I've asked a girl out but I don't know what to do with her. Any ideas?
Q. hey I just asked a girl out she's 15 I'm 17 and I have no clue how to act around her in school.......like when do I hold her hand. kiss her.....and what other thing do u do? and when do you do them?...
A. 23 January 2008: ok well first if you want to take her out then take her to the usual, a movie and dinner. thats wonderful. you kiss her and hold her when you feel that your ready. if you dont feel confortable then you wait. also you can ask her if you can kiss her. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me, but cant give me what I want.... A family!!
Q. My boyfriend and I of 1 1/2 years had another conversation last night about marriage and children. He basically told me that he doesn't want to be alone but he's scared of commitment and he basically feels like he can't ever give me what I want and ...
A. 17 April 2007: you know my boyfriend told me that he was never going to get married either when we were 1 year together. its been 2 years since he said that and now he wants to marry me and we already have a baby so anything is possible. he could change his mind ... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than me! Do I have a chance?
Q. There's this guy i like but he's 7years older than me, i think he may also like me. Do I have a chance? plz help me!!!! thnx xx...
A. 17 April 2007: i think that you do have a chance. my boyfriend is 5 years older than me but i think that if he was 7 years older he'd still love me how he does. age is just a number.... (read in full...)
I only like much older men, guys my age just don't do it for me. Has anyone else felt this way?
Q. Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it just doesn't do it for me. I'm not talking a couple of years older either, I mean men in their 30s and 40s. Now I have never had a relationship with ...
A. 16 April 2007: you know what i have thought about this before. there are some older men that are attractive. like my ex's dad he really liked me and i was starting to like him but i couldnt cuz then everyone would tell me that it was nasty for me to be with an ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust him?
Q. Hi, i've only been wth my boyfriend 4 months but i really love him and he tells me he loves me, but i can't sem 2 trust him. I really want to as he is now talking about ending things which i do not want, and i wanna change. Every man i've been ith ...
A. 13 April 2007: every man that i was with cheated on me but this is what i did when i met my boyfreind which never cheated on me. i was also insecure and i thought that he would cheat on me. when he tells you that he loves you make sure that he's looking into your ... (read in full...)
14 and I'm curious about sex...should me and my gf do it? any thoughts?
Q. this may sound like a silly question but i really want to have sex with my boyfriend.we have been going out now for 13 months got with him on my 13th birthday im now 14 he is 16 and i feel like i am ready but im scared. he is a virgin and i am a ...
A. 12 April 2007: the first time is always hard n scary and sometimes it hurts. you cant get sex wrong but you have to know where to put it in. you dont want to put it in the wrong one. be careful and use protectioin. you dont want to have a baby rite now... (read in full...)
Pregnant and unhappy with the way my bf treats me! What should I do?
Q. Hi I don't know if I am over reacting but my boyfriend is really bugging me 'cause he keeps sending messages to his ex, it's nothing flirty but it bothers me 'cause I am pregnant right now and he keeps on calling her Aunt Sara and things in the ...
A. 12 April 2007: the way i see it if he's going to be there for the baby then yes he has say so on the baby but if you see that he's not going to be there for the baby then he cant say anything. you two should choose a name that you both are happy with. lil thing ... (read in full...)
My ex bf went out one night with friends and didnt come home. Found out he cheated, too. How do I cope with this?
Q. Hi, I need some help. Ive just got back with my ex after 15 months apart. He ended it with me. He went out one night with friends and didnt come home. He rang me the next day to say that it was over and swore that there was no-one else. He has just ...
A. 12 April 2007: the same thing happen to me. when i got back with him he told me that she didnt mean anything to him. and i believed him. that i know my man has been faithful since. you should give him a chance and if you dont see this going anywhere then break it ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be thinking about marrying this woman someday?
Q. I have only been with my girlfriend for 10 months... and we are young. I have never met someone like her... as I am not your ordinary run-of-the-mill person.... in otherwords, I'm a little quirky. I've had my past relationships... but this one is ...
