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I'm fresh out of an abusive relationship and a survivor of a very violent crime. I've been married, now seperated and somehow still manage to get a smile on my face most of the day. I'm in counceling and pray to God one day I feel like I did when I first came to this site. God Bless

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Is it normal to bleed after not having sex for a while?

Q.   I hadn't had sex for 4 years. I've met someone, we did it, but it hurt so much and I'm still bleeding, not scary bleeding but still. Why is that? I'm not a virgin and I was pretty wild up until 4 years ago. He was long but not too wide. It was ...

A.   27 May 2011: it shouldnt be painful the whole time, go get checked out sweetie..... i heard that HPV can make you bleed after sex and make it painful....but it could be nothing as well so don't freak out, just get it done so you can feel better... (read in full...)

Do you think he is using me?

Q.   Hi I'm a 23 yr old woman iv been with my boyfriend for almost 3months he never calls me unless I ring him,he hardly texts too. Three weeks ago I tried ringin him contiously as he did not pick up my calls and rhe next mornin he dumped me. When I m...

A.   27 May 2011: This guy is a jerk!! Leave him and do what your heart tells you to do in regards to you being pregnant... (read in full...)

He broke up because he's worried I'll cheat on him!

Q.   I and him broke up 1 months ago. In that time I think very carefully and figured out that he is the love of my life. But after I stopped contact him one week then he called me last saturday but then after 30 minute talking very nice, he asked me ...

A.   24 May 2011: Whether you give him the ring back or not, that shouldn't matter, you definetly need to tell him how you feel. Don't go on wondering what if!! Find out what it is he see's in this "juicy girl". Is it qualities you also hold or is it things you do ... (read in full...)

How do you know when you're ready to move in with your girl/boyfriend?

Q.   How long do couples date usually before moving in together?...

A.   24 May 2011: I think you should wait as long as possible. One thing about the relationship game is that it is very hard, in my opinion impossible to go backwards. Meaning, once you take that big step to move in together, there is no turning back. I think a ... (read in full...)

Is it wishful thinking that he likes me? Or could it be reality?

Q.   dear readers i need help i know you probably get questions like this all the time...im falling for this guy and im unsure if he likes me back...can any one shed some light on my situation? okay the background.. i met him 5 weeks ago, i only se...

A.   24 May 2011: Question #1 Have you kissed? I'm hoping the answer is yes and if it is then how does he kiss you? Is it sexy and passionate? Does he seem nervous or like he's trying to impress you? #2 How often does he call you first? and does he always c... (read in full...)

A million thoughts are going through my head after he told me he cheated on me!

Q.   Hey heres some background my boyfrind who iv been with over a year and is pregnant with his baby (just found out 2 months ago) Cheated on me about 3 or 4 months ago he confessed and i know he was truly sorry he was crying well he was tring to tell ...

A.   24 May 2011: I would have wanted all of those answers before I forgave him. How long it went on, did he like her, did he go down on her, was it premeditated, those are all important facts that I would have to know. If the answers were not that it just happened ... (read in full...)

I want to talk to my mom and bdsm but when I tried she said she'd send me to a therapist!

Q.   I am a masochist and I learned that I like bdsm. I mentioned the subject to my mom and asked what she thought and she told me that if I liked that stuff she'd send me to a doctor to get checked out. I dot think there's anything wrong with me. But I ...

A.   24 May 2011: hmmmm wow your in high school and have already determined what you are into sexually? and so much that the bruises are so noticable that your worried what people may think. maybe i don't know enough about bdsm to comment but it seems to me being ... (read in full...)

I think I've done everything wrong that women aren't supposed to do!

Q.   My boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long, only four months but i feel we have a very good strong relationship. My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me and has even spoken about marrige or spending his life with me, im his first love ...

A.   24 May 2011: lol well don't try the birth control pill, that one just made me even crazier...glad to hear you feel better about things. mom's try to help but sometimes really screw us up don't they. lol... (read in full...)

I saw a picture of a guy kissing her on the cheek. How can I get her back?

