He is lying to me about watching gay porn!
Q. help! i have been with my husband for 5yrs and married for 2an a half, but things have been gettin a bit wierd! i knew about him watchin porn its happened bout 6times and everytime he swore it'd b the last, but its still happenin a yr on, but now ...
A. 20 December 2007: Before I comment on this I would like to know what is going on within your bedroom,your sexual relationship to be quite blunt. Also you may have married a Bisexual who is just beginning to discover his dual sexual Preferences for both gender, It ... (read in full...)
I think my 15 year old son was looking at my porn collection, how do I approach him?
Q. i believe my 15 yr old son has been looking at my few porn dvd collections which i kept well away from view in my room. i saw they ave been disturbed and one found under d bed where it should not be(maybe left in a hurry)I ave now gotten rid of a...
A. 20 December 2007: It's too bad that for most of us growing up that sex still is a dirty word. Why don't you and your son get together and talk about sex, wished my folks would have done that.when i needed it, but sad to say sex is still a dirty word, and not much has ... (read in full...)
I have never been cheated on and I had imagined we'd be together forever. Should I excuse his infidelity?
Q. So here is my problem, plain and clear: My boyfriend makes no god damn sense. I am 22 years old. I am in University for engineering with a 4.0 GPA. I work out 5-6 days a week and I weigh 125 pounds, I am in top notch shape. I keep every part of ...
A. 20 December 2007: Someone once said that if you put hair around a hole in a wooden fence, that there would be some man to use it for his sexual gratification. You would do well to read some books by your own gender,as you'll need to better understand male/female ... (read in full...)
This marriage has been based on lies and to make things worse his female colleague seems to be seducing him. He also went on holiday behind my back. Am I wasting my time?
Q. I am married with 2 children. My husband has been deceiving me for a while now, lies over silly things. He watches porn when on business trips, i have seen the evidence on his hotel receipts. I have not confronted him but i know that if i did he w...
A. 20 December 2007: Seeing as he isn't going to do any changing on his part, You need to make some long overdue changes. Take a walk and don't look back. Your are not in a marriage, Sweetheart. you'er in a social and an emotional battle-Zone. Do have a Great New Year ... (read in full...)
I'm a student and I want to have fun. Should I go and work in this german brothel?
Q. i am a young black woman living/studying in germany. german men show me a lot of attention and i like it. a friend of mine (german girl) who works at a place called the sexy inn (a brothel)says i would make a lot of money working as an escort. i ...
A. 20 December 2007: Irish said it all. So all I'll say in Passing is this. You seem to have everything in life but Common-Sense,and without that I do hope that you don't get AID'S. Have a nice Christmas.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is annoyed I did something that he had done in the past. What can I do?
Q. hey. i've been it a relationship with my partner for nearly a year now. at the beginning we were really happy. then about six months ago i found out that he'd been texing someone behind my back. he said some hurtful things about me to this other ...
A. 20 December 2007: Two wrongs don't make a right. You both need to share the blame for what you both have done. And if both of you can't forgive and forget, Well, It's time for you both to move on with your lives.
Merry Christmas and have a blessed New Year.... (read in full...)
My husband cheated and I don't enjoy sex, I can't even pretend. I'm a mess, how do I move on?
Q. My husband was the only man I knew sexually, we have been married 18 years I found out December 15, 2006 he was having an affair everything came out March/2007 I totally shut down, I had a terrible life growing up this was the one person I truly ...
A. 19 December 2007: I would look at his cheating in a different way than lots of people. My question would be,What is he looking for outside of your relationship? And what aren't you supplying, sexually, to keep him in your bed, and out of someone else's bed? Somewhere ... (read in full...)
Isn't it unacceptable to expect a married (or even single) woman (teacher) to share a hotel room with a man-colleague on a business trip? Am I old fashioned?
Q. This question and asking for opinions is coming from me and my husband. I am a new teacher, I waited until our kids were all in school to go to college. I am a reading specialist, and received an opportunity to attend a 3 day seminare in anot...
A. 19 December 2007: Do you know that what your School-Board is engaged in "is Sexual-Discrimination",And you do have good grounds for a lawsuit aginst your School-Distric,if you choose to pursue it. ... (read in full...)
Will him being a Muslim prevent us to... date?
Q. theres a new guy at my school, really nice and flirty hes got my msn. we flirt constantly online and then calm down a bit in school. now i really wanna go out with him and i think he wants to go out with me.... our problem is he is a muslim...an...
A. 19 December 2007: Here in the Philippines if you marry a woman,you marry the whole family,and that's what you'll be doing if you marry a Muslim. A mixed Religious marriage never works-out. Should know been there did that,so i know where I'm coming from. So do keep ... (read in full...)
