We had unprotected sex. Should I ask if everything is ok with her cycle?
Q. okay, awkward subject: I've been dating a girl I really like for the past 5 months. We've been having sex on the regular basically every time we see each other. Only thing though, last month (the 25th specifically) she was on her per...
A. 10 May 2013: cerberus thats a crazy and adolescent response! its no good ejaculating inside a woman and saying its in the lap of the gods!
yes us women can just flush a baby away no probs...not like its a life or death desicion cerberuseh? must be hard for... (read in full...)
Did I came on to her too aggressively?
Q. So, there was this girl who pretty much in every single class that I'm in this semester. Throughout the semester, I noticed she's been behaving anomaly, things like: 1) When class finished, I often stay back a minute or two to pack up my stuff...
A. 10 May 2013: Hi,
A friend of mine had a note on her winscreen once and she thought she had a stalker! If you thought she liked you then asking her out face to face would have better. Leaving that type of note and then SLOWELY revealing your identity would ha... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be thinking of marriage?
Q. Hi guys. Just a quick question. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 26. We have been together for 8 months. I really love him and he loves me. Everything is great. The trouble is we have started to talk about marriage- I want to marry him and think that he ...
A. 9 May 2013: Hey! i had the same doubt after my bf proposed on my 21st.
I accepted his proposal but latter called it off. Im coming up to 24 and looking back i realise how crazy it was to even consider marriage at 21. i am not the same person any longer, ... (read in full...)
Do women really get 'used for sex'?
Q. This is not a personal question but a general question about the concept of 'using' someone for sex which is usually used about women. Why do people assume that a woman is 'being used for sex' when she's in a friends with benefits situation or at ...
A. 6 May 2013: I agree. So many of my female friends slag blokes off for being a user and a liar...yet they knew damn well before getting into bed with the guy that he just wanted sex. They bed a guy knowing he just want no strings sex, then complain when he... (read in full...)
How can I help my b/f pick out a nice suit for a wedding?
Q. hello all!! this isn't a relationship question as such but im looking for advice regarding my boyfriend. He's attending a wedding in a few weeks and wants me to help him choose a suit to wear. He has a suit but, although there isn't anything wr...
A. 6 May 2013: Thanks all for your replies, especially Zippy78! Wow that's a lot of detail and much appreciated.
I can see now what was wrong before with his suit. He is a fair haired and blue eyed boy. His black suit with white shirt made his face "disappe... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a man 21 years older than me. Could it work?
Q. Hi, I am a 26 year old woman and I find a 45 year old man attractive who barely looks 40, he could pass for late 30s. My question is does anyone know of any successful stories of people with an age gap this big? My ex was 36, we split due to other ...
A. 5 May 2013: thats bull shit!!! condoms have been available in Europe for decades. In 1996 Spain, along with every other eurpoean country had condoms available easily!!
Hes making a fool of you OP
That's like claiming condoms were not available in Bir... (read in full...)
Co-worker will not stop asking me out even after saying no several times... what should I do?
Q. There is this guy I work with who has been showing interest in me for over a year. He is older than me by 10 or so years, but he is in a position below me. Several times he has told me that he is attracted to me, that he cares for me, and that he ...
A. 3 May 2013: OP im going to tell you from my own experience of this same situation that this guy isn't just some niave, inexperienced guy who need to learn to take the hint. He is clearly very emotionally mixed up. We all misinterpret someone's signals and end ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my instinct regarding this Medium and let it give me comfort, or am I being ripped off?
Q. I'm hoping all you good people can help me. I was very close to my nan who dies last year and I haven't really gotten over her loss yet. As a result i've been seeing a medium for the last few week who charges around £30 per sitting. My Boyfriend i...
A. 2 May 2013: Thank you everyone for your comments and kind words.
I do realize now that ive been a fool for believing this crap! Things seemed so real but now I can see how these things are done thank you!
Maisy x... (read in full...)
The mother of my unborn child wants nothing to do with me!
Q. She's 13 weeks pregnant and I swear she hates me and told me not to call or sms actually she dumped me...must I leave her? I really love her but seems like nothings gets fixed when I apologise and ask for secoind chance...yes its my child please ...
A. 1 May 2013: "I think hormones are killing her"...excuse me?? This has fuck all to do with her hormones and everything to do with the fact that YOU abused her. Was she pregnant when you abused her physically?? If so you should be ashamed of yourself. In fac... (read in full...)
How do I ask him in a nonchalant way what he expects from our next date?
Q. I have been on 3 dates with this guy and things are going smooth,he suggested our next date should be at his 'apartment'..we haven't had sex or made out yet we r just in 'getting to know each other' phase..he sent me a text earlier today saying 'so ...
A. 1 May 2013: You never ask a man what his expectation's are from the next date. That would be foolish and niaive. Honey, do you think he's honestly going to say he's looking to get you into bed? No! Should you believe his inevitable "innocent" respo... (read in full...)
Could I fall in love with someone who is always abroad?
Q. I have recently started doing online dating. I was just quite tired of trying to meet nice guys in clubs because it doesn't seem to be happening for me. A lot of guys were just plain sleazy and boring on the website, but I have started talking ...
A. 1 May 2013: Can you fall in love with someone you have know in the real world for a week?! No!! can you possibly love someone you've never actually met? No way!!! Love (as apposed to a crush, infactuation, or physical attraction) is about loving someone's... (read in full...)
Should I tell my cousin I love him, or make him fall in love with me?
Q. im a teenager, im in love with my cousin but he dosent know that. i want him to be my life partner. their family is so close to me. i tried hard to forget him, but unable to do it. i am unable to avoid him. when i see him my heart beat increases and ...
A. 30 April 2013: Lets look at the points you made one by one OP... " i want him to be my life partner" your 16 or 17! How can you possibly know what you want from the rest of your life when you are so young and inexperienced? You may feel really grown up now OP ... (read in full...)
She moved on, why did he succeed where I failed?
Q. I broke up with my ex of 2 years because the relationship was very toxic. She treated me very badly and I didn't respond in kind. She had a very tough past and kept remnants of it. After 2 prior breakups, I realized that this one was for good and ...
A. 30 April 2013: This new guy of hers clearly wont end up happy: Even if she wasn't on the rebound or suffering from her past, it would be a disaster!! How can he possibly know what she is really like after a couple of months? How can any sane, rational, mature, ... (read in full...)
I intend to stay with my boyfriend no matter what. Is that the wisest decision?
Q. My long distance boyfriend who I have known for eight months has recently began to take a long time responding to any messages that I send him. I asked him yesterday of why that is, and he said that normally he is doing multiple things on his ...
A. 29 April 2013: OP im just a little older than you and have been in that same situation a couple of years back. Me and my BF got together at 15 (me) and 16 (him) and thought it would be for ever and ever... I got to 20 and he was 21 and we thinking about m... (read in full...)
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