Q.   My girlfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago... We saw each other once a few days after the break up to talk were she ended things completely for now. A week went by and she called me in Friday saying that she wanted me to bring all of her stuff ...

A.   23 May 2011: there is no "getting her back" if she doesnt care. You need to find out if she did that to make you jealous, or to let you know she's moved on. then go from there... (read in full...)

Don't know what to get b/f for our 1 year anniversary

Q.   My one year anniversary with my boyfriend is a month away and I have been running out of ideas of what to give him. He is the type of guy who doesn't care much for clothes or material stuff that much so I think giving a nice shirt is not the most ...

A.   23 May 2011: Get him something to do with anything he loves, or a hobby he may have.....if he has none then maybe an hour massage at a spa....although guys would never buy one for themselves how could they possibly not enjoy it. who doesnt love feeling good? ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my boyfriend about kissing this other guy or not??

Q.   I had a massive argument with my boyfriend. Like a HUGE glass-throwing, wall-punching, screaming argument with him, and now that we have made up and are together again, I'm wondering whether I should be truthful with him, or just hide this secret so ...

A.   23 May 2011: NO!!! do not tell him!!!! trust me!!... (read in full...)

Should I give my ex another chance or will he just continue his previous behavior?

Q.   Hey everyone - would appreciate your thoughts! Basically just over a month ago my ex boyfriend was having doubts about our relationship as he was really unhappy and didn't know if it was us or something else that made him feel unhappy. He even ...

A.   23 May 2011: Give him another chance....u miss him too. It won't hurt as bad if he acts like an idiot again, you'll know you at least tried, or you'll end up living happily ever after. It's a win win. You will constantly compare him to the next guy and wonder ... (read in full...)

Any suggestions on getting wet naturally?

Q.   Hi everyone1. Please i need help. Am so worried about getting dry whenever i am having sex with my boyfriend. On many occasions we have to stop d sex and use gel or saliva just to get wet before we continue. Please is there anything i can do to get ...

A.   23 May 2011: k, now, are you cumming? Don't focus on getting wet so much as really enjoying the act. When he caresses you think about how good it feels, when you feel him deep inside of you, think of how deep and good that feels. I found being a woman, I can ... (read in full...)

Have I completely misread the situation?

Q.   I've been friends with a guy for a couple of years, he's been flirting, making all the right signals and chatting each day online. we see each other quite often, and recently met up on our own. all seemed fine, but then he started talking about ...

A.   23 May 2011: Ouch!! That one hurts! i would say you still don't know how he's feeling because he may have said that trying to find out where you were at in regards to feelings for him. Maybe that was his way of testing your waters, or maybe not. Good luck... (read in full...)

If a girl gives out her contact info to a guy without any intention of dating him, is it leading him on???

Q.   ok this friend of mine (a girl) got into an argument recently and i would love to hear your opinion on this. she is very pretty and she gets hit upon a lot. she is very friendly too so she engages guys in conversations. then they inevitably ask f...

A.   23 May 2011: Ok now to hear from a woman that's been the polite girl before. Please warn her that being "polite" as she calls it will eventually piss someone off when they realize its just a game to her. She will probally end up with a stalker or minimually in ... (read in full...)

I think I've done everything wrong that women aren't supposed to do!

Q.   My boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long, only four months but i feel we have a very good strong relationship. My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me and has even spoken about marrige or spending his life with me, im his first love ...

A.   23 May 2011: There is no rules to what a woman should or shouldn't do in a relationship!! The reason why is everybody falls in love with different people for different reasons. You telling him you loved him first, his reaction along with telling you he was ... (read in full...)

I always ruin things with a guy cause I feel he is too good for me. How do I change this way of thinking?

Q.   I'm not unattractive so I don't know why but when i meet a gorgeous looking guy who shows interest in me, i tend to think after 'how on earth did i manage that, why is he interested in me?' and i see other girls who are beautiful that I'm jealous of ...

A.   23 May 2011: Yes! I have experienced this quite a lot. I currently am with someone who is 6yrs younger than I, absolutely beautiful, in shape from head to toe...and I ask myself why all the time. I'm starting to realize he may have a very low self esteem. He ... (read in full...)

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