Pain after foreplay, sometimes after masturbation, and always during sex.
Q. I am turning to you, Dear Cupid, because I am growing exhausted. I have been having sex for a few years now and have had a few different partners. But I've honestly never enjoyed it like I suspect I should. I feel dry and in pain almost imme...
A. 13 February 2010: I don't use toilet paper, either. I find it abrasive and ineffective. I've been using unscented baby wipes for years (I know- it sounds weird, but it keeps you cleaner than ever, and it's extremely gentle).... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 11 February 2010: 2 years ago I got out of a relationship with a guy who
1) Cheated on me
2) Put me in the hospital
3) Continued to cheat on me while I was there
4) Didn't even tell my family I was there, even when my heart stopped
5) Kicked me out before I g... (read in full...)
I feel like I am cursed being the ugly one in class
Q. hi i am a girl who is 16years old. i am not so goodlooking as others are in my college. i feel disgusted and it irritates a lot when i see goodlooking people around me. girls tease boys with my name. it feels so embarrassing that they use name to ...
A. 11 February 2010: Oh honey. I wish I could do something to make you feel better. I don't know what you look like, but in my lifetime I have seen very few genuinely ugly people. And you know what? Even though they weren't physically attractive, they were really great ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have friendly phone sex with a classmate when I have a boyfriend?
Q. well...im in a committed relationship...its been 7.5months..me and my bf really love each other..i want to ask that is it ok to have friendly phone sex with my classmate?(we actually don't mean it,its just 4 fun)i mean is it ok or whether i will be ...
A. 11 February 2010: 1. Unless your boyfriend would be cool with it- NO.
2. Unless you'd be okay if he did it to you- NO.
3. Phone sex is still sex. Oral sex is still sex. Sex is sex is sex. Sex outside a committed, monogamous relationship is cheating. It's pretty b... (read in full...)
Have I got my boyfriend enough for Valentines day?
Q. For valentines day I got my boyfriend a necklace and card. I was wondering if that would be enough?...
A. 11 February 2010: I used to want to put on the big production on Valentine's Day. I spent almost $100 on a valentine's once for an ex, on scented candles and sexy lingerie, and things like that. As it turns out, he almost always forgot Valentine's Day and never ... (read in full...)
Wild look!!!
Q. I recently spent a weekend at the beach with my BF. I didn't wear any makeup and didn't do my hair either. When we returned home I got back into my 'beauty' routine and he then told me he likes me the best with no make up and wild hair. I ...
A. 11 February 2010: First off, even though you don't understand it, you should feel really good about yourself right now. You can be who you are, dressed down, unmarked and completely bare, and he thinks you're hottest that way.
The reason behind it is that women ne... (read in full...)
Sex with next door neighbour .
Q. I came home just over two weeks ago and was working on my computer when my neighbours "beach ball" came over the fence, next when I hear a knock at the door and she was standing there in just a small bikini, and was Rather drunk, she came we had a ...
A. 11 February 2010: Wow, that sucks. I prefer relationships and have never had a casual encounter myself, but they're pretty normal.
There is no way you can do this without either insulting or hurting her feelings. Be gentle, tell her she's very attractive (after a... (read in full...)
Pain after foreplay, sometimes after masturbation, and always during sex.
Q. I am turning to you, Dear Cupid, because I am growing exhausted. I have been having sex for a few years now and have had a few different partners. But I've honestly never enjoyed it like I suspect I should. I feel dry and in pain almost imme...
A. 11 February 2010: There are a lot of things that can contribute. All of the suggestions you've had are excellent ones. If they don't work, here's the nitty gritty.
1. You might have vulvodynia. As I have it, it's a lot more common than I ever knew, and if you have... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting or is the age different too great?
Q. ok...well i just started talking to this guy and hes so sweet and i feel like we have been connecting but then i realized hes 27 and im 19. is there too much of an age difference or am i just overreacting? please help...just say its fine or i ...
A. 11 February 2010: I used to think that an age difference like that was a big deal. Now I'm married to a man 12 years my senior, and I couldn't be happier. First off, you're 19, so there aren't any laws at risk of being broken. Legally, you're an adult- albeit a new ... (read in full...)
Is there a problem dating my former teacher?
Q. I was wondering what peoples views/opinions were on two people 'dating' that were previously student and teacher. My music teacher (aged 38) from my school and I (aged 19) have been in contact since I left the school over a year ago now and have ...
A. 11 February 2010: It might be weird for his coworkers, but the issue with teachers and students dating is that: 1. Students are almost always minors 2. It is considered an abuse of power, because teachers are in a position of authority over you and demand your... (read in full...)
Why do I always seem to fancy older men?
Q. Hi, My current boyfriend is 54 and I am 30. The thing is i have always fancied older men. I have a stable family life and grew up with both my parents being there, i get on well with my dad. So i dont understand why i fancy older men? and not...
A. 11 February 2010: There isn't anything wrong with liking older men. I've always been attracted to men older than me. At first I thought I was simply attracted to the taboo of a relationship wherein most people would disagree with the age difference, but I simply ... (read in full...)
