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Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 15 April 2009: my problem is not with all anonymous posters. Just the ones that say hateful or hurtful things && judge others constantly. It's like they're hiding who they really are so people can't lash out to them. I mean, if I have something to say I'll say it. ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 10 April 2009: one thing I also have to add on here: the worse thing of all is when people make negative && insulting comments but don't even try to help the asker out. Just answer the question! so what if you don't agree? This site is for advice! so give it!
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Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 10 April 2009: ok well let me try to get to everyone here.
SirenaBlusera, that's what I'm talking about! you gave your own opinion on something you don't necessarily agree with, but you actually answered the poor girl's question! why can't we all be a little ... (read in full...)
Cute vs Sexy
Q. I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...
A. 10 April 2009: thank you everyone. like I said in my earlier response, I am a t-shirt && jeans type of girl. I don't wear much skimpy clothes. I mean at the moment my breasts pop out of everything but It's cuz I am pregnant. My question is about before I got ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I was looking for one in particular but couldn't find it. however I have this link which made me think of the other one a while back. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/questions-i-need-answered-before-i-try-anal.html
this has some answers on it th... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: so true armymedic! and doesn't it seem as if the rudest comments come from anonymous posters? they're always so quick to judge on this site but they either aren't members, or they hide behind the "post this answer anonymously" box. hmm.. funny isn't ... (read in full...)
Too soon to get engaged?
Q. Is it too soon to get engaged after dating for less than a year.... like 6 or 7 months? I know that she is the one. I feel it with every fiber of my being, and she feels the same way. We have deep conversations about our future together. It woul...
A. 9 April 2009: no it's not. If you both feel like you belong together forever than go for it! true love is worth it.... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I'm not talking about "tough love" I'm talking about people making others feel like there is something wrong with them for trying new things. "tough love" is when you say "are you insane? don't do that! you'll just get hurt" I'm referring to ... (read in full...)
Teenage sex problems!
Q. I'm going round my boyfriends tonight and I think he's going to "finger" me. I'm concerned as I generally only use one finger and if he tries two I'm afraid it was hurt. Is this normal? ...
A. 9 April 2009: don't let him do anything that will make you uncomfortable! you're so young && your body has a lot of maturing to do. if he does something you're not ready for you could get hurt. only let him finger you once you feel ready.... (read in full...)
I'm soo turned on, but I'm a virgin!
Q. Hi im a 17 year girl. and im still a virgin. But recently all my mind is on is SEX. I cant even talk to man without thinking what it would be like to have sex with him. I get turned on by the smallest things. i'm also having dreams about me havin...
A. 9 April 2009: you're perfectly normal. you're a teenager therefor your hormones get the best of you. I don't think you should have random sex, but get to know your body! buy a sex toy && learn what you like. that way you'll be prepared for sex once you're in a ... (read in full...)
How do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?
Q. Hello, Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything, how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not? I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if...
A. 9 April 2009: I have a lot of respect for you for saying that you're not ready for sex. so many young girls on here think they are && make bad decisions. when the time is right, I'm sure you'll know it.
I wouldn't worry too much about it. if you want, trim the... (read in full...)
He was too fast for me then. Will he take it slow this time?
Q. I'm in an awkward situation at the moment. I started going out with the guy, it didn't work out. I've known him years (from school) but weren't all that close, and then i agreed to go out with him but realised that he wasnt my type and he told me ...
A. 9 April 2009: I think you should stay away from him. young guys rarely change how they behave in relationships. Don't go out with him or lead him on. If you want a relationship, you should look somewhere else because if he's too fast then that means he's not ... (read in full...)
Why do I need to respect their circumstances - if they themselves don't show it?
Q. Hi Peoples, After I broke up with my girlfriend who cheated on me, I've found I have only been with girls that have been in relationships. Either they have cheated or broken up with their boyfriends to be with me. This has been the case now for...
A. 9 April 2009: it takes two to tango. yes, it was wrong of you to hook up with a girl that was in a relationship, but it was just as much her fault as it was yours. It's not fair for her friends to blame you completely. it's not like you had a gun to her head. ... (read in full...)
Cute vs Sexy
Q. I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...
A. 9 April 2009: thank you honeypie. I really don't want to have to change who I am.
but it still upsets me when thet act that way.
also I forgot to add, I get along with guys way better than girls[ girls tend to start drama] but eventually my "friends" end up... (read in full...)
Cute vs Sexy
Q. I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...
A. 9 April 2009: thank you for your advice. actually I never wear clothes that reveal any cleavage unless it's a formal dress or something. I'm normally the t-shirt && ripped up blue jeans type of girl =]
but as far as being friendly, I'll try to watch how I ac... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: you guys are amazing. while I'm posting my responce to eyeswideopen, two more of you respond?? It's good to know that you're active on the site.