A. 12 April 2007: nope your never too young to think about marriage but what you should do is give this relationship a little more time to be able to think about marriage. you still need to learn more about her and her family.... (read in full...)
Should I ask a guy out on a date OR go with the theory if he really likes me he will go out of his way to make contact?
Q. Help!! Should I ask a guy out on a date OR go with the theory if he really likes me he will go out of his way to make contact? I know all about women's lib and all that but isn't it true that if guy really likes a women he will make a move?? Thanks...
A. 12 April 2007: yes it is true but just like there is shy women then there is shy men as well. if he looks shy to you then you should go for it. you should be the tough one and ask him out. there's nothing wrong with that. when i met my boyfriend i'm the one who ... (read in full...)
Do you think she is on the rebound or truly still loves me?
Q. hi i spit up with my girlfreind on Saturday and she told me that she got with thier neighbor who moved in on the Monday 2nd April next door to her and her friends say she does not love me coz i told her that i thought i heard her say i really love ...
A. 12 April 2007: dont let her play games with you. you need to look for someone more mature and ready for a serious relationship. to answer your question she's probably trying to get you jealous so that you can beg her to get back with you. i dont think that she ... (read in full...)
Should I mind him meeting up with his ex as friends or not?
Q. hi im really confused my boyfriend sent me this... --------------------------------------------------- me n jas r jus m8s nw, im goin2 meet her on sataday as MATES. nufn mor. k i fink ul dump me afta readin dis email. if so den b4 u do, al i...
A. 12 April 2007: if he lets you meet her then no you shouldnt mind but if he tries to hide her from you or anything then yes you should mind. my boyfriend let me meet his ex when i told him that i didnt want him talking to her anymore. she seemd pretty nice. exes ... (read in full...)
I am 14 years old and feel very fat and very ugly...
Q. I'm fourteen and i am very ugly, im fat and thats all i see wheneva i look at myself, i am trying to go on a diet and i try not to eat very much, especially not to eat junk food, i've ate junk twice since ive started about five days ago and when i ...
A. 12 April 2007: I think that you should eat healthy foods. there are foods that you can eat that will not make you gain weight. you should be able to talk to your mom or any close friend about this because they should always care how you are feeling. i also think ... (read in full...)
He keeps sending his ex girlfriend's teenage daughters money.
Q. My boyfriend has an exgirlfriend that lives thousands of miles away. He has met her teenage girls a handful of times, but says he loves them like they were his own children. In the past he has sent them large checks ($1000 or more) and extravagent ...
A. 12 April 2007: how long has he known those kids? if he's known them a long time then yea he could feel like they are his but if not then he cant let go of his ex. $1000 is too much for kids. ... (read in full...)
I am just recently married and for some reason I have been thinking of other men and the idea of having sex with them.
Q. I'm a married woman of 6 months only. I met my husband 5 years ago and we've had a great time sexually and in general and I do love him. However recently for some reason I have been thinking of other men and the idea of having sex with them. The ...
A. 12 April 2007: i believe that your thinking twice about your marriage with this man. since he cheated on you, you cant stop thinking about that especially if you have to see one of those girls all the time. that is always going to be on your mind. you want to try ... (read in full...)
I HATE my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Please help I HATE my boyfriend's best friend! We never got on from the start because he told my boyfriend he could do better and that I was fat and ugly. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years but me not getting on with his friend is ...
A. 12 April 2007: you know what this situation is difficult but what i would do if one of my boyfriend's friends threatened to ruin the engagment party and my boyfriend didnt listen to me about his friend being a bad influence, as much as i would love him i would ... (read in full...)
Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?
Q. Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?...
A. 12 April 2007: yes you can break up with him through the phone. i'd rather break up with people through the phone. ... (read in full...)
What do the lines mean on a pregnancy test?
Q. I did a test from my doctors, a pregnancey one and it doesnt tell you what the lines mean could you tell me what one blue line mean and two lines mean please asap Thankyou Sam...
A. 12 April 2007: i think that you should read the box that the pregnancy test came in or go to your doctor and get a pregnancy test... (read in full...)