He's 12 years older and I'm scared to move forward.
Q. I am a 25 years old going on 26 and have never before dated anyone more that 4 years older than I am in the past. I recently met a man who is 38. I found out his age after I realized how interesting and intriguing he is. I do enjoy his company but ...
A. 11 February 2010: This tickles me! I am your age, and the age difference between myself and my fiance is also 12 years (go figure, huh?!) At first we were both terrified of the age difference, and snuck around, pretending to be friends. He has been a very close ... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 11 February 2010: This is an easy one for me. I think you need to figure yourself out. I mean, you start off by saying you were with a control freak who had a thumb on all aspects of your life and that she made a fool out of you, and your story then devolves into you ... (read in full...)
Should I explore life and leave my current boyfriend?
Q. Ok, i have a BF and we've been together for a year and a half. He is about 8 years older that i am, im 21. Do the math. Our relationship is good and strong. The only thing that is kinda bad is our sex life. There isn't 1.. 1 night a friend of mines ...
A. 11 February 2010: To be honest, I think you have incredible instincts and you just need someone to tell you it's okay to trust them. I'm 24, and after my last relationship, I realized that I had no idea who I was on my own. That's never a good place to be and would ... (read in full...)
Depression and love
Q. Okay I admit it. I am at a stage in my life where I am the typical Nice Guy. The one we hate to love. I'm the nice guy because my situation in life makes me insecure, lonely and very needy for attention and affection. Because of this when any girl ...
A. 11 February 2010: I don't immediately want to jump on the "are you gay" bandwagon. Though it is a valid consideration, it's an easy conclusion to jump to.
You think you're depressed. That's a great place to start, but it isn't everything. I know you're looking ... (read in full...)
He gives me higher grades than the others and that makes me feel good...
Q. Alright. So the question isn't does he like me, I already know that one of my teachers this year does. I have no interest in him for the record. He's a middle aged man, around 45-50 would be my guess and he's married with I thhink 3 daughters. He's ...
A. 11 February 2010: It depends on how you see his "liking" you. It could simply be that he has respect for you on an intellectual level. If you are smart, and mature, and responsible, and if you are punctual and not prone to missing class it may actually merit the ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and I am conteplating giving my boyfriend my virginity for valentines day
Q. ok. so me and my bf have been together for like EVER. we've been together so long that i lost count of the months. befor i lost count it was like 18 months. anyway i love him so much and i want to please him for v-day(if u know wat i mean) but im ...
A. 11 February 2010: I didn't lose my virginity until I was 17. I'd always been proud of being a virgin, and I was a little regretful of losing it. When I told my best friend, she called me a slut and stopped talking to me. I was with my boyfriend for 6 years, and he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has suggested a threesome, I'm worried I might feel jealous if we do
Q. I am 20 years old and have been in an a serious monagomous relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now..sex is great, we don't fight, and we love eachother...Recently he brought up bringing someone else into the bedroom or maybe even having ...
A. 11 February 2010: That's a pretty big dilemma, and if you say that both of you are happy in your relationship, it could be the end of it. I personally would be extremely jealous, and it would leave me always wondering if he secretly desired this other woman, or other ... (read in full...)
I admitted my past to him, now he wants to date other girls as well as me
Q. bout six years ago, I had a really, really close male friend who I was head over heels for. We were friends with benefits for a while. I thought - as a typical, inexperienced 15 year old girl - that this would make him fall for me. It didn't, ...
A. 11 February 2010: Okay, so you made a mistake about not being completely honest about your past with the friend who introduced you and your boyfriend. But, in your defense, you felt bad enough to want to be honest.
You're right. You didn't cheat, and when you were... (read in full...)
Does kissing a guy make me a whore?
Q. I have a boyfriend, we`ve been together for about 20 months now and + he is the best and most sweetest guy I have ever know. The problem though, is not him, it`s me. I have very strong feelings for this other guy. This other guy has a girlfriend ...
A. 11 February 2010: You're not a whore. This is completely evidence that you have a confusing infatuation for someone who is a complete jerk. In worrying that you may have told his girlfriend about the kiss, he made it seem like it was your fault, and backed up his ... (read in full...)
We used to be good friends but now that we are dating we fight all the time ....
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for close to 6 months now, and before that we were very good friends for quite some time. Now that we're dating all we ever seem to do is argue, and although I do truly care about him, I know this is not the ...
A. 11 February 2010: I was in a relationship like this for 6 years that became extremely psychologically abusive. Eventually he cheated on me, put me in the hospital and I nearly died. To top it off, while I was there he continued cheating on me, didn't tell anyone ... (read in full...)
I am so devastated that my husband has been looking at porn
Q. I am so devastated that my husband has been looking at porn...I have read all the advice I can find and realise that there are many different opinions on it...but for me its a non negotiable issue. Sadly I had been very cear with my usband about ...
A. 11 February 2010: I have this same problem with my fiance. He and I were friends before we started dating. I knew he had cheated in the past and he marks it as one of his deepest regrets- even to this day. Since we've been together, I've discussed with him that his ... (read in full...)
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