I know that some posters are pretty much asking for it, && in my post I really don't mean that all... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I agree with you, eyeswideopen, but don't you think that maybe we could convince them not to do things like that in a nicer way. little girls don't respond well to negative comments. idk, that situation is a bit different, like I said that's one of ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I glad you guys see what I'm saying. I myself sometimes get a bit upset on certain topics, like 13 year old girls having sex. but I try to educate them && inform them instead of judging them.
I know they're are a lot of good answers on here && ... (read in full...)
Being too harsh on my ex girlfriend?
Q. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer size 12. I just dumped her again recently and she's angry...
A. 9 April 2009: guys like you disgust me. I wouldn't be friends with a superficial jerk either. && you're 50?? grow up! your ex needs to realize that she's better off without you && can do way better.
it's guys like you that make girls feel bad about their ... (read in full...)
New mother: just curious when babies start to say their 1st word
Q. just a question that im curious about. my son who was 8 weeks early is actually following the developmental charts just fine. when will he speak his first word appx.?? just curious...
A. 8 April 2009: I talked in complete [simple] sentences when I was 6 months old. My bf said his first word at 8 months. I'm 6 months pregnant && can't wait to hear my son talk =]... (read in full...)
Caught my preteen sister masturbating with a sex toy.. should I inform my parents?
Q. Well.. recently, actually about 2 hours ago I walked in on my younger sister masturbating. And the thing that got me, it was with sex toy. She didn't see me at first, but then I yelled her name and she quickly covered up. She is only 12 years old,...
A. 8 April 2009: old guy- why would it be a sign of sexual abuse? I don't understand that at all. original poster- it's perfectly normal for young pre-teens to masturbate. I did it at that age, with a toy I might add. girls that age are going through a lot of... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out! My best mate grabbed my penis at the urinals!
Q. okay this was a really awkward moment,and im totaly freaked out!! okay me and my best bud "M" went to the movies and it was kool... after the movie was done we both had to take a piss so we went to the mens room, and we were using the urinals-...
A. 6 April 2009: your friend is obviously confused about his sexuality. It's ok that you freaked out, anyone else would as well. But since he's your best friend, you should talk to him about it, ask what it was all about, if he likes guys. Don't make hi, feel asha... (read in full...)
Questions I need answered before I try anal sex!
Q. Hiya, me and my partner are going to be having anal sex for the first time and I'd like to know if this is true - If you have anal sex regulary, every couple of months, does the women's hips and bum get bigger? Also when I'm 60 I won't be able ...
A. 6 April 2009: you go girl =] don't let anyone make you feel bad for being experimental and open!... (read in full...)
I'm scared she'll change her mind about the abortion.
Q. ok I have a huge problem! My girlfriend is pregnant, we are both 16 and have both been responsible. I have no idea how it happened as we had thought about it before and she was on the pill and I wore a condom which didn't rip or anything. An ...
A. 6 April 2009:
to anonymous female.
excuse me?! I am not hysterical. I just find it wrong that he wants her to have an abortion when she doesn't want to for herself. I also find it sad that this poor girl is willing to do something like this against he... (read in full...)
Opinions on women going braless
Q. Well I have been doing some research and I keep finding out that it has never been proven that bras help keep breast firm, or stop them from sagging. I've been thinking about this issue, and what bras mean in the bigger picture, and I just don't ...
A. 6 April 2009: I'm a 34D [actually a 32DD but I can never find bras in my size] and I don't always wear a bra, but when I go a whole day without one, my breasts hurt so bad! also I can't run or anything without one.
but I think they're in great shape regardle... (read in full...)
Hormonal changes in women during their period... quick poll!
Q. Quick poll: when a gal goes on her period: -Guys: does it happen that she can become difficult to deal with? As in, she's much shorter tempered and you can agitate her more easily? -Gals: do you tend to get short with people including your o...
A. 2 April 2009: I destroy everything && everyone in my path, lol. but after it's over I'm suddenly super-sweet =] My boyfriend has been able to handle it though. just never say to a girl "are you PMSing?" you will get your face ripped off, haha.... (read in full...)
I'm scared she'll change her mind about the abortion.
Q. ok I have a huge problem! My girlfriend is pregnant, we are both 16 and have both been responsible. I have no idea how it happened as we had thought about it before and she was on the pill and I wore a condom which didn't rip or anything. An ...
A. 2 April 2009: OH MY GOD! I just read your response where you said she's doing it for you????????? that's terrible. how would you be able to live with yourself?? so she's giving the baby up because YOU can't have a kid right now. you. not her. not even you && her. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared she'll change her mind about the abortion.
Q. ok I have a huge problem! My girlfriend is pregnant, we are both 16 and have both been responsible. I have no idea how it happened as we had thought about it before and she was on the pill and I wore a condom which didn't rip or anything. An ...
