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I don't want my baby around his dirty family and now they hate me, am I in the wrong?

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Question - (24 October 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I cant stand my boyfriends family. they are so nasty and i met them after me and my boyfriend had been dating for a while. there house has roaches and flees and he said they have had them since he was born. also they have 35 dogs in the house not house trained. they have junk everywhere and fish tanks with dead fish in them. they smoke all day long and stink. he is not as bad he just makes a mess and does not clean it up. so i just had a baby and i foot wont my newborn around this nasty mess. i told them to come to my house and they now hate me am i wrong?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009):

I agree, you shouldn't take your baby there. Also, please call city hall/animal control, or have a friend/family member do it for you. They need to get all those poor dogs out of there and into decent homes.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2009):

You are completely right in this case. The safety of your baby must come first, and that's juat what you're doing. So good for you. Ultimately, it's your boyfriend's job to confront them about it, so you just look after yourself and your child

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A male reader, Markingbad United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2009):

Markingbad agony auntYou are very right. If they only had 1 dog that you felt was completely trustworthy around your baby you dont go there unless its shut somewhere safe when your baby is there. Despite that the baby can pick up worms that cause blindness from dogs or cats faeces. No doubt theres a long list of other health issues as well. Dont go neare there. I wouldnt go there myself without a child. They chose to live like pigs and they should have thought of the consequences.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009):

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Thanks so much i feel better knowing im not a b- i dont think i can say words like that but thats what they call me

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