How can my ex (who initiated the break up) treat me in such affectionate way, to then turn around and claim he is not attracted?
Q. I spent a good majority of this last summer dating a young man I used to go to highschool with. He was a musician, part of a band, and lived in a large house with his band-mates. After dating for maybe a week I moved in. 3 months later, he ended up ...
A. 19 December 2007: Your Ex doesn't seem to have it all together between his ears when it comes to you or any woman in his life. So my advice to you is to move on with your life,and find someone who knows how to love and care for a woman. Have a wonderful Christmas, ... (read in full...)
She thinks we are soulmates, but refuses a relationship. I've been in long distances before and it worked like a dream. Any ideas?
Q. this is a hard one. I'm very close friends with someone that i fancy like crazy, she knows it. I fell for her, couldnt help it. She wanted just friends. So i explained that every time i talk to her on the phone, she lives in glasgow me in stoke on ...
A. 19 December 2007: Yes,I have a great idea for the both of you,GO SLOW in your relationship and really get to know each other before sexing it up. Most of us men begin love with our Peckers,then move on into love while most women begin love with their hearts and minds ... (read in full...)
I've suspected for some time now that my partner may be having a sexual affair, a couple of days ago I found some intriguing might be evidence and need advice on how to go about confronting her with this?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for sometime now. She is in her late thirties and very attractive. She is a director of a company and socialises a lot with business colleagues and is often away on business trips. I work as a GP in a NHS ...
A. 19 December 2007: When the rubber hits the road,you'll have to consider what is best for you. Human Nature being what it is,sexually speaking,there is also a good chance that you,if the shoe were on the other foot,might be doing the samething. But then it doesn't ... (read in full...)
How can I avoid choking on it?
Q. Godness, the only reason why I dare posting this is because this is anonymous. I'm in a long distance relantionship with my beloved boyfriend and I love him lots. We both got tested and are noh healthy and I'm on the pill. We have a very expl...
A. 18 December 2007: First-off you are depriving your BF of a normal, healthy, sexual out-let with your Powerplay-Game Then you complain that his cum is more than you can handle. So let him Masturbate and enjoy himself,it will solve your problem. As for spitting out a ... (read in full...)
Do all men prefer anal sex and why? I do it to quench my husband's curiosity that drove him to an affair.
Q. please do all men prefer anal sex and why, i dont care for it my husband does....i am having a hard time because he was in an affair in trying this anal stuff out i think this is the curiousity that he proposed to some whore on the net and ended up ...
A. 18 December 2007: Anal sex should always be left up to the two people who are engaged in mutural,anal pleasuring of each other's bodies. "Note", I said "Mutural Consent" These are the key words that make it right or wrong. ... (read in full...)
What should I be doing after I have given him an orgasm?
Q. ok... so your young and you are performing things (such as handjobs or oral) with a partner for fun not as foreplay. so you finish giving a handjob, he has come, what next? do you kiss or just stop or should you carry on even if he has ejaculate...
A. 18 December 2007: Me I would wonder what he is doing for you before he has his orgasm. You don't want to get him conditioned to his early sexual recieving,his ejaculation,before he takes care of your sexual needs. Once us men come it's pretty much over,when it comes ... (read in full...)
He's cheated and got another girl pregnant but I still love him
Q. i was with a guy for 7months and i was very happy he told me that he had a friend /girl m8t that he had prevousely been haveing sex with her but said 2 one an other that if they find someone else it would stop.anyway so i accepted his honesty and he ...
A. 18 December 2007: I think that you need to look at love,his not your's, as us men see sex and love in the same light. And our so call love, or call it lust, can change when another skirt comes along. Sorry but I don't see that you got much going for you.... (read in full...)
How do I get her to admit she likes me?
Q. there is a girl in my class and i like her and its pretty obvious that she likes me. i need to know how to make her admit she likes me, she's a tough one to crack. what do you think? ...
A. 18 December 2007: Why don't you just continue being a kind,caring friend in her life,as for making anyone like us,well they have to do that on their own... (read in full...)
My husband has sex dreams every night and I am upset!
Q. My husband has strange bedtime habits - insight would be greatly appreciated. When he falls asleep he very often starts moaning, making noises like he's enjoying sex, occassionally he mutters something, and he is clealy in a sexually arroused state. ...
A. 6 December 2007: If the shoe were on the other foot,I hope the your husband would have the good sense to let you enjoy your mind Lovers,as that is what I would do. you are the one who needs to be showing him that it's okay to enjoy other women in Dream-Land. I am ... (read in full...)
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