A. 2 April 2009: Ok, I'm going to be completely honest with you here. If she is having doubts about having an abortion than she shouldn't do it. I know it will be hard to deal with, but if she does this, it will destroy her for the rest of her life. If you really ... (read in full...)
Questions for pregnant or formerly pregnant women
Q. Hi there. I'm a little over 5 months along and and I have a lot of questions. Even if you only answer a few, I'd really appreciate it. 1- my breasts are pretty large now, will they stay that way? or be bigger after I'm done breastfeeding? I...
A. 26 March 2009: thank you very much for the input, it helps a lot. I have tried doggy style && being on top, but I also have a lot of pressure when I do that. that's the only thing I still need to figure out. any other suggestions?... (read in full...)
Questions I need answered before I try anal sex!
Q. Hiya, me and my partner are going to be having anal sex for the first time and I'd like to know if this is true - If you have anal sex regulary, every couple of months, does the women's hips and bum get bigger? Also when I'm 60 I won't be able ...
A. 25 March 2009: some of you people on here are ridiculous. you're not answering the question she's asking you're just giving your personal opinions on anal sex. I personally like anal sex, you need to remember that you're opinions are not the same as anyone elses ... (read in full...)
Am I a candidate for becoming a lesbian?
Q. Sometimes I spend 10 or 15 minutes standing naked before my full length door mirror admiring my beautiful body. I have shapely tits with perky nipples, a sexy ass, a flat stomach, shaplely legs with pretty little feet. It seems to me that I have a ...
A. 9 March 2009: hey there's nothing wring with loving your body && feeling beautiful! && it doesn't make you lesbian because you're looking at yourself not other girls. it's nice to see someone with a little [or a lot] self confidence. ... (read in full...)
Ladies poll - number, size, one night stands...
Q. Ladies Poll -- (1) How many men have you slept with? (2) Of that nimber, how many men would you say were well endowed, meaning say more than 8 inches and/or wide? (3) How many were one (or two night) stands? Thanks for your participation....
A. 9 March 2009: too many to count [I had a really bad past && regret it completely]
maybe 5 were well endowed. all were one night stands except my current boyfriend.... (read in full...)
My mother is abusive and I don't think I can take it anymore.
Q. I am 16 years old. When I was born, my mother was 16. She was an abusive parent since I was about two. I can remember being thrown against walls, having glass thrown at me, and being beaten with a stick. I also remember her drinking alcohol and ...
A. 9 March 2009: I cried reading your post because it reminded me so much of what I have gone through. you need to get out of there. The best option is to move in with a friend or your fiancee [if that is possible, I don't know how old he is]
there is no reason f... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants an abortion, but the thought of it makes me sick. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone. My fiancee was scared to death of becoming pregnant and now she is. We use contraception but nothing is 100% as you all know. She has always been adamant that she will get an abortion regardless of whether I want it or not and she says ...
A. 9 March 2009: I don't agree with the "her body, her decision" thing. YOU fathered this child which means you should have rights in this matter. yeah it's her body but this baby is a separate life inside her body.
I had an abortion when I was 16 years old. my ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a guy to be that good in bed yet have no prior experience??
Q. OK, this is my second question on here and and I just want to say thank you to everyone who responded to my last one, you were all very helpful. Anyways, I'm in an amazing long term relationship with my boyfriend. We are very much in love an...
A. 9 March 2009: I do trust him && I love him so much. it just seems a bit suspicious to me.
a few of you are saying it doesn't matter && I shouldn't care as long as I'm having amazing sex, but this is about honesty. I DO care if he is honest with me because ... (read in full...)
Underage... why do it???
Q. It's starting to become more common around my area, and it's starting to bug the hell out of me and get on my last nerve. There is obviously relationships in my area, but the thing that is worrying me is the fact that teens (12-15) are brag...
A. 9 March 2009: I agree. it's a huge mistake that they will regret later in life. I'm proud of you for choosing to enjoy childhood instead =]... (read in full...)
When do you draw a line when it comes to cheating?
Q. What constitues cheating? Some friends of ours got into a heated argument with my wife and I about what is cheating. Besides the obvious physical sexual contact, or emotional attachment to someone other than your spouse, what is cheating? 2 e...
A. 5 March 2009: cheating is whatever you && your wife define cheating as. if neither of you have a problem with what the other is doing, && don't consider it cheating, then it's not. It's different in every relationship, some things are cheating to some people ... (read in full...)
I feel like she could dump me at any moment, and for no reason, what's going on?
Q. Please help me! I just don't understand. I have been with my girlfriend for ages, and we have never once had any problems. When I first saw her today, she was perfectly happy, just like normal. An hour later, she was virtually crying, and very ...