Do you think my boyfriend is using me?
Q. i have a boyfriend who is not working, i do everything for him. i have just given him my credit card because he had no food in his flat but he spent R2000. now i have opened a business and bought a car now he wants to be a partner with me. i dont ...
A. 12 April 2007: let him know. tell him that if he want to stay in a relationship with you then he's going to start working for himself. gett'n money for him. everything in a relationship should be 50/50 no matter what. thats wat i believe. you shouldnt be giving ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should break things off with my boyfriend?
Q. im going out with this boy for 2 months who i really like and he really likes me but i think i am still in love with my ex, he borke up with me just less than a year ago. my ex's m8 is telling me he still has lots of feelings for me....please help ...
A. 12 April 2007: ok if your ex broke up with you them i dont think that you should get back with him. your boyfriend likes you rite? i think that you should give him a chance and if you dont see this going anywhere of your feelings tours him changes then leave him. ... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend had dry sex and my mate filmed it on her phone!
Q. me and my bf have had dry sex and my m8 filmed it on her fone and she has showed loads of people, but as i am only 13 loads of people are calling me a slut. but the real problem is that my bf wants to do it again but im not sure now that people are ...
A. 12 April 2007: do wat YOU want not wat your man wants. until the day that you get married and your man is paying your rent bills and all that you need then you do what they want but till then dont let no one tell you what to do. remember that... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't been showing any interest in sexual activity lately.
Q. My bf of a year hasn't been showing any interest in Sexual activity lately. He's been playing computer games, hanging out with his friends, not working. Just last night he became a little touchy feely with me, and I told him I wasn't in the mood ...
A. 12 April 2007: The truth is if you have been doing everything for him then yeah it's a sign that he thinks that you will always do everything for him.... (read in full...)
What if the guy you love is dating someone else? What should I do?
Q. what if the guy u love is dating someone ele? i really love him see befor we got together i told him i was pregnet and he said he didnt care he said it was gonna be his and he tells me so many things so sweet.... i really love him and i dont wan...
A. 10 April 2007: let him go. he could always get someone who will love you as much as you love him. a guy like that doesnt deserve you. trust me ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and barely hugged a boy while my friend has scored with someone! I need advice on how to do things with the boys??
Q. im just 13 i've started 2 talk 2 a boy whos 14 and i really like him but hes into se and everything..my best freind is going out with sum1 and scored and i've bearly even hugged a boy. i just want 2 fit in but i don't know how to do anythink i've ...
A. 10 April 2007: you shouldnt do anything with a boy just because your freind did it. you should be a leader not a follower. trust me i know... (read in full...)
Questions about birth control and pregnancy...advice please?
Q. i need some help i got a few questions 1 im on the injection is it possible that i might be pregnant because i keep being sick and getting tired 2my parents want me to go on the pill how will this harm my baby if i am pregnant 3 how much w...
A. 10 April 2007: 1)it could be possible to get pregnant while your on the injection. 2) if you think your pregnant take a pregnancy test and if your not then get on the pill cuz it could cause mental issues to your baby. so you should make sure first 3)wow a baby c... (read in full...)
He wants to go out with the boys more often on his own...will he cheat on me if he does?
Q. my long time boyfriend and i have been arguing about him going out with the boys lately. he wants to go out soon alone however i believ he may hang with a guy and girl...thats ok except the girl likes him and im not sure if she would do anything and ...
A. 10 April 2007: you know what if he tells you that he loves you and he looks into your eyes when he says it then he means it and if he means it then i dont think that he would do anything that would hurt your relationship. i learned that when i fell the same way ... (read in full...)
Guys! Does it matter to men if a woman has stretch marks on her body??
Q. Dear cupid, i know you dont have to be perfect to be found attractive but how important are stretch marks to men? and does it effect them being physically attracted to you?( a males opinion as well please) Thanks x...
A. 10 April 2007: you know what, i really think that it doesnt matter to men if you have stretch marks. they should like you the way you are.... (read in full...)
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