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anonymous
writes:Please help me! I just don't understand. I have been with my girlfriend for ages, and we have never once had any problems. When I first saw her today, she was perfectly happy, just like normal. An hour later, she was virtually crying, and very nearly dumped me, but didn't. I tried to talk to her, ask her what was wrong, and I don't think even she knows. I feel like she could dump me at any moment, and for no good reason, which is even worse. I don't know what to do or say...please help me :( Reply to this Question
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reader, kissxmexagainx  +, writes (5 March 2009):
 ok, so you are 13-15. I'm assuming she is as well? She's a child who is becoming a teenager. she's probably hormonal, maybe she has her period, maybe she's getting it for the first time, maybe she feels too young for a relationship, some stupid junior high/high school don't know which one you're in] kid said something about you to her that isn't necessarily true, to cause drama. maybe it has nothing to do with you at all, she may have gotten some bad news. just try to be there for her, without asking "what's wrong". young girls hate that. if she ends things, she ends things. you're just a kid yourself. you could end up back together in a few days, or you could move on. good luck with everything hun.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (5 March 2009):
 If you feel insecure in a relationship then should you really be in it? She seems like she has problems and she needs to sort them out before she tells you if she wants to dump you. Your only young and there are more fish in the sea, so even if she dumps you, you still have plenty of time for more girlfriends! X
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