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Is there a good chance she will turn around and want me back?
Q. Ok so I was dating this girl for like 2 weeks, she had a bad relationship in the past I mean the guy hit her and cheated on her all the time. But anyways we really did fall in love with each other in that short time frame and get along so good as if ...
A. 19 June 2009: Well there is always the chance that she's not really into you. Another possibility could still be stemming from her last relationship. Abuse damages a persons self-esteem and self worth and maybe she seriously thinks she's not good enough for you! ... (read in full...)
I want a girl to be a best friend before I fall in love
Q. Okay, well I'm a 17 year old male, going into my senior year next year. I've completely fallen for my best friend, who's an 18 year old girl who will be going off to college next fall. I've come to terms with the fact she doesn't love me the same...
A. 18 June 2009: Why not try casual dates? Like lunches or going for coffee. These situations are less demanding romantically that an evening dinner date out at a fancy resturaunt. That way you dress casually and get to know the girl on more of a friend basis, while ... (read in full...)
Does he have me wrapped around his little finger?
Q. okay well im 15 years old and just left school after my gcse's which is why im slightly worried about things that could happen over the summer :/ a boy in my year whos 16 has like me for longer than a year now and we were always texting and chat...
A. 17 June 2009: Totally sounds like a booty call to me as well. Don't have sex with him for a while and see if he talks to you anymore, if he doesnt then you know. It happens and it sucks but you just have to keep your head up and move on. It may not seem like it ... (read in full...)
Dumped after 4 years, no reason why, and now he's sort of leaving the door open?
Q. I was dumped by my boyfriend after almost 4 years together, and never given a real reason as to why and when I have tried to talk to him he is very cold and distant almost irritated. We met a couple of weeks ago and I said what I needed to say and ...
A. 17 June 2009: Looks to me like he isn't interested anymore. You are young so that 4 yr relationship started when you were waayy young. As people grow up they change, it's a part of life. I know it will be hard since you love him and have invested so much time ... (read in full...)
He abused me physically and emotionally, yet I stood up for him!
Q. Hi, my ex boyfriend and I dated for a good seven months, (i just ended it yesterday) During our relationship I put up with ALOT of BS and I mean alot!! I need to know if what I put up was abuse at all physical or verbal. *sigh* where the heck d...
A. 17 June 2009: Oh honey. I was in your shoes at your age. I just recently COMPLETELY ended that relationship 6 months ago. I went through 6 yrs of that. Its sexual, emotional, verbal, and physical abuse. He will never stop. He may have times when he seems to be ... (read in full...)
I want to be taken seriously, not just for sex
Q. ok this is a weird situation and queston. well I was at work today and one of my co workers asked me if anyone has ever told me that I had seductive eyes?! well I said no not in that way. well anyway she kept on and on with it and told me I had ...
A. 17 June 2009: A lot of guys do just want sex, a lot of guys want more. If you want to be taken seriously act serious, and be serious about your values. Start the dating process slow, get to know the person, if you jump into bed with them after knowing them a ... (read in full...)
I want a girl to be a best friend before I fall in love
Q. Okay, well I'm a 17 year old male, going into my senior year next year. I've completely fallen for my best friend, who's an 18 year old girl who will be going off to college next fall. I've come to terms with the fact she doesn't love me the same...
A. 17 June 2009: Honey, that's what everyone is looking for. Someone you spend the rest of your life with should be your best friend AND your lover and everything else in between. It's a tough search but if you stop comparing these girls to the other girl you will ... (read in full...)
She says she won't wait for me -- should I change my plans to keep her?
Q. Dear Aunties, My girlfriend and I of 7 long and horrible months have been talking about our futures outside of high school. Now, I want to join the military and she wont tell me what she wants to do... She has ideas... The main thing here is...
A. 17 June 2009: It seems so obvious to an outsider looking in. Leave her. If you compromise your dreams you will inevitably regret it. It doesn't seem like she cares very much about what you want out of life. It's your life and you must fulfill the way you want, no ... (read in full...)
Is there a good chance she will turn around and want me back?
Q. Ok so I was dating this girl for like 2 weeks, she had a bad relationship in the past I mean the guy hit her and cheated on her all the time. But anyways we really did fall in love with each other in that short time frame and get along so good as if ...
A. 17 June 2009: As a girl out of an abusive relationship I can understand her actions. I dont know her situation but for a while after that abusive relationship I was still afraid of my ex. Afraid of what he would do to me, or to my new guy ... So i didnt date at ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend even though I'm scared?
Q. I'd really like people's advice on this..... i have a boyfriend and we've been together for 2 years. both of us just went through our first year of college, each at different schools. our first year was heaven but college changed me, i tried new ...
A. 17 June 2009: You should probably leave him. If you dont love him the same as you once did time is only going to make things worse. Dont stay in a relationship out of sympathy it will hurt even more the longer you wait. If you think he's really serious about the ... (read in full...)
Really bizarre coincidences! What is going on here?
Q. Do you have really freaky coincidences? I don't know what to think of them. It is the third time ,that I got into a relationship, and all guys were called Ronan. And they all had the same car and all had some real weird about their past. So no...
A. 17 June 2009: Well maybe the first "Ronan" left you with the feeling that you wanted more so now you are drawn to people with that name. Thats my experience i have an ex which i despise we will call him Joe, everytime i meet someone named Joe I dont want to know ... (read in full...)
I miss my girlfriend when she is not around me
Q. hi guys, this is going to sound really pathettic. but i really miss my girlfriend. we are still together and i see her every weekend, but through the week i just miss her so bad. i feel down and just cant really be bothered with anything else. i ...
A. 16 June 2009: She may or not be back in contact with her ex'es. There is no harm in asking if that is something that is really bothering you. I don't know the situation about why you guys dont see eachother during the week... but maybe you both can work things ... (read in full...)
I love her and want commitment, but she doesn't seem to feel the same
Q. So where to begin...I guess five years back when I met this girl I swore would become my wife...She is from Italy and is very beautiful! She likes to flaunt her ass around and attract other guys attention but denies knowing this! Through the five ...
A. 16 June 2009: Sounds like she has commitment issues. Maybe she's just one of those people who like to have their cake and eat it too. If you are serious about making a commitment, you should find someone who is also serious. You two playing games with eachother ... (read in full...)
I cancelled the wedding due to serious doubts, but he is crying and begging..please help!
Q. Ok, so I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and everything has been wonderful. Just this past weekend I have cancelled our wedding which was to happen in 3months from now. He is 7 years older then I am and lately I have been feeling distant ...
A. 16 June 2009: Going out and partying is fun and all, but do you really want that to be all you have? You should really talk to him in detail about all of this if you want to work it out with him. Maybe he'd like to go out dancing with you too, or maybe he'd like ... (read in full...)
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