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writes: Do you have really freaky coincidences? I don't know what to think of them.It is the third time ,that I got into a relationship, and all guys were called Ronan.And they all had the same car and all had some real weird about their past.So now, I wonder if I should listen to this or just stay on the normal side.I mean, don't know if it is somehow really weird or just coincidence.What do you think about coincidences in general? Do they mean anything? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Ranon.. that's an interesting name. I've never heard it.
So it must come from an interesting place and background?
And if that's the case then i'd say:
You are attracted to a very certain kind of man, with a mysterious way about him and a certain ethnicity with certain status.
And by status i mean, his job title or how well he is making off in life so far. I draw this from the car. Is it a nice car? one that only a hard-working individual could afford? One that only a career-oriented could afford?
Or is it "loud statement car"? One that shouts, "i like to have fun," "I like fast cars," or "i just want to get where i'm going."
Any of those particular personalities may be appealing to you.
I say a mysterious way about him because you said they all have something weird about their past. And usually with an interesting past, comes a mysterious vibe that can be quite intreaguing.
Look at what all these men's characteristics say about them, and judge from that if it the type of man that you can't seem to help but be attacted to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Well my father told my step mom once that there are no such things as coincidences. I happen to agree and I just think that it is how life is reaching out to us. This comes into the question of what is the meaning of life. But well I guess if you google something, you'd find some interesting articles.
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom  +, writes (17 June 2009):
well it could be a sighn that you may need to keep an open mind on the people that you date. This ya girl, peace.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (17 June 2009):
Well maybe the first "Ronan" left you with the feeling that you wanted more so now you are drawn to people with that name. Thats my experience i have an ex which i despise we will call him Joe, everytime i meet someone named Joe I dont want to know anything about them at all. Then there is that elusive "one that got away" we will call him Bob. Everytime I meet someone named Bob I want to be their friend I'm naturally attracted to them just because of their name. Maybe I'm just a weirdo... but it's a possibility at the least. :)
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reader, PureKadence +, writes (17 June 2009):
Personally, I don't believe in coincidences. I would look for some meaning in it,Perhaps it's a sign you're continuing to put yourself in the same situations over and over again?Are the relationships with these men very different, or have they all progressed and ended the same way?If you're not satisfied with your relationships lately, it is definitely a sign that you need to change what you are doing, and find someone new to date.If you have been very happy with all these relationships, maybe it's just a strong sign you think you know what you want in a guy.However, I would suggest you try meeting new guys in a different way, getting out of your comfort zone. It's no fun to date the same people over and over again!
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