009: You should tell her. She may knock some sense into you.... (read in full...)

When can you remain friends after a relationship?

Q.   I'd like to know other people's opinions on when not to stay friends. My partner (male) broke up with me, and told me he wanted to remain friends. After a month break, I agreed to this but I think I regret it now. I was really hurt when we spl...

A.   24 October 2009: Being friends doesnt mean you go out of your way to talk or meet. It can do. But my idea of staying friends once its over is ITS OVER. I have non ex g/friend type friends i dont see for months or years but stay friends. ... (read in full...)

Why would my ex tell me she is not happy with her new guy?

Q.   my ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend but i think she is not happy in the new relationship. because when i was talking to her on msn she said her boyfriend called me a rude name. so i knew her boyfriend doesnt like me for some reason and my ex said ...

A.   24 October 2009: You have been demoted to friend status. When she was unhappy with you she moaned to her friends. ... (read in full...)

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