A. 5 March 2009: ok, so you are 13-15. I'm assuming she is as well? She's a child who is becoming a teenager. she's probably hormonal, maybe she has her period, maybe she's getting it for the first time, maybe she feels too young for a relationship, some stupid ... (read in full...)
I discovered my b/f cheated and has had a child, how can I be sure he doesn't see his child?
Q. me and my boyfriend have two children together and going back last year i found out he has another child in between the age gap of my children he says he wants nothing to do with the other child. i found out he was seeing the child behind my back, ...
A. 5 March 2009: oh.. my.. god. it's terrible that he cheated on you && all, really it is. but keeping him from seeing his own child?!?! that's even worse! I understand that you're hurting && all, but seriously. you're a grown woman but you're acting like a child. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a guy to be that good in bed yet have no prior experience??
Q. OK, this is my second question on here and and I just want to say thank you to everyone who responded to my last one, you were all very helpful. Anyways, I'm in an amazing long term relationship with my boyfriend. We are very much in love an...
A. 5 March 2009: I know you guys are right. The only reason I care if he's been with other women is because if he has, then he lied to me. honesty is the most important thing to me in a relationship. I am extremely happy with him.
starfish- you could be right ab... (read in full...)
Not gaining any weight with my pregnancy, anyone know why not?
Q. I'm almost 19 weeks pregnant and just started exercising three weeks ago. Within the first few days I lost 2 pounds and I haven't gained a pound since. I'm almost 5 months and haven't gained any weight since my 4th month check-up. I haven't been ...
A. 5 March 2009: I'm about 19 weeks too && I only weigh 103 lbs. I was getting worried too as this is not much of a weight gain at all. are you showing at all? because I am but I still don't weigh much. I don't understand it. ... (read in full...)
My b/f suggested a FMF threesome because I miss touching a girl but I'm sure this would make me jealous, so what should I do?
Q. Hi. I'm in a great relationship with a guy that I'm completely in love with. we really don't have any problems with our relationship except we both get jealous. That has never really been a problem though, since we both are pretty jealous, we both ...
A. 5 March 2009: thank you so much everyone. I've decided not to do it. it's not like either one of us is bored && we both only want to be with the other person. I know I'll miss sex with girls, but I don't really care anymore, I love him && only him && that's all ... (read in full...)
Darn those haunting eyes! What to do ? HELP!
Q. All advice would be great! I like this woman and I am a woman. I have never been in a sexual relationship with the same sex.. I have 4 years ago had a friend that I kissed, we parted paths I was too scared and not ready for more. NOW TO MY PROBLEM ...
A. 4 March 2009: you should just go for it, ask her straight out if she has feelings for you in a way other than friendship. it sounds like she does but is afraid to show it too much or afraid to admit it. just go for it! ... (read in full...)
My b/f suggested a FMF threesome because I miss touching a girl but I'm sure this would make me jealous, so what should I do?
Q. Hi. I'm in a great relationship with a guy that I'm completely in love with. we really don't have any problems with our relationship except we both get jealous. That has never really been a problem though, since we both are pretty jealous, we both ...
A. 3 March 2009: thank you very much. I don't feel it's a stage, I just miss certain things about being with girls. I have always liked girls and guys && never questioned it. it's not so much as experimentation as it is expressing my sexuality.
&& I'm not worr... (read in full...)
I liked guys, then girls..and I'm confused!
Q. well where to start ok it all started when i fancyed this girl at school and we got close but nothink happend she was in denial so i just left it at that then i met this 30 summink year old who i really trusted she was cool and i talked 2 her about ...
A. 3 March 2009: I like girls && guys. I don't consider myself to be bi really, just sexual. you don't need to label yourself && there's nothing wrong with you. just go for what ever you feel like at the time. don't fret over it, you're fine.... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex but I don't like my body!
Q. hello (Im 14 and im still at school ) i have liked this boy for about 2 years now i told him last wednesday and he was like oh ok me and him had a fight on thursday he said sorry on friday and he gave me a long hug at break then he gave me a...
A. 3 March 2009: babe listen. don't do it. you're so young && you'll regret it. this guy does not love you. he's just a horny boy who wants to do it so bad he'll say anything. you're not ready, trust me. you'll just end up hurt. ... (read in full...)
Views on virginity
Q. Hey, I was just wondering what age did people lose their virginity and having lost it at that age do you wish you had been younger/older when it happened? I'm not thinking of having sex or anything quite yet, I'm just curious :) Thanks x...
A. 3 March 2009: when I was a little kid I was sexually abused.. a lot. I had been beaten and molested my whole childhood. Then at the age of 12 I was raped by someone I thought loved me. after that I ended up having sex with him because I didn't care anymore about ... (read in